โNico Di Angelo is a token gay! His coming out scene sucked!โ babes Iโm BEGGING you to remember 2013 gay characters were not allowed in childrenโs media.
Lemme say that again: In 2013, it was expected that gay characters would be censored in childrenโs mass media.
Remember Korra? How she and Asami had to settle for ambiguous handholding rather than a kiss? That was fully a year after House of Hades came out. Nickelodeon said No Gays, the Childrenโข canโt handle that. Too risky. And people said man that stinks, but thatโs how these things go in 2014 America.
Gay marriage was literally still illegal in the vast majority of US states. As of October 8th, 2013 (House of Hades release date) Gay Marriage was only a thing in thirteen fucking states. California had only legalized it that year.
Gay people were still very much on the fringes of society. It was an acceptable political position on both sides of the aisle to be against the existence and equal rights of gay people.
Nico was legitimately a landmark character in queer representation. To my knowledge, there wasnโt before an openly gay main character in a bestselling ya/middle grade fantasy fiction series. It simply was not a thing. They didnโt exist. They werenโt allowed to exist.
I remember people crying. Finally. It was a watershed moment. Kids all across the world finally got someone who represented them. It was such a big fucking deal. And it was controversial!!! Not for the reasons it is today, but because people thought gay kids having representation was inappropriate.
Is Nicoโs coming out a great scene? No, these days it leaves a lot to be desired. Itโs not perfect by any stretch of the imagination and Iโm sure Rick wishes he could change it. But the fact thatโs the case is a wonderful reflection of how far weโve come.
All of your gay heroes in childrenโs media have Nico Di Angelo to thank. It was important, and good. It deserves to be celebrated, even if weโve progressed past it since.
As someone who grew up pretty sheltered in a relatively conservative environment, he was literally the first gay character I read of. I remembered reading the books at the same time as my mum and wondering/worrying about her reaction.
It may sound shallow, but reading about Nico did a lot for my internalised homophobia. I think that before that I had a completely messed up view of what being queer meant.
Last week I read HoH for the first time in years and that scene hit me in the guts
