I HATE MY SP SO MUCH SOMEONE ACTUALLY GET ME OUT OF HERE
TL/DR WARNING
Ive been manifesting my SP for around 2 months now. I see him at work most days and i see this other guy, we will call him Max. Max is cute, football player and did an exchange program in America for 2 years. He also very clearly likes me.
Just found out my SP is trying to get me and Max together.
I’m upset and mad. I don’t want max I want him(SP), but he (SP) doesn’t seem to want me. But he flirts and we go out and he’s nice sometimes. We watch the same kind of shows and have the same music taste and hobbies. Also i’m upset because i told SP that i didn’t want a boyfriend after he said “i’ve got a guy for you” and he went against my wishes ofc.
At the same time I’m like fuck you, you don’t want my attention you won’t be getting it. I have a high self concept and i’m not gonna let one guy ruin it for me. but i also have ADHD which makes me really struggle with limerence.
The person (co worker) that told me SP was trying to set me up with Max, i asked him what exactly SP said and i was very clearly upset. Coworker that said “okay, which do you prefer, SP or Max”
GUYS I PANICKED AND TOLD HIM I DIDNT HAVE A CRUSH ON SP. such a self sabotager.
Also you should know, i dated someone i used to work with at my old place and got grape - with a D on the end and no G. Still not received recovered.
I have manifested this over and over and done love spells but he just doesn’t seem to budge.
I guess with is a rant post but also any advice would be great, thank you :)
the 3d is not something you need to fight. it merely mirrors your 4d.
your ego is not something you need to fight. you can ignore whatever it tries to tell you, because it holds no power unless you give it power.
your thoughts and doubts are not something you need to fight. they do not choose for you unless you allow it, so acknowledge them and let them pass.
your feelings and worries are not something you need to fight. they are part of human experience and don't mean shit unless you assume they do. allow yourself to feel, don't dwell on it, and move on.
your circumstances are not something you need to fight. as a conscious creator you have the power to change them, unless you tell yourself that you are a victim.
realise that there is nothing you need to fight or struggle against, because you are the limitless operant power and are in charge of everything you experience. you are in control.
do not give any importance to what does not please you, because what does not please you is irrelevant. focus your attention on what you want more of.
repeat after me: i do not let external factors decide for me, only i get to choose what my reality looks like.
Keep in mind this works for ME. so I'm sharing it. I'm a very strict person so I prefer stricter rules but always remember you make your own rules. This is kind of inspired by Sammy Ingram because I tried it out and it goes well with my mindset.
In 3 days No whining affirming challenge ( inspired by robotic affirming ) the instructions are :
As you wake up, do not touch any screens except for setting a timer of 10-20 or more minutes if you have. And just affirm. Affirm stubbornly and pretend it's done.
During the day everytime someone or something triggers you affirm robotically.
During tasks that are too boring affirm as well.
Take at least 30 minutes out of your day to do 3 separate 10 minutes session of focused affirming. The more sessions, the better.
Keep a self concept affirmation too, it helps with motivation. I.e : isn't it wonderful?, wow shifting/manifesting is do easy etc etc
No whining means not getting triggered, even if you wake up the next day in the same 3d ( which we never do, we are always manifesting little changes unconsciously ) just affirm even if you feel upset about it.
While you go to bed, if you fall asleep too fast then that's okay but if you can't then affirm calmly as if you're putting yourself to sleep. ( it shakes me awake sometimes ) so this one is optional but try it out.
You are free to feel upset or sad or taking breaks. But I highly recommend keeping your thoughts in your favor. Thoughts and feelings aren't same. Feelings are a part of your 3d and thoughts happen your mind which is linked to your inner world, 4d. You're changing your inner world not your 3d.
You can do this challenge for however long but just try it for 3 days consistently.
You can pick any desire, shifting or manifesting anything.
