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i listened to trinket by tsuki club, and it was enjoyable, but some of the longer songs (even though they were only 3 minutes) felt like they were dragging a little. the songs that are more rock leaning are also not my fav. still, a solid album thats interesting, although its unfortunate my favourite from it is the 42 second interlude
the kim petras album was a major improvement from her past work! still, not that many songs id go back to
nvm, i like it a lot now polo and brutalist are crazy good
do writers even know how children speak or act
the kim petras album was a major improvement from her past work! still, not that many songs id go back to
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-having a job
-not having a job
-applying for jobs
-the job market
-the concept of working my whole life
"Why do you talk so much about being intersex?"
Over 90% of parents of visibly intersex children opt for cosmetic surgery on their infants.
The ones that don't experience medical violence then, likely experience it as a teenager.
I didn't.
I am very rare in that I did not experience medical violence.
Why? Because I learned what intersexuality was as a young age, and I actively fought against what doctors wanted to do to me. All the way down to legal research on what medical care minors can be forced into. I remember walking into that doctor's appointment with the state law written down that proved that if I did not consent they could not do surgery.
That is why intersex activism is important. It saved me and it will save more.
wasnt into little women at first, but the audiobook version i have is actually kind of good. unusual, since usually i cannot focus with audiobooks, so... what a pleasant surprise!
someone used 'one in a million' in a negative way, and im not sure if it is incorrect, but it does feel wrong....
i kinda miss the era were songs music videos would be reversed so that the lyrics would reveal satan worshipping.... good times
ragebaiting lemonade stand owner with one simple order
i love that im reading much more now but also god its hard to balance hobbies once you have a few
accidentally posted an unrelated post on a community by accident... feeling #ashamed
i relistened to ungodly hour, and its still a pretty solid album but royl and catch up are still songs that leave me baffled... how did everyone let that happen???
god's weakest soldier is scrolling tumblr instead of being productive or participating in any of their hobbies
now.... whyd i get this right after i talked about how i had a new idea to write, but that i wasnt writing anything........
i have a new idea for a potential book.... which is just awful. i already have other ideas that i want to write!!!! that im not writing!!!!! help!!!!! any rich person want to buy one of my story ideas for a lot of money?
Not that anybody asked, but I think it's important to understand how shame and guilt actually work before you try to use it for good.
It's a necessary emotion. There are reasons we have it. It makes everything so. much. worse. when you use it wrong.
Shame and guilt are DE-motivators. They are meant to stop behavior, not promote it. You cannot, ever, in any meaningful way, guilt someone into doing good. You can only shame them into not doing bad.
Let's say you're a parent and your kid is having issues.
Swearing in class? Shame could work. You want them to stop it. Keep it in proportion*, and it might help. *(KEEP IT IN PROPORTION!!!)
Not doing their homework? NO! STOP! NO NOT DO THAT! EVER! EVER! EVER! You want them to start to do their homework. Shaming them will have to opposite effect! You have demotivated them! They will double down on NOT doing it. Not because they are being oppositional, but because that's what shame does!
You can't guilt people into building better habits, being more successful, or getting more involved. That requires encouragement. You need to motivate for that stuff!
If you want it in a simple phrase:
You can shame someone out of being a bad person, but you can't shame them into being a good person.
Fun fact, that was literally what inspired me to make this post!
I listened to aaliyah recently and... the album is crazy good omg. What if is the most insane track ever
