Society takes our souls

Only the weak know how to survive.

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New post on my blog www.hannahpontillo.com I think this has been the most heartfelt post yet! Let me know what you think as always! 🖤 (at Hove)

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[carlamakesnofilms]

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“People will stab you, and then get offended, saying you have no right to bleed.”

— Eliot Knight

[skinoutqueen]

I really cannot believe how nasty I can be when provoked by the right person. It’s sensational.

[attendance]

““… and we are in bed together laughing and we don’t care about anything.””

—

Charles Bukowski

(me)

[snivy]

literally everything is unisex if u stop giving a fuck

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Emotions are hitting hard today as I look at the snow thinking that Dexy should be here to experience it for the first time! Missing this little dude so much recently! Phil and myself opened the air tight bag with his blanket and Teddy in last night. His smell was comforting but also extremely heart breaking! 🖤thank you @remembermybaby for these amazing photos once again! 🖤 (at Brighton)

[rainbowsupahead]

She "lost" the baby

I hate the expression “she lost the baby”. Like it was an accident, an “ooops” moment. She mislaid her baby, how silly! It also just adds to the mountain of guilt a mother already feels after a miscarriage or stillbirth. It makes it sound like it was her fault, like she could have done something to prevent it. Trust me, she already feels responsible, she doesn’t need reminding

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Join me on Vero. http://get.vero.co/vero

[teenagecrush]

[tibby]

it’s always alarming to me that people joined tumblr after 2012 and have no idea what the site was like before they joined. they don’t know about “can you make this ask rebloggable?” and lolsummer69 and the tumbleasts and that week in 2010 when we all seriously thought 4chan would shut the site down. tumblr university and the glee/superwholock blogs vs hipster blogs ‘War’ are foreign concepts to them. they didn’t have to live through the mishapocalypse and people calling david karp “daddy” and the takedown of tumblr user pizza. they’ve never seen a 500k over-saturated gif with the topaz effect because they’ve always lived in a world where we had decent psds and photosets and the 2mb/3mb limit. the other day i saw someone confused because they didn’t understand a reference to the Tumblr Code post. there are users that think a tumblr con is a good idea. these kids know how to discourse but they don’t know their tumblr history and our suffering. “Those who forget the past are doomed to repeat it,” and i really can’t live through another era of gif stories and people calling others “peasant.”

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Coping as a couple after childloss.

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If you love a good old cringe worthy love story... I’ve posted about phil and my relationship over on my blog! It’s super funny 🤓 (at Hove)

[fertility-matters]

Trying To Navigate Life After Child Loss

A follower of this blog shared a website she started to help others navigate the grief of child loss. Feel free to submit a story, find resources for support, or connect with others there. You are all so loved. <3

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I’ve posted a new post on my blog about my aftercare and how I’ve felt let down by certain parts of it!! Go have a read! hannahpontillo.com 🖤 (at Hove)

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