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beautifuldarkmind

Sending love to those celebrating holiday season who live in dysfunctional/toxic households. This is probably the hardest time of all.

traumatrash

sorry

stacys-mom-has-got-it-goin-on

"Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child."

justabittraumatized

it may seem especially cruel to be angry at your mother when knowing that she too is a victim. but you also have to know that being a victim is not a qualification to not treat others like human beings. looking away from the fact you’re her own child that she failed to protect and love, she also failed to treat you with basic human respect. the way she treats you is unfair and her being traumatized does not make what she does to you okay. it doesn’t give her “special treatment” from fulfilling her responsibilities as a parent. the system is really fucked up for doing generations of women like that, but sadly it’s a part of our mothers’ responsibility to break that cycle

lharotto

do you actually not like reciving gifts or did you just grow up being told how expensive it was to raise you?

and now, anytime anyone spends any money on you,you fell guilty

sl4sherhoney

a mentally ill mom will treat you any type of way and then say you should understand how she feels

but if YOU show signs of your mental illness, all understanding goes out the window

ashtonisrottting

i hate that mother doesn't know a single thing about me. the only things she remembers are conveniently distorted to fit her narrative so i can be the villain to her hopeless victim