Lets have a little chat.....
What has happened in the community this week is a mixture of sad, heartbreaking, disgusting, ridiculous, and so much more. I could really go on and on.
We lost a wonderful member of our community this week because of someone's ignorance. ONE person's pure ignorance and selfishness. A person who went out of their way to hurt someone, who is nothing but kind and giving.
What happened to Mary this week is honestly just proof that no matter, and I mean NO MATTER how kind and giving you are, it's just not enough in this community. And honestly it's sad, as well as absolutely pathetic.
Women in the feederism community, shouldn't have to worry about having regular social media in their REGULAR lives, outside of fetish and kink stuff. For fear that some entitled asshole is going to go and find them, and expose them.
Sex workers are providing YOU a favor, by posting our bodies, and content for YOU to enjoy. And it's a damn shame that even with that, we still can't get respect. This sense of entitlement that has formed in the feedist community, is just out of control.
With that being said.... Just a few friendly reminders...
Just because you donate/contribute to a feedee or gainer, OR buy their content, doesn't mean they owe you anything. They literally owe you Nothing. Not a damn thing. If you do any of those things, it's a choice that YOU are making because YOU want to. And a lot of you really need to remember that. If you think that you earn some kind of special right or access, because you buy a feedee dinner or a gift off their wishlist, I got news for you.
A sex worker's personal life outside of kink is absolutely no one in the community's business. Unless you know the person on a very friendly basis outside of kink and you swapped accounts, stay out of our fucking business. Our personal lives don't concern you. You only need to know what we choose for you to see. Stop feeling like you're entitled and have the right to fuck with our lives because you got your panties in a bunch over not getting what you think you deserve /what is "owed to you". Because again that is NOTHING, just to clarify once more.
And lastly... RESPECT SEX WORKERS. IT'S NOT HARD. We are regular people, providing a service to you. We deserve to be respected and treated like human beings.
There's too much toxic shit in this community, and it needs to stop. Because it makes everything about this community not enjoyable.