Two Blue Pills

Rhea XXIV ⚧ 雲 ▼ ♉ ॐ She/Her Pan/Poly +++ PDX

[crazy-brazilian]

[crimsonflowerz]

adventuring is fucking stupid anyway.

[fxlthyangxl-deactivated20240122]

[tapireye-deactivated20220708]

Hairstyling by Mitsuki Jurk.

[headspace-hotel]

I have been observing things about relationships. while I think resolving conflicts the (stereotypical) Redneck Way like some of my kinfolks, by beating up or shooting people, is definitely bad, resolving conflicts the opposite of the Redneck Way like other acquaintances I have come to know, where everyone talks openly about Boundaries and Communication but disagreement, anger, or boundary-enforcing are so uncomfortable that conflicts plink their way through a maze of gossip and conversations in closed pools before getting resolved through unexplained ghosting or ignored through manipulation and grudge-holding, is also bad

[headspace-hotel]

people who think that yelling is always bad have the worst relationship skills. If you can envision enforcing boundaries through politely saying "no" but can't imagine yelling at someone, the concept of boundaries hasn't quite been applied yet

What i'm saying is, if I was being assaulted, I would hit someone. That is in my toolbox at all times. The goal isn't to completely eliminate aggression from your toolbox, it's to communicate well enough that aggression isn't your only tool, and people KNOW long, long before they reach your Danger Zone

when you can't say "no" but you can punch someone, you end up killing your brother accidentally over a donut.

When you can say "no" politely but you can't raise your voice or be a little bit of a bitch or whatever is needed, you either don't have a Danger Zone (bad!) or don't know where your Danger Zone is (bad!)

a lot of people function that way and they have interactions that leave them feeling uncomfortable and disrespected but they don't really do anything about it until a line is crossed that potentially neither person really knew was there, and the only solution those people can think of is to end the relationship or cast the other person as a horrible person or whatever

[thewoodbetween]

Stormy Weather ~ Leonard Koscianski

[rednines]

[parkchanwoohoo]

are nonbinary people allowed to use words like "bitch" and "cunt"? it feels unfair to say youre only allowed if youre afab, but if only women can say that isnt it also unfair to let any nonbinary people say it?

This is going to sound dismissive but I promise I'm not trying to be, and I mean this genuinely and sincerely: None of that matters even a little bit

[naropinosa]

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[sebas-chan-butler]

새히

Posted with permission!

[femmedesyeuxnoirs]

[coyotebabe-deactivated20230727]

why does gopuff have the option to share your order? as if i wanna tell all my friends im ordering 6 double decker oatmeal creme pies, a pint of ice cream, and a 2 liter of pineapple fanta at 7 in the morning

[shoku-and-awe]

[neoncitybaby-deactivated2020041]

[thexlizardxqueen]

i hate how if i talk like a “nigga” i get more sympathy outta yt ppl than i’d i was just like normal me. like literally how i type can mean the difference. years ago it mattered if i talked like them is get ahead. now if i talk like they “think” i should i get ahead. shits rigged.

[micro-usb-deactivated20230625]

[cultural-antifascism-deactivate]

In Yiddish we don’t say “I love you” we say “דאַלוי פּאָליציי” which roughly translates to “you’re my moon” and I think that’s beautiful. 

[saintlaikaa-deactivated20210412]

cute!!!

[cultural-antifascism-deactivate]

sorry so this is an old joke I reblogged recently based off a meme format from like 5 years ago that I thought my mutuals would still find funny and didn’t realize people would think I’m serious. the phrase above, daloy politsey, actually translates to “fuck the police” 

[tamamita]

cute!!!