I'm not giving any guarantees that this is the only way to get what you want. This is just my way to manifest things and it works for me.
side note: i have a like fabric headband that has headphones in the side which i use to listen to mediations and subliminals
right so i was listening to Alunir’s ADHD guided meditation and my body went numb quickly, after a while it went COMPLETELY numb like it wasn’t even there.
i was visualising my DR room and like i could FEEL the difference. I have a big wardrobe next to my bed and i just KNEW it wasn’t there anymore like i seriously felt like i wasn’t in my CR room anymore. that silent knowing yk?
i was laying on my back and i could feel myself being in a different sleeping position even though i never moved.
but the whole time i could still hear the meditation and my theta wave that were playing after. i could still feel the headband on my head. i tried to fall asleep but the theta waves where so loud (if you know Alunir you know how quite she is) so i just took the headband of and told myself “when i wake up ill be in my DR” but nothing.
can anyone help me? what happened and what should i do about this headband thing?
I love making my own subliminals for literally everything but I want to make one for shifting. What are some great “I’m already in my DR” affirmations??
My Secret To : Manifesting ANYTHING Instantly AND seeing it in the 3D
disclaimer: this technique allows you to instantly shift into the state of the wish fulfilled, and the 3D will reflect that state, sometimes immediately, sometimes after a short interval.
i am also not claiming that this is the only / best method or that it will work for YOU, this is what works for ME. everyone's journey is different!!
hey guys!
today i'm gonna be talking about how to manifest or reality shift INSTANTLY!!!!, and a foolproof method to do those things. i'll be talking about loa as well!
first of all i want to introduce a concept to you. you may have already heard this before: you already have what you want.
and you’re probably like: “omg no i still have acne, omg no i can’t shift yet, i can’t be delulu. i don’t have those things, i can’t see them!”
yes. that’s just because the 3D hasn’t aligned yet. you don’t have to act like it’s there if you look in the mirror and it isn’t. i get it, it's frustrating!
and NOW you're probably thinking: “ugh what are you even talking about r u gonna bring up that 4D imagination stuff ur making it complicated ugh ugh”
NO. listen. this is simple. (and yes i will bring that up). the reason you want those things so badly is because your "future self" (state of the wish fulfilled now) already has them.
the reason you don't see what you want is because: your 3D hasn’t aligned yet. you haven’t aligned with your "future self" (state of the wish fulfilled now) yet.
THE REASON people say "you already have your desires": is not so you can be delusional and imagine things but not really have them. it's because they want you to understand that you and your "future self" are NOT separate entities. been paying attention to me saying "state of the wish fulfilled now?"
you’re ONE person. there is only NOW. when you understand this, when you completely step into the state of the wish fulfilled now, YOU can manifest instantly and see it in the 3D. you won't be imagining, you won't be desiring, you'll be having.
TIME (the thing that separates your present self from your future self) is a construct made up by humans, and we’ve been conditioned to think everything has to “take time.” that conditioning is literally the only reason you don’t shift instantly or manifest instantly.
of course, you don't HAVE to manifest instantly, because no matter what, you will manifest PERIOD.
but i will teach you how to step into the state of the wish fulfilled now, therefore allowing you to manifest instantly. less imagining, more having.
READY?!?!
YOU: "okay gabby.. so HOW do i manifest instantly?!?!?! HOW do i make the 3D start showing what i want!! HOW DO I ALIGN WITH MY FUTURE SELF? HOW do I GET WHAT I WANT?!?!?!!?"
ME: well that’s what i’m here to help you with!
i have foolproof methods that allowed me to start manifesting things instantly (seconds or under an hour!!)
FIRST METHOD:
my fav vocal technique (an affirmation i say once out loud):
“I am not available to live in a reality in which…”
for example: if you want to get rid of a headache, say: “I am no longer available to live in a reality in which I have a headache.” (i’ve gotten rid of headaches instantly like this.) i do this while looking up towards the sky / ceiling.
the reason this works is because you’re saying it with full belief that you don’t have that headache anymore. you’re aligning with the version of you who doesn’t have it. the 3D submits because you’ve claimed the position of your future self. words have power when you claim them with certainty.
things I’VE manifested with this
- headaches gone
- plans cancelled
- prettier face
- clearer skin
- skinnier
- subliminals working instantly
things YOU can manifest:
- all of the above
- the 3D aligning instantly (“I am no longer available to live in a reality in which the 3D does not align with my desires instantly.”)
