Gay Coach

Exclusively for gay men over 40. If you want to get married, settle down and live a happy life, this blog will help you get there. For more visit PaulAngelo.com

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We Are All Closeted (Gay)

Coming out is not limited to telling others you are gay. Proper coming out includes healthy socialization that involves multiple parts. These parts include the mind, emotions, spirit, and body, and they all contribute to a healthy and wholesome dating life. In this video, we'll take a closer look at these four dimensions and explain why wholesome dating involves all of them, while fragmented dating involves only the sexual part.

Our difficulties with relationships start here.  We are not fully out - most gay men are still closeted.  Coming out is not limited to telling others you are gay. Proper coming out includes healthy socialization with 30-50 gay men in a non-sexual way.  Watch the video for more insights.

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Friends - Dating is the birth or the death of your relationship. When you trivialize the WAY you meet gay men, you end up single and lonely in your 60s and your retirement turns into the worse nightmare instead of the celebration of your life!

Don't retire into loneliness and depression!

Get a world-class dating strategy and meet healthy gay men when you join us at https://BigGayFamily.com.

See you in the program!

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Your dating strategy can be upgraded significantly. Learn how in this podcast. Dating through the heart offers the greatest opportunity for love and long-term relationships. So far, most gay men have focused on arousal-based dating, which is about sexual compatibility. Some gay men have tried the mental model for dating by having clarity about the criteria for lovers and looking for those gay men who match those criteria. But very few gay men have tried the heart strategy for dating.

Your dating strategy can be upgraded significantly. Learn how in this podcast. Dating through the heart offers the greatest opportunity for love and long-term relationships. So far, most gay men have focused on arousal-based dating, which is about sexual compatibility. Some gay men have tried the mental model for dating by having clarity about the criteria for lovers and looking for those gay men who match those criteria. But very few gay men have tried the heart strategy for dating.

When you lead with the heart, you have a chance to connect to a wider range of men and you are able to give love and receive love right now instead of waiting and hoping to meet someone in the future.

Arousal keeps us stuck in sexual fantasy. The mind keeps us stuck in the future. The heart, however, brings you back to the present moment, and practicing this approach offers the greatest opportunity for love in your life. Please watch this podcast to learn more.

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Sex Vs. Happiness (Gay)

Why are most gay men over 40 unhappy and lonely? Why is happiness so difficult to find amongst the gay c population? Is it possible that gay men are

You will find this podcast very helpful in understanding why gay men search for violent sex and how shame and humiliation affect our sexual impulses and arousal. You will be able to see that sexual compatibility is compensation for fear of intimacy, genitalia insecurities, and lack of communication skills. When you work through those insecurities, sexual neutrality is possible, and with that true love with another man.

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How To Date Like A Pro (Gay)

Discover the importance of tempo during dating. Without proper dating cadence, most relationships never happen and dating becomes frustrating and leads to disappointment. This video sheds light on the most important part of gay dating strategy and how to date successfully.

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How To Enjoy Being Gay

Learn how to enjoy being gay in today's world. Discover the methodology that ensures you can love being gay, create beautiful relationships and feel happy. You will also learn about the 3P framework that ensures healthy and long-term relationships. The right PEOPLE, the right PLACES, and the right dating PROCESS. Enjoy the video!

Friends,

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Learn how to enjoy being gay in today’s world. Discover the methodology that ensures you can love being gay, create beautiful relationships and feel happy. You will also learn about the 3P framework that ensures healthy and long-term relationships. The right PEOPLE, the right PLACES, and the right dating PROCESS. Enjoy the video!

See you in the Program. Paul

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Going Beyond Sexual Arousal (Gay)

What happens when a gay man thinks about sex all the time? He eventually enters a state of mind called arousal. Arousal becomes his daily mental state through which he looks at every gay man around him. Even if someone was offering love, he cannot see it. He can only see flesh and sexuality.

Dear Gay Friends - This podcast is filled with good stuff. Please watch it!

What happens when a gay man thinks about sex all the time? He eventually enters a state of mind called arousal. Arousal becomes his daily mental state through which he looks at every gay man around him. Even if someone was offering love, he cannot see it. He can only see flesh and sexuality.

