Horrible
Yes, I am horrible at consistently writing on here. I get so sidetracked and I'm always on the go, not realizing some people actually read this to keep up with me. So apologies! Hopefully with the new system I've implemented for myself, you'll be reading a lot more...
Today I want to talk about friendship... kinda.
Last night, my friends showed up to support me at my first time performing at Sankofa Square in Toronto. It was really cool, and I had a great time. As I finished my set, I realized my DJ is my homegirl that I've known for almost 10 years. I had another friend in the crowd I've known for about the same amount of time, and then my other two friends I've known for almost 20 years.
TIME FREAKIN' FLIESSSSSSSSSS!!!
It's so crazy.
Plus, I just had a birthday the other day and turned "55" lol. CRAZZZZY!!
But honestly, it's such a blessing having long-lasting friendships because they keep it real.
A lot of people I know change friend groups all the time, but I think I've always had the kind of friends where I can call and be like, "Yo, I'm going out, so-and-so is coming, let's roll," or we can just hang out individually. It's never really been complicated.
I've probably talked about this before, but one of my homeboys was like, "You need more girl friends." I'm like, "Nahhhh, too much drama." But honestly, men are just as dramatic—maybe even more! Holy. Simple conversations can turn into whole situations.
Not everyone needs to be homies, but to be honest, I'm usually just in the corner watching things unfold. People say not picking a side is picking a side, but I can't even see the sides because I'm over here on my side of the road, focused on my lane. 😂
Imagine sitting on a fence and being told you gotta hop over.
One side has jerk chicken. The other side has tacos.
But if you stay sitting on the fence long enough, someone brings you the best Ital dish you've ever had.
Imma get that Ital dish, fam. I like the fence. 😂
And sometimes you'll miss out on the tacos or the jerk chicken, or maybe even both. But real friends would bring you a little bit of each anyway and keep it pushing because they know you ain't about that life.
And with that being said...
Please focus on your vision.
STICK TO YOUR VISION!