- master manifester (“I am no longer available to live in a reality in which what I want does not manifest instantly.”)
- master shifter ("I am no longer available to live in a reality in which shifting is not something I can do easily." Though the way I personally manifest shifting is saying "I am no longer available to live in a reality in which i cannot shift from wherever i want, to wherever i want, whenever i want, instantly and accurately, in my sleep or in the blink of an eye." )
A mouthful, I know, but you don't have to say it often, and I like being specific. Just once works, unless you'd like to robotic affirm, and then you can simplify it.
and you can add on the double whammy: “I am living in a reality / only available to live in a reality in which [I am headache-free! / my desire is already mine!]”
SECOND METHOD:
acting as though i already have it, and that it is coming, therefore eliminating worry.
“Have faith in God. Truly, I say to you, whoever says to this mountain, 'Be taken up and thrown into the sea,' and does not doubt in his heart, but believes that what he says will come to pass, it will be done for him. Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours." (Mark 11:22-24
when someone asks you, "hey are you a shifter?" say: "yeah a master shifter! i shift whenever i want, and it's so easy!"
when you look in the mirror and your skin isn't clear, look closer and notice how it actually IS clearing up!
Neville said the “outer world” (3D) is a shadow of the inner imaginal world (4D). it always lags behind your inner state until the assumption is stable.
tldr: if you assume it's there, it's there. it's gonna show up because you assume it's there.
big vs small manifests:
i personally believe there is no difference between manifesting something as small as a headache or something as “big” as a house or a shift to Hogwarts. they’re the same. there are no big or small manifests, so get out of that mindset.
whether it’s “small” or “big,” you don’t need to figure out how. you only assume the wish fulfilled, feel it real, and let it be. and if you want it to unfold instantly, it will, because you have that power.
restaurant metaphor moment:
you don’t order food at a restaurant and then wonder which waiter’s gonna bring it, or how the chef’s making it, or what plate it’s coming on. you just order and then you know it’s coming. period.
manifesting is the same. you “order” it, therefore it’s yours. it will come. know that. again, your future self has it, so you will too, because you are the same person, nothing separates you.
want it to arrive faster? like i said before: align with the you that already has it. the 3D has no choice but to submit.
HOW do you do this? persist in the assumption that you’re already a master manifester, that your skin is clear, that you’re a master shifter, that shifting is easy-peasy for you. once you assume your desire is already real, it is.
"i don't need to worry or even think about it, i already am. it will come because it's guaranteed, because i already have it."
extra tip:
you don't only have to say it once! keep reminding yourself, because sometimes we doubt and that's okay. (you can even affirm using that! "even if i doubt, i know i'll get it." "what am i thinking? i already know i'm.." "LMAO dk why i'm doubting, i'm already")
but despite the doubts, you want what you want and just because of that desire to align with your desires, you will get it!
last bonus abt affirmations (SUPER IMPORTANT!!!!!!)
IN MY OPINION, affirming is only useful when you feel. put emotions into it. anger, sadness, happiness, joy, gratefulness, put that into your words. charge them with emotional energy. words mean nothing unless they have actual emotion behind them.
the key is to feel and assume and therefore KNOW that you're in the state of the wish fulfilled.
say it once with full belief, or repeat until it feels natural but don’t do it mechanically (without emotion). do it to anchor the state.
NEVILLE GODDARD QUOTES OF THE DAY:
“Imagine that you are already what you want to be, and you will become it. You cannot be in one image and not suffer the consequences of not being in another.”
“Assumptions, though false, if persisted in, will harden into fact.”
“You do nothing about the objective world; it always molds itself in harmony with that which you are conscious of being.”
shift RIGHT NOW to a parallel reality where something is a little different - something that could happen in its own. last time i shifted to a parallel reality where my manager would let me go home early (i started at 12 and he let me go home at 2 - i was supposed to finish at 20:30)
today the time will go really fast for me - i DON’T wanna work.
