Time to Woman Up

The title says it all. Stay in this blog and you'll find out all the secrets to be more successful in life as a woman.

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1. Contrary to popular belief, waking up early isn’t going to drastically alter your life or effect how you’re feeling. So sleep till noon and relish in the way laying in bed all day makes you feel a little more human. 2. Drinking your coffee ‘black’ doesn’t make you cooler or more sophisticated than the rest of us who load in milk and sugar. 3. Being unimpressed by everything makes you look like a twat. Get excited, be overly passionate about something. Enthusiasm is fun. 4. Hating yourself isn’t romantic. 5. Eat whatever you want. your friend’s a vegan? Awesome. Listen to her talk about how great she feels because of it while you tuck in to some chocolate cake. Tell her you feel just as great.

More Reminders- Charlotte Geier  (via bl-ossomed)

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Never underestimate how important this line can be for the millions of young girls hearing it

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This is so fucking important guys

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This line just gave me an instant overwhelming love for Taylor Swift that I didn’t know I was capable of.

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Inspiring.

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"The holocaust was legal, slavery was legal, segregation was legal. If you use the state as a metric for ethics you’ll end up disappointed."

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So true!

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18 Times Taylor Swift Was Right About Everything In 2014

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The truth has been spoken!

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I reckon if more people understood this there would be a lot less victim blaming when it comes to rape.

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"It appears you have a reputation for enjoying gardening, are you sure you didn’t really want him to hit you with that spade?"

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This is possibly one of the greatest tweets ever.

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So damn true!

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friendly reminder that patrick is a good person :)

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LOVE THIS GUY.

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It takes years as a woman to unlearn what you have been taught to be sorry for.

Amy Poehler in Yes Please (via mycroftknowsbetter)

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Double standard, illustrated.

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There it is; truth for your consideration.

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How to Become a Maneater

Men who use women for sex are called 'studs' or 'player pimps.' So what about women who manipulate men for financial, psychological, and sexual gain? These women are called man eaters. Man eaters consciously execute a plan to use a man to either manipulate his mind and emotions or use their sexuality to get money from men. In the end, after when she has gotten what she wanted she says, 'sayonara' leaving the man baffled and confused.

It sounds cruel and, even cold-hearted, but men do this all the time to women, so it's time for women to give men a taste of their own medicine. Men are simple beings, give them a beer, an adult magazine, a lap top filled with downloaded porn, a television to watch sports, and a nearby pub, and there you have it, the modern guy.  So as a woman, you want to shake them up, and show them who the boss is when it comes to you. But what does it take to become a man eater? As Nelly Furtado said in her song "Maneater - make you work hard, make you spend hard, make you want all of her love." It's not that hard to become a man eater, just follow these simple rules, because as we all know, men are like dogs, throw them a bone, and they come running.

Man eater rule #1: The Power of Positive Flirting

The late Dr. Norman Vincent Peale wrote a book called "The Power of Positive Thinking." Basically his philosophy was a positive mind anticipates happiness, joy, health and a successful outcome of every situation and action. Whatever the mind expects, it finds. (Sassoon, Remez)  So when it comes to positive flirting, I say if you have it, flaunt it. Now ladies, I don't mean to dress half naked when you go out to meet guys, always think less is more. Showing off a great pair of legs in a skirt with high heels is the way to attract attention from a guy, but make sure not to show your stomach. So a dress is the way to go.  But if you want to show cleavage, then a low cut top with a pair of tight jeans will definitely catch a guy's attention.  Now that you have your attire, it's time to bring on the power of positive flirting. Men can tell when you are looking at him, just smile, and make eye contact. Once you have his attention, the best ice breaker is to ask details about what he likes. For example, it sounds funny but ask him "What if questions..." A good one is, "If you were stranded on an island with a beautiful woman, what would you do with her?" His answer will say a lot about himself and then you can assess how to manipulate him. If he answers towards sex, then you know he's a physical guy. If he says, "I would do all the hunting for all the food and she can cook," then he's old-fashioned. If his answer is, "I would create one big giant family and get her pregnant." Then you know he's a family-oriented man. And if he says "I don't know what I would do with a beautiful woman on a deserted island." Then you know he's stupid and you can basically manipulate him with your sexuality.  The power of positive flirting doesn't come from how you look on the outside, but from the confidence you have with words and how you make conversation that leads to a positive feeling that is shared between you and the man is the first step to becoming a man eater. If he smiles and laughs, that means he's engaged into the conversation and that's when you can start the man eating process. Remember the secret to the power of positive flirting is to be able to tap into the man's brain and let the testosterone build in his body where he feels aroused, not by the way you look, but by your body language and conversation skills.

