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28 | she/her | stone femme 18+ duh

[tiedtothetraintracks]

28 stone femme sub I post about the intimate details of my sex life 💞

This blog is basically for me & my butch, you can follow if you want but jsyk that's the target audience 😋

NO MINORS & I'm blocking you if you don't have your age written down anywhere

MWA! 😘

[leatherfag]

i want to see more fat people in rope literally always. fat rope bunnies i love you i hope you’re having a good day you’re carrying this fucking website

[boringkate]

Hey! Is it okay if I use your body for my evil experiments?

[ismaelguerrier-deactivated20210]

Nightgown #1 - Pen version

(Pen on paper)

Instagram: ismael.guerrier.art

[sex-obsessed-lesbian]

Getting Started with Erotic Hypnosis

Last edit: April 2026

So you’ve heard some folks evangelizing at play parties, you’ve read some hot smut, and you’ve decided you’re excited about Erotic Hypnosis™. Well, I don’t blame you, cuz it’s objectively the hottest kink (she said, objectively). But how do you start practicing it for yourself? I mean, you can do what I did and just sort of flail until you somehow found yourself firmly embedded in the community, but if you want a slightly less chaotic approach, here’s where I might start:

Read(/Listen)

The “Bible of hypnokink” is Mind Play by Mark Wiseman. This is probably the best place to start for anyone interested in this kink!

Learn Hypnokink is a GREAT, digestible online resource about what this kink is and how to do it

9 Persisting Misconceptions About Hypnosis, a zine by sleepingirl and GleefulAbandon

Two Hyp Chicks is a delightful, educational, and often v hot podcast about hypnokink by sleepingirl and cckitten.

Hypnotic Amnesia by Lee Allure and DJ Pynchon is a bit more niche, but still a super neat window into how this kink works and one of the specific, rad things you can do with it.

Get Horny

Go read/watch some porn. Seriously. There are some links in the preamble above, I’ll wait. Take the porn with a grain of salt, because it’s not necessarily realistic, but it can definitely give you a sense of what parts of this play turn you on, which will help you figure out what in the hypno-sphere you actually want to get up to. A handful of specific suggestions:

Written:

ReadOnlyMind is the shiny new hub for hypno-smut and smut for its related kinks!

In particular, the #real-play tag (and probably handful of analogous tags) contains smut about erotic hypnosis as it’s practiced in real life, rather than fantasy mind control stuff

The Erotic Mind-Control Story Archive is probably the biggest repository of written material, though also very inconsistent in quality, and can be Problematic™. Still, it has been responsible for many orgasms in its time

Jukebox is a rad and particularly prolific writer. I mention him in particular because he has so much stuff out there that if you browse his archive, you’re sure to find a story or two that catches your eye

Other authors that I particularly like:

My smut lives here

h-sleepingirl

EllaEnchanting

Ari (see also: Tumblr)

And dream-operator

Video:

Mesmerotic: real hypnokinksters doing real hypnokink and being extremely fuckin’ hot about it!

Entrancement: this is the real deal. Erotic hypnosis done by an actual erotic hypnotist, it actually gives you a pretty good idea of how this sort of play might work

Classes and Cons

Honestly, the best way to learn about this stuff is to go to classes! Look for your local hypnokink group—if you live in/near a reasonably-sized city, I bet you have one—or go to one of the many rad hypno cons out there. This list is somewhat out of date, but you can start here.

There are full entire cons for hypnokink, the most prominent of which are Charmed, Beguiled, and NEEHU.

Also many broader kink events have a hypnokink track or a few hypno classes in there (lookin’ at you, TES Fest!

You can learn from people who have been doing this for a while, and maybe even more importantly, just meet some cool folks!

Meet Humans and Chat

You can find experienced hypno-players with whom to shoot the shit either in person (at classes/cons/events) or on the interwebs. There’s a small but mighty band of hypno folks on Tumblr, and a handful of varyingly active Discord servers for local groups and big national communities.

The biggest Discord server I know of is Erotic Hypnosis (invite link here) – you can meet folks there and find a bunch of educational resources, as well as probably use it as a jumping-off point for smaller regional groups.

Practice

Honestly, this is the hardest and most useful part. If you wanna get into this kink, practice is key! It’s the only real way to develop these skills—and this is true on either side of the pocket watch, as it were. How to do it, though?

With a play partner

As either a ‘tist or a subject, it’s easiest to learn the ropes with an experienced partner to guide you through. You can find play partners at events or on the interwebs, as mentioned above. (Note too that hypno is particularly well suited to long-distance play—you don’t need to be in the same place with these folks to practice with them!) I’d add: at kink events, mention hypno in your cruising post! There are hypnokinksters everywhere, I bet you’ll get some responses.

You can definitely practice this stuff with someone else who’s new to the game, though, as long as you both communicate lots! Talk about what does and doesn’t feel good, and experiment until you find stuff that works for you. And don’t hesitate to reach out to your hypno-scene contacts for help and advice!

