i ain't sorry

she/her. black, queerdo millennial trying to be a dope person. i came back for gay pirates.

[glamaphonic]

ed is babygirl. stede is blorbo. thank you for understanding.

[chrkrose]

Brienne doesn’t need to be the object of passionate desire. she’s the woman who teaches Jaime a better way to love. that’s infinitely more meaningful than reducing their relationship to physical attraction. to me, that actually cheapens what makes her unique. she’s not the intoxicating, all-consuming love. she’s the peaceful one. she’s the woman jaime chooses once he grows up. that’s the entire point of his arc.

Man, idk how to tell u this, but they want to fuck. Like, they want to fuck each other’s brain out. They want to bone. They want to have SEX. And then probably cuddle a little cause they are clingy like that but after that they want to have more sweaty steamy very loud sex, you know? Like they want to fuck for real and then some more.

Idk what’s up with this purity take. Stripping physical desire away from Jaime and Brienne doesn't elevate their relationship; it completely sanitizes it. Saying that physical attraction "cheapens" Brienne’s uniqueness feels like a veiled excuse to desexualize her just because she’s ugly. Sorry, she’s ugly and Jaime still wants to fuck her and she wants to fuck him too.

(I’m not even going to enter here on the concept of Brienne serving only as Jaime’s self help book and therapist because again, is she even a character to you or just an accessory to Jaime’s path of self rehabilitation?)

And again I ask: what’s peaceful about their feelings for each other? Like, where this idea that their feelings are “peaceful” (name: boring) came from? Because that’s not on page. Like at all. There’s nothing peaceful about how they make each other feel. They get under each other's skin in a way nobody else can. Their feelings deeply unsettle them precisely because they are so incredibly strong. It is the definition of an intoxicating, all-consuming love, one that completely rewires Jaime's brain and troubles him from the moment he meets her and one that shatters Brienne's pre-conceived notions. It’s a crisis of faith for both of them.

A connection can be spiritually profound, emotionally transformative, and also incredibly horny, which they are you know. Horny. For each other.

A moment for one of my favorite lines of one of my favorite fics, by @chickren who always delivers no matter what:

[tainbocuailnge]

forget everything anyone has ever told you on the matter the truest marker of adulthood is starting to hear the siren call of high quality kitchenware

[tainbocuailnge]

to be clear you SHOULD buy that cast iron pan and you SHOULD buy that knife set and you SHOULD buy that fancy rice cooker and you SHOULD buy that novelty mug. high quality kitchenware is always worth it you’re literally gonna be using that almost every day

[nudityandnerdery]

This seems like a good post to include this link on:

Your Cookware Got Worse On Purpose

One buyout firm quietly collected Pyrex, Corelle, Instant Pot, and Oneida. Farberware is a name on a 200-year lease. And the pans still wort

Talking about popular kitchenware companies undergoing enshittification, and gives you a list of brands towards the end that are more reliable.

[funny-tik-toks]

[clubhoops]

Studbudz x GQ Sports

[throathole]

I really love when cats use their front legs to hold something in place while they use their back legs to kick the absolute shit out of it

[throathole]

Destruction. Annihilation, even

[aenslem]

I've never known anyone long enough for someone to love me. Octavia Spencer & Hannah Waddingham in RIDE OR DIE (2026)

[seamsofparadise]

[prokopetz]

I think the basic issue with a lot of media which purports to be about awful, fucked up people is that beyond a certain point it can't just be an aesthetic; you've got to have them actually do awful, fucked up things to each other, or else they're not awful and fucked up, they're just grumpy.

[prokopetz]

If you're tagging your stuff as "toxic yuri" and I've seen people who were friends in real life do worse shit to each other and laugh it off the next day, you need to step up your game, is what I mean to say.

[s-leary]

Amazing moments in Dads: my friend’s dad’s critique of Frankenstein was, “I just don’t think the author had read science fiction before.”

[k3bchu]

My orufrey

[intactics]

"rickrolling is mean" rickrolling is the gentle, kind, prosocial descendant of what we used to do on the internet, which was putting a redirect to goatse in every possible misspelling of a url

[thenormalenjoyerr]

let's be bundled up for the cold with master

[whx-m]

ripping and tearing my shirt off about them nbd

[folkloristico]

happy 10th anniversary!

[mistabuttonsthings]

Whatever

[snowbairdd]

LUPITA NYONG'O getting ready for "The Odyssey" New York Premiere (July 14, 2026)