Man eater rule #2: Playing hard to get never felt so good

One of the biggest mistakes I made when I was man eating my last boyfriend was that he actually became my boyfriend. Big faux pas when you're trying to become a man eater is letting the guy into your life. For the first five months of seeing this guy, I showed him that I did not care about him. When he wanted to see me, I would tell him I was busy and that I would call him when I was free. And when he saw me and he wanted to give me a massage, I told him not to touch me. When you play hard to get that's when he wants you more. Men always want what they cannot have. This used to confuse me because I thought the whole point was to show the guy that you liked him and he would reciprocate, but I found out that men work in the opposite way. They love the thrill of the chase, so when you say no to dates and tell him next week, he will want you more. Remember what Nelly said, "Make him work hard." Being tough is sexy for a man. So the more you resist his invitations and advances, the more you have the power and the closer you are to eating him up for what he's got.  Never, ever, lose sight of your game. Have your strategy, and you have to stay focused on your end goal. If it is money you want, make sure you do not have sex with him. Get the money first, then play hard to get. Part of being a man eater is that you're like a hustler; you get what you want by any means, that means using your brains first, then your sexuality. One woman told me that when she was in university, she was struggling to get by to pay her rent and bills, so she waited tables at Hooters, and since she was a man eater, she used her gift of gab with her customers and many returned, and every time they came back they tipped her more and more money. She told me she never kissed or dated any of these men. The most she ever did was shake their hand when they were leaving the restaurant at the end of their dinner. Now to me that's a real man eater, she used her brains first, then the power of positive flirting, and she got what she wanted. She is now a successful business woman working as a project manager for a corporation.

Man eater rule #3: Love them and leave them

I know it's easy for me to write about how to become a man eater when there isn't a man sitting in front of me looking at me with bedroom eyes. I know it is hard when emotions get involved, what if you actually start to fall in love with the guy you are man eating?  It's not good business, but it happens. The best thing is to remind yourself of your game strategy, but if your judgment is clouded because of love, then it's best to love him and disappear. Ever hear of the saying "Chew him up and then spit him out?"  If you think that your emotions are getting in the way, then it's time to spit him out. But before you do, make you sure you get what you want. If it's psychological and emotional manipulation you want to accomplish, then play with his mind. Tell him you love him and you will never leave him and then vanish the next day without a trace. No emails, no phone calls, no text messages, nothing. If it is money and power you want, make sure you hurt him where it counts, by taking a lot of his money and using that money to get ahead in life where you do not need to speak to him again. The fun part is to see how they react when they realize that they have been spit out. Sounds cruel to treat men this way, but remember what Nelly said, "Wish you never ever met her at all."

Warning: this article was not written by me, I simply got it from this website: http://voices.yahoo.com/how-become-man-eater-3671118.html

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How to cheat on your boyfriend without getting caught

So, in numerous occasions I've told you how much I admire Barney Stinson, how we women should be like him, how short life is and that we should live it to the fullest, etc.

Alright, I'm not wasting more time on trying to make you understand my point of view. So if you're not interested in cheating on your boyfriend, just leave, otherwise, stay.

Okay, here ar some basic rules:

1. Never let him contact you

I mean, let him know that everything's okay so he doesn't worry. And turn off your phone, and if for some reason he asks you why you had your phone turned off when he called, tell him it ran out of battery.

2. Find a young stud who he doesn't know

One of the biggest mistakes many women do when cheating is cheating on their boyfriends with their friends/neighbours/coworkers, etc.

You should always cheat on him with someone he doesn't know. Preferably someone you won't see again. Such as a guy you met at a bar or something like that.

3. Never go to the same places

It'd be really easy for him to suspect that you're cheating if for some reason, you're always at X bar at X time.

Another reason why you should never go to the same places is because there is a high posibility you'll find the guy you cheated on your boyfriend with there.

So, I'll repeat it one more time: never frequent the same places!

4.  Choose a certain friend/friends who'll have your back when giving excuses

If your boyfriend asks you what you'll be doing when you tell him you'll be busy, just say you'll go shopping with Sara or Jessica. And since Sara and Jessica are very good friends of you, they'll have your back in case your boyfriend asks them.

