[thislonleyhouse18]

feel like pure shit just want to talk to my emotional support psych teacher

[meerschweinchen-archive]

I cannot work a job I don't have time. every day I need to sleep 24593280 hours

[zs-21]

When I say “last year,” I’m talking about 2019

[marypickfords]

i genuinely believe there’s a right time to watch certain movies so sometimes i’ll wait and wait until i know.

[thislonleyhouse18]

literally cannot fucking breathe rn

[thislonleyhouse18]

maybe it had been three years since i was last here. but i wish you’d still stop right in the middle of the street. because you’d know. you’d know because you still remember my face and back of my head even though my hair had changed. it’s like we both remember at the same time even though we don’t look at the same time. you stop walking down the sidewalk. i cant believe it’s you so i don’t. but then you turn around and walk back even though you get questioned. midst crossing the street you stand still and turn to look down the street. this time we look at the same time as if we can sense in the air and we both know. it is you. and it is me. there’s only a length of streets distance between us but we both know it’s much more than that. i built this over time but you started it. there’s cities countries and oceans between us now. but you’re still you i know it because you still remember me. you’re the reason for this distance so why do you still remember me? and i moved so far away so why do i still remember you?

[mjalti]

I’m living my best life but like. in my head

[bluebandana]

“i could fix him” could you fix me instead? i’m suffering

[thislonleyhouse18]

[bakwaaas]

You gotta understand that some people never really grow. They never learn their lesson. They never recognise their mistakes, they never acknowledge their faults, they never admit they were in the wrong. You will never receive an apology from them, and you will never see their behaviour change.

[lilybee]

if you’re in the notes saying “this is wrong and cruel because everyone is capable of growth” you’re not understanding the post.

yes, everyone is CAPABLE of growth and change. everyone has the RIGHT to growth and change. but no, not everyone will CHOOSE growth and change. some people are not interested in and cannot be made interested in self-improvement or self-reflection. some people will go their entire lives refusing to admit they might be wrong or examine their own behaviors. some people will never, ever accept responsibility for the effects they have on people and the world around them. humans are varied; some are just always gonna be like this.

it is VITAL to understand this if you’re the kind of person who tends to pour energy into helping others, especially if there are already people knowingly hurting you who consistently show absolutely no interest in changing that behavior. you can’t forcibly make them want to change who they are. you aren’t going to find a way to convince them to suddenly care that their behavior is hurting someone.

the motivation to change and grow comes from within. others may inspire us, but WE have to decide we want to be better and work towards that. until they decide that for themselves, nobody else can do it for them. and they might never. people are mortal. we are a finite series of choices. it is entirely possible to make mostly selfish ones.

everyone CAN grow, but not everyone will. not everyone wants to, and nobody can force the desire to grow as a person on someone else.

[femalepope]

the fact that being a woman and not wearing makeup is considered subversive in many places... Girl I am literally just alive. This is my face

[theholetour]

Social justice should be rooted in love of others but it’s obvious a lot of people just weaponizing social justice to be bullies and borderline abusive under the guise of moral concerns

[sophism]

funny how this pandemic is literally never going to end bc the people who keep complaining about the pandemic keep engaging in activities that prolong the pandemic

[100493503004422]

I feel FATIGUED like send her to the seaside for her health type fatigue

[katnissism]

Derry girls season 3 would fix me

[naprasno]

omg another exhausting day of doing the bare minimum

[kurrusu]

*me to me*

don't think about it