Click below to watch the video: http://www.paulangelo.com/going-beyond-sexual-arousal-gay/

If someone is new to hookup apps, he can witness the arousal state slowly taking him over…he will begin to feel an alternative worldview being conditioned onto him. That alternative worldview is the state of arousal.Some gay men refuse to participate in that world but most succumb to it. 

The world of arousal is maintained by an artificially high level of exposure to porn & sex that rarely goes away and keeps a gay man in a prison of possibilities.

Because higher-level functioning is not possible in the world of arousal – all attempts to find love are often painful and confusing.

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How To Have Gay Sex Correctly

In this video, you will learn about how to have gay sex properly with your lover. You will learn about the psychology of healthy gay sex and how to create experiences that bring intimacy, emotions, and sensuality together. This video is a deeper dive, consisting of 4 parts, guiding you step by step to understand the ingredients of healthy gay sex.

Friends,

In this video, you will learn about how to have gay sex properly with your lover. You will learn about the psychology of healthy gay sex and how to create experiences that bring intimacy, emotions, and sensuality together. This video is a deeper dive, consisting of 4 parts, guiding you step by step to understand the ingredients of healthy gay sex.

Still single and frustrated? Join Big Gay Family: Visit http://BigGayFamily.com

Enjoy, Paul

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Grindr The Mental Gay Ward

When you use Grindr, most interactions involve shame and humiliation and therefore occur at the very bottom of human consciousness. Knowing this is helpful because in the pursuit of love and friendship we forget the requirements for love and friendship and we set ourselves up for disappointment every time.

When people use Grindr, they are often unaware of how unhealthy, and frankly, toxic Grindr is to our minds, consciousness, and spirit. In this video, I bring up the work of David Hawkins about human consciousness.

In his book “Power Vs Force” he talks about levels of consciousness ranging from 0 to 1,000. He puts God-Consciousness at level 1000 and shame/guilt/humiliation at level 0.

When you use Grindr, most interactions involve shame and humiliation and therefore occur at the very bottom of human consciousness. Knowing this is helpful because in the pursuit of love and friendship we forget the requirements for love and friendship and we set ourselves up for disappointment every time.

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Gay 2.0 – Beyond The Self Evident

The gay culture needs meaning and depth to empower gay men to live in wholeness instead of fragmentation. Love and fulfillment can never come from sex. This video teaches you how to make the leap from the primitive into the sophisticated and create relationships that last forever.

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Are Gay Men Betrayed By LGBT?

Are gay men asked to promote LGBT ideas that have nothing to do with them? Are gay men used by the LGBT movement to push the transgender agenda? Where do the ideas about the direction of LGBT come from? Who chooses the LGBT letters?

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Resolving Top Bottom Mismatch In Gay Sexuality

Many gay men have difficulties resolving sexual issues during dating. In this video, you will learn how to continue dating someone even though sexual compatibility is unknown or is missing.

Many gay men have difficulties resolving sexual issues during dating. In this video, you will learn how to continue dating someone even though sexual compatibility is unknown or is missing.

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5 Stages Of Gay Life & How To Keep Lovers Forever

Don't spend your whole life inside the first 2 stages of GAY LIFE! Go to the next stage of you life and build relationships that TAKE you there! The number one challenge for gay men today is the complexity of issues that come from lack of alignment between chronological age and psychological age. These issues show up in inappropriate choices for partners, overemphasis on sex and rejections of others because of status.

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Win The Morning, WIN THE DAY! Listen Every Day! MORNING MOTIVATION

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How to not waste your life(4 toxic escapism habits)

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Stop Punishing Yourself By Being Single (Gay)

Get a deeper insight into what may be stopping you from creating relationships that work. For many gay men, being single is not just about not being able to find a compatible partner - it often is a self-inflicted punishment for

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Man-To-Man Talk About The Gay Relationship Crisis

Why are relationships so difficult for gay men? Why are most gay men single? What is going on under the surface that may not be visible that creates this crisis? This video explains the mindsets that most gay men have that contribute to their frustrations with relationships and how to break through to the other side.

Why are relationships so difficult for gay men? Why are most gay men single? What is going on under the surface that may not be visible that creates this crisis?This video explains the mindsets that most gay men have that contribute to their frustrations with relationships and how to break through to the other side.We often have assumptions about love, relationships and sex and those assumptions have never been challenged and investigated.So, live passes by and we still struggle with meeting men and making relationships work. In this video you will discover how to turn it all around and succeed despite all these challenges.