5. Never let him come to your home

You can have sex at his place or a hotel room or wherever, but never, like ever, bring him to your place.

You never know when your boyfriend will surprise you.

7. No one can tell anyone

Reming the guy that it was just a one night stand and that you can't see him again.

Oh, and don't give him your real number. No matter how hot he is.

8. Destroy all evidence

This one is pretty obvious. But remember to have a long shower when you go home, delete all the messages you have in your phone from him (if you have any) and get rid of his phone.

All in all, I hope these tips serve you well. The most important thing is to never regret cheating and if he suspects something's going on, deny deny and deny!

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MFM Threesomes

Okay so I was reading this article (http://www.xojane.com/sex/having-sex-with-2-guys-at-once-is-the-hottest-thing-that-ever-happened-to-me) and suddenly I felt the need to share it with you.

Over the years, the media has been promoting FMF threesomes to the point where even women want to have one (I don't really understand their motivation, but anyways...). Those women have been brainwashed into thinking that it's hot, and it will make the relationship better. But to be honest, I haven't met anyone who affirms that their relationship improved after that.

I'm going to tell you something; MFM threesomes are much better. Okay, admit it, we've all fantasized about it. I mean, what's hotter than taming two guys at the same time?

Some guys may think it's disgusting, others even say they'd never date a woman who's had one. But you know what? If I met one of those guys I'd gladly tell them to kiss my ass. Cause who the hell do they think they are? What I've done in the past or might want to do is none of their business and it shouldn't bother them to the extent that they wouldn't date me.

Anyways, as far as I'm concerned, having an MFM threesome is much easier because a lot more men than women would be up to do that. However, they wouldn't do it if it was with their girlfriend. But anyways, that's not important, because, we women, can do anything we want outside our relationships (that's what Womaning Up means).

That's why I'm encouraging women all over the world to pursue their dreams and fantasies, no matter what men think.

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25 things a woman must do before turning 30

1. Start Saving Money

I know when it comes to saving money, some women really suck at it. Fortunately, there aren't many shopaholics, but still, you should start caring more about your money. Who knows, maybe if you start saving up a little bit, you could be a rich!

2. Like, Really Start Saving

Don't wait until you're 30 though. I myself started saving money two years ago, and to be honest, I feel like now I'm 20% richer.

3. Don’t Give A Shit About Turning 30

Most women feel like they're growing old and get depressed, some even start lying about their age! Okay, I get it, you're no longer a teenager and you can't continue behaving like you're 22 or something. But still, turning 30 doesn't really change your life, you'll still be able to attract guys (if you follow my tips) and be as awesome as ever!

4. Be On Your Own

You no longer need to seek your parent's approval, and you won't be expected to behave like your friends anymore (you know, peer pressure).

5. Climb Out Of Your Box

Do something that really scares you, let the beast out.

6. Travel, travel, travel!

You should travel as much as possible always, not only when you turn 30. Visit all the places you've always dreamed of, and make good memories for the future.

7. Be the bad girl for once

Play around, get their heart broken. It teaches you more about yourself than anything else I can think of.

8. Take Care Of Yourself

Start working out more often, quite smoking, be more careful about what you eat...And most important, make sure you always look gorgeous! 

9. Do What You Want With Your Body Before It’s Too Late

Do something crazy with your body before it starts falling apart. Have you ever wanted to get a piercing? Or a tatto? Then do it now!

10. Go To See the Chippendales

I know that not everyone likes strip clubs, especially women, but come on! Live a bit, you're turning 30!

11. Remember That Life Is About Experiments

Oh, and never forget to smile.

12. Try Living In A Brand New Place

I moved to London a while ago and to be honest, it was the best experience ever! A new city, different traditions, unfamiliar people...Everything was (and still is) awesome for me! Do it, seriously, you won't regret it.

13. 30 Is Totally Overrated, Actually

Nothing changes at 30, some people are married with a family in their early to mid twenties, some aren’t. 30 doesn't add anything special to your life, you do!

14. Take Care Of Your Health

The human body seems indestructible when you are young, but reality sets in the older you get. You start to gain weight. Hangovers are AWFUL. And everything seems harder than before. You should start taking more care of you health. You won't regret it.

