Leeyonce, The Book

I don't give a fuck about a lot of things. I fall in love with boys I have never met. Beauty is not everything. Curvy girls have more fun. Sex is good for you, its even better if he is rough and you are submissive. Roll me a blunt, pour me a drink and I'll tell you all my dirty secretes. This is my life,and I want you to know that I am both happy and sad and I'm still tryna figure out shit about the world.

[6lacksoul]

[odinsblog]

[ijustwanttobeahealthyhappyvegan1]

[miniature-stigmata]

fetishizing fat bodies does not make you body positive

[feministism]

by recipesforselflove

[kushandwizdom]

[lemmetakeabite]

Sometimes this backfires.

[scorpy]

[agelessambition]

[itsbeezo]

Moments like these are irreplaceable.

[blackanese-princess]

Truly

[hippiesispunkz]

[peonyswimwear]

[intrus-deactivated20160825]

[thagoodthings]

😕

[tsunamiwavesurfing]

😂😂😭

[bryantsupreme]

just drag me….cause this is me all day

[taviacw]

This hurt my feelings

[jehovahhthickness]

[vampireapologist-archive-deacti]

it’s the 90s and nobody in your house gives a fuck about matching kitchenware moodboard

[blackbrasil-deactivated20181217]

All you can do is learn your lesson. There’s no point in wishing you had did differently. The past is the past.

[giandujakiss-deactivated2021081]

The female price of male pleasure

Let's talk about bad sex

Women are constantly and specifically trained out of noticing or responding to their bodily discomfort, particularly if they want to be sexually “viable.” Have you looked at how women are “supposed” to present themselves as sexually attractive? High heels? Trainers? Spanx? These are things designed to wrench bodies. Men can be appealing in comfy clothes. They walk in shoes that don’t shorten their Achilles tendons. They don’t need to get the hair ripped off their genitals or take needles to the face to be perceived as “conventionally” attractive. They can — just as women can — opt out of all this, but the baseline expectations are simply different, and it’s ludicrous to pretend they aren’t.

The old implied social bargain between women and men (which Andrew Sullivan calls “natural”) is that one side will endure a great deal of discomfort and pain for the other’s pleasure and delight. And we’ve all agreed to act like that’s normal, and just how the world works….

Women are supposed to perform comfort and pleasure they do not feel under conditions that make genuine comfort almost impossible. Next time you see a woman breezily laughing in a complicated and revealing gown that requires her not to eat or drink for hours, know a) that you are witnessing the work of a consummate illusionist acting her heart out and b) that you have been trained to see that extraordinary, Oscar-worthy performance as merely routine.Now think about how that training might filter down to sexual contexts….

One side effect of teaching one gender to outsource its pleasure to a third party (and endure a lot of discomfort in the process) is that they’re going to be poor analysts of their own discomfort, which they have been persistently taught to ignore.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Spend your time on those who love you unconditionally. Don’t waste it on those who only love you when the conditions are right for them.

Unknown (via onlinecounsellingcollege)