For ‘tists: if you feel uncomfortable making up your own inductions, you can start reading from scripts, to get a feel of how hypno works! But I’d encourage you to start making stuff up as soon as possible, because it helps you gain fluency, and ultimately makes you a better hypnotist.

By yourself

Self-hypnosis is a great way to practice hypnokinky stuff! There are a lot of greatttt hypnosis files out there. Some folks I’d particularly recommend:

My stuff :-)

Lee Allure 

Chew Toy

The Secret Subject

Ella Enchanting

DeepDiscourse

Impish

Tennfan

Imaginatrix

Sinister Denial

For hypnotists: if you’re comfortable with it, I definitely recommend trancing a little yourself, just so you can get a feel for what it’s like, and better understand your subjects’ experience. Regardless of whether you personally want to practice trancing, I’d still recommend listening to some files and getting a feel for how other hypnotists do things—it’ll help you develop your own style!

With a pro

Paying a professional for a session—whether it’s play or a lesson—is a great way to dip your toe in hypnokinky waters while knowing that you’re in good hands. Check out:

Dahlia Lark

Imaginatrix

Sinister Denial

Lee Allure

Anyone in the orbits of these fine folks

[sex-obsessed-lesbian]

Re-upped this, if anyone you know is hypno-kink curious and wants a starting point!

[cotrishmallow]

this is pretty dang definitive

[theegrandhorizontal]

[bluedresskitty]

I want a girl who wakes up before me every morning, rolls over and patiently watches me as I sleep.

She begins her whispers as I start to wake.

Soft, melodic words and phrases capturing me in that moment where my consciousness is on standby but my mind has begun switching on.

That moment when my mind is waiting for input, expecting me to take control. That moment is when she takes the reigns. She hijacks me with her soft, velvety voice, and goes to work rewriting, reinforcing, and reconfiguring me in her image.

And with just a few minutes each morning when I'm most susceptible, her words will be entangled permanently in my mind, solidifying my training, melting my resistance, and guaranteeing another day of uncontrollable arousal.

Primed and ready to channel into service — for her.

[bluedresskitty]

shhhh... just relax... close your eyes... go back to sleep... and let your mind slip away...

[maimedcanine]

[happysleepyhypno]

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Your good girl brain is melting

That’s the sign of a good girl 

A sweet and dumb melty brain

And when your brain melts just enough

As you sink deeper and deeper

You slip and sleep and your brain slows down and melts

Melting just enough that it leaks

That’s it

That’s a good girl

You’re dripping, aren’t you?

This is an actual full hypnosis session with an induction and a wake up sequence and everything!

The listener will be dropped down, where their mind will be melted until it drips out of them. The listener will also be encouraged to touch, feel fuzzy, sweet, stupid, horny, and submissive. So all the good stuff! No specific genitals mentioned, but you will be referred to as a good girl.

Happy Sleeping!

[lesbianartandartists]

Morgan Gwenwald, Butch/Fem Picnic

[vampiliar]

Need a vampire to straddle me as they drink from my neck actually. That would solve a lot of my problems.

[tiedtothetraintracks]

the other day we were stuck in traffic and she was groping me and touching me lifting up my shirt and playing with my nipples unzipping my jeans and sliding her hand down them to grip my thigh it felt so good to be useful as her stress relief toy 💞

[the-efemmeral]

you’ve heard of werewolf butch x vampire femme, but what about vampire butch x consort femme? big things at work here

[prettyypearl]

Hurt me, but not because I was bad or disobeyed. You know I’m always good, always obedient, always desperate to please. Hurt me because you like to, because it gets you off, because I look so pretty like this. Reassure me that this is not punishment, that I’m being so good for you. You’re hurting me because it gives you pleasure, and I’m taking it so well because I would never question you.

[hyenagirlpenis]

Training you to lie limp like a doll, reinforcing your restraint with praise and pleasure. Any time you get too tense and start clenching and moving, I back off, gently reminding you that your job is to be a good toy, and toys don't move. You get what I give you, and nothing more. And until you ease back and calm your breathing, allowing that distant, hazy look to steal over your face, I just wait patiently, guiding you with my voice alone to melt, to relax, to be a good doll for me.

[hyenagirlpenis]

It might take a while, but eventually I can have you barely moving from the first touch to the last. The instant I start, weakness and heat overtake your body. Toys get used, toys don't move... Focusing on the refrain, you feel eager pleasure building inside you as I chase relief. So desperate to please, now brought to the cusp by lying there limp and soft. Until finally, after enough teasing and edging, you manage to finish just from being used by me. Untouched, chest just barely rising with breath, seized by involuntary pulses of tension in the release. Lying motionless, getting off only to entertain me. My perfect toy.

[vamplire]

vampires who whimper

[syzygy-symphysy]