THIS IS KADE

Musician. Artist. Empath. Resilient.

[queengreendown]

It’s almost as if nobody wants to admit that they might not be prepared to do the work it takes to love somebody. And it can be laborious. To be intimate with someone who is flawed (which is the standard) requires us to expose our own flaws. We don’t talk about the heavy responsibility of that. We don’t talk about how we’re too lazy or too cowardly sometimes. We instead accuse love of being elusive. It isn’t. It is omnipresent. It asks us to be better people. And sometimes we flat out refuse.

[japanesefashionlovers]

[guccifloralsuits]

if you had 6 minutes left to live, what’s the last song you’d listen to

[gladerofwicked]

i’d spent the entire 6 minutes trying to pick a song

[yourbigsisnissi]

A part of being an adult is living with regret and not allowing it to consume you. The older you get, the more mistakes you’ve made, opportunities you’ve missed, people you’ve disappointed. And every day you have to remind yourself to be kind and forgiving of yourself. You accept and love the you from the past and understand that it’s all a part of the process. Then you move on and live your best life, knowing now as old as you feel today, you’ll never be this young again.

[earthtogazelle]

[tarot-dreams]

The Fire. a tarot spread for beltane.

1. The Shadow.

An ever present darkness looms over your shoulder. What is hiding within your shadow? What challenge do you need to face?

2. The Fire.

The Beltane fire glows brightly. What does it want you to see? What is the source of your strength?

3. The Path.

You can endure the darkness and overcome your fear. What do you need to remember as you move forward? Where should you focus your energy?

[i-wrotethisforme]

The most attractive thing you could show someone is effort & the most important thing you could give someone is time.

[inkxlenses]

Garden in a Bottle | by flowerium_products

[commonchant]

[narnia]

[andantegrazioso-deactivated2018]

Dangerous beauty | miyunico*

[90377]

[theotheryongbok]

[theotheryongbok]

I was gonna take a nap but everything changed when the Fire Nation attacked.

Happy Halloween

[maureen2musings]

Balance

visualsofjulius

[gosh]

by gatitodelsol

[sickpage]

[veryfemmeandantifascist]

Controversial opinion: if more people actually read up on bisexual history and bothered to interact with bisexuals irl instead of making assumptions about us, I don’t believe as many people would id as pansexual

[perse-phoneee-deactivated202007]

I mean, this is certainly possible considering how people incorrectly assume that bisexuals are automatically transphobic (though some certainly are, and we can’t ignore transphobia in any community), or are only attracted to two genders. However, in my experience as a pansexual person who is friends with many other pansexual people, I feel more comfortable with the term pansexual since I associate it with attraction to all genders and regardless of gender. So, while I acknowledge that gender is an often important part of a person’s identity, it doesn’t play a role in my attraction to a person. Plus, not all bisexual people are attracted to all genders. I’ve met bisexual people who are only attracted to women and enbies, but not men, for example. I see pansexual and bisexual as being overlapping categories rather than completely separate ones, but the two sexualities are different enough that it’s good to keep them distinct from one another.

Tldr: I don’t think tons of people would switch to being bi if they knew more of the history since pansexuality is its own separate thing and many define it as attraction regardless of gender, but biphobia likely does cause some people to id as pan since they assume it’ll be automatically more inclusive when it isn’t always