15. Learn to Do What You Want

Tired of your job? Quit it. You like another guy besides your boyfriend? Go for him. Can't handle your stupid neighbour? Let them know. Do everything you've always wanted to do but never got the guts to.

16. All These Things

Get drunk. Get high. Don't end up addicted to anything. Learn to say No. Don‘t end up dependent on any of those things. Fall in love. Have your heart broken. Get over it. Find someone else. Live with a person you love and learn to share your life with someone for a while. Figure out how to stay friends when it ends. Have as much sex as you can. Travel. Live with nobody looking after you but yourself. Live somewhere where you don’t know anyone, and make friends with strangers. Do things that scare you. Sky dive, rock climb, learn to handle snakes. Figure out that your phobias aren’t that big a deal. Take some kind of fight sports class. One where you hit people and get hit. Something where you learn to fall, and keep going. Get a job. Work at it. Love it or hate it. Do it anyway. Use the money for an adventure. Look after something, or someone. Get a dog or a cat or a goldfish, or just “adopt” a friend who needs some help. Learn the hard way that you can’t fix everything, and but experience how good it feels to make a difference to a living thing – sometimes they won’t appreciate it, but you’ll still feel something important.

17. Don't Be Afraid To Break Taboos

Tired of letting society control your every move? So am I. Remember the many things that you were told not to do because otherwise you'd be a slut? Do them. Do them now.

18. Think Hard About Whether Or Not You Want Kids

Consider whether you want kids. And never ever let your desicion be influences of what your parents/friends might think. It's your life! And remember that whatever desicion you choose, is the right desicion for you. 

19. Make Time For Stuff You Love

Learn to put in the time for everything in your life. Whatever it is, be it friends, a hobby, a new job, your house...

20. Be Yourself

Figure out who you are and don't let anyone try to change you.

21. Get Your Perfect Job

So you've always wanted to be an actress, and whatever the circumstances were you haven't had a chance to pursue your dream. Well, you're turning 30 so waste no time!

22. This

I’ll tell you what I’d do. Two guys at the same time.

23. And This

Two dudes at once...

24. And This

Two guys the same time, girl!

25. And This

A threesome.

Every woman alive has the fantasy of having a threesome. Especially a threesome with two guys (Sorry guys, it's a very common fantasy and like it or not, most women would want to do that).

Besides, have I mentioned before Not Being Afraid of Breaking Taboos? Well, this is a taboo! Men can't stand the fact that women want two guys at the same time as much as they want two girls at the same time. Do you know who gave this the title of "Devil's threesome"? A man.

Well, I'm going to tell the world the truth, for us women, two guys at the same time is an Angel's Threesome.

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Barney Stinson

So, any "How I met your mother" fans here? I know many of you watch this show, so I choose Barney Stinson as an example for this post.

I know, when it comes to women talking about guys like Barney Stinson, it's almost always to say something bad about them. The words player, jerk, asshole, womanizer are always mentioned when talking about them.

But to be honest, I really admire this character. Because you know what? Maybe being a player isn't a bad thing. I'm pretty sure you must be thinking I'm crazy, but I'm talking seriously. So, a guy getting to have relationships with as many women as he wants but without the commitment, and having to sacrifice his independence. I know it sounds horrible, but let's change it a little bit:

A girl getting to have relationships with as many men as she wants but without the commitment, and having to sacrifice her independence. Am I the only one who thinks this is awesome? I bet not.

So here's the thing, from now on I'm going to teach you how to be a real player. I'm going to give you as many tips as possible to have the life you've always wanted to have. Because deep down, in every woman's heart, no matter how a "good girl" she is, there's the desire to be as awesome as Barney Stinson.

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Hey there!

Alright, this is my first post in this blog...First of all, I'm going to introduce myself: I created this blog anonymously for a reason therefore, I'm not using my real name. Instead, you can call me Mrs Dary, first name Legen ;). I'm 22 years old and I've recently moved to London (where I come from is irrelevant too).

I created this blog with the intention of helping women all around the world to change their lives completely and making their self-esteem higher.

I will post in this blog mainly advices on dating, relationships, men, etc, with an occasional fashion advice. Oh, and I'll gladly answer all your questions as long as they're not personal.

This blog is aimed to make women open up their eyes and realize that life is short and they should live it to the fullest. I'm going show all of you what to woman up really means...

Are you intrigued now? I guess so. Then stay with me because it's time to woman up!