Go to the dentist. It’s been embarrassingly long since I’ve been (childhood) and I severely need a cleaning. It’s going to be scary, and I’m sure my teeth aren’t in the best shape, but it needs to be done.
No, sadly I did not. Will be a goal for next year.
Go to an OBGYN. I also want to see a gynecologist this year just to make sure everything is okay.
Did not as well, but it was less important. But a goal for next year as most first pap smears are age 21 I think.
Continue college. If all goes well, by the end of this year, I will only have 1 more semester left of college. It’s crazy to think about it.
Yes! Only one more semester left and I'll be done! 4 more courses.
Get into oil painting. For Christmas, I got oil paints and so I want to explore with those, even if it means just following other’s videos.
I tried once at the beginning of the year and sobbed because it wasn't "pretty". Moving this to next year, I plan on picking up hobbies once school is over.
Come out. After almost a decade of questioning my gender, as of 12/24/20, I identify as non-binary. I lean towards the masculine side of the expression and use the pronouns he/they. By the end of this year, I really want to be out to my close family and co-workers. It sounds scary to do so.
I came out to mom! That's a start. She's still a work in progress but :). As well Sabrina now uses They/Them pronouns for me (at least when I'm around) so yay!
Get my ears pierced. This year, I want to start gauging my ears. In order to do that, I have to pierce them. I want small black balls to start out with, nothing feminine. Hopefully, by the end of the year, I’ll have very tiny gauges, as I know the process takes time.
No. My fear of needles has let this not happen. Moving it to next year.
Celebrate 3 years with Eric. It’s the same every year. The date is 6/29/18 and so halfway through the year will be the celebration. Hopefully, COVID is settled down and we can go somewhere really nice as the previous 2 anniversaries have been letdowns.
Yes! It wasn't the best but we stayed at a fancy hotel for one night and went to the science center (too crowded and loud) and build a bear (also a letdown, not many options)
Payback adult’s debt. In 2020 I got a newer car, 2007. I had some of my own money but had to loan some from mom and Brian. I owe them a lot of money still at the end of 2020, so hopefully, I can pay back the rest this year.
YES! It did help that mom and brain broke up so I saved $1400 but I did pay mom back with a lot of help of school money.
Start saving money. 2020 has been rough financially, and took a lot of my savings away. Especially as most of the way through school, I was only working 15 hours a week, which was barely paying for bills and necessities. I want to have more money in my growth to save for a house.
I don't know where my growth was at the beginning but it's got more now! I'm working about 30 hours a week now and have gotten a raise or two. Hopefully, the school gives me one more check to really solidify it.
Find out where to move. Me and Eric really want to move out after I graduate school. I graduate in April 2022 and our lease ends end of May 2022. We really don’t want to stay another year in this apartment after I graduate. It all depends on what I’m doing for work through after I graduate.
Sadly we can't do this really. We might be moving to the next town over but that's about it. We should be able to actually look at houses come the new year about February since buying/moving takes like 2-3 months in itself.
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This year was full of not completing the list. A lot of it was due to anxiety and a busy schedule. Hopefully I can mark some of these off early next year! Hooray to 2021
