i am NAWT beating the perma-kid allegations, especially not around my freinds
every ten seconds my brains like "wow im around ppl im happy with :D and they dont hate me :D ...call them papa now now now" or like "wow this stranger is super nice, and nice to talk with ! ...ur my parent now."
I think its way to normalized to expect all littles to be flips or being ok with watching over other littles. I should be able to interact with another little with out them suddenly treating me like a cg or makeing me responsible for them. Its ok to be a little who dosent double as a cg. Its ok to set boundries and say no. Matter affact people should learn to be ok with others saying no.
I wana "date" (I use the term date lightly cause im aromantic.) another permakid in the same age range as me. Like yes babe were both 9 lets hold hands and giggle and go play in the dirt. I wana do all the cute things I thought were romance as a kid. Im still not really sure what romance is in the adult world but in my mind we hug,hold hands,and laugh ALOT....thats all I got.
Hiii my little bunnies! Friendly reminder girlre is not just for girls and boyre is not just for boys. The definition of girlre means ageregression associated whith feminine toys,aesthetic,or traits. This is not limited to just girls. Same with boyre, boyre means masculine associated toys,aesthetics,or traits. Girls,boys,and any gender can fit into either category. Hope this helps everyone!
Ive been told by multiple people that I make age regression/age dreaming my entire personality.... Mind you im autistic with a special intrest in little space. Secondly because of that im also a permakid/permatween and ON TOP of that im a agere/agedre concept kin...ITS GOING TO BE A BIG PART OF MY LIFE!!!
Permakid culture is having tattoos and piercings and just feeling like a decorated toddler/kiddo.(Extra kiddo points if you view your tattoos like those tattoo stickers kids get)
Pupy ,,,,,, i have alot of age dysphoria bcuz im disabled and sometimes cant play outside or play for as long without breaks (at parks and stuffs)
do u have advice!!!
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hi yes!!
if u still wanna play outside u can always sit still to play !! play with mud or dirt if u like getting messy, like making potions, if u have snow u can make snow forts, dig a biiiig hole (or a buncha lil ones!), or just sit and play with toys on like a picnic blanket or smt!! when was little would sit and pick grass til the ground was bald... u can also do chalk if u live somewhere w concrete!!
u can always play inside too!! theres a lota thing to do inside that r just as fun as outside . a lot of em u can do outside too !! stuff like board or card games, playing pretend with toys, drawing/coloring, videogames, sosomuch! if its nice outside but u need to stay in u can open a window!!
this post is how to play with toys, and this post is similar but for plushies!! make sure to read the comments n stuff for even more tips!!
dont feel bad 4 being a disabled kiddo!! not every kid gets to play outside a ton, and not evey kid LIKES being outside . puppy is also disabled and doesnt spend a lota time outside tbh even tho would like to get out more
i really wish there was more weird agere fashion. idk its like 90% onesies and stuff like that which- dont get me wrong it IS cute, ,,, but i like,, hardly see much of anything else and i wish it was more of a vast genre yk?
like .. for me its baaaggy baggy shirts and even baggier sleeves. (ponchos, peasant tops, poet/batwing/cape/circular cap/cape/butterfly/etc style sleeves but usually i gotta buy like 2-4 sizes larger than what immediately fits me), wide leg pants, and i never wear skirts without some sort of safety shorts underneath in public, but they gotta be above the knee or else it messes with my mobility :0 overall i prefer two-piece outfits with a tanktop as a base layer!
i like the peasant tops, i like mori kei, gothic, punk, patchwork repairs and embellishments, "twee", i do also have SOME ouji/lolita inspo, loud prints on occasion, soft or muted colors overall, bright colors mixed in a bit,, stripes/gingham/plaid/polkadots/florals/etc, more vintage kids fashion (1960s-2000s mostly!), cute knit patterns on sweaters and cardigans, screen printing, sashiko mending and similar styles, y2k fashion styles in both gender marketing categories, bloomer style shorts/pants!!
not sure if its my style too but i REALLY love to look at decora kei and fairy kei!!
my sensory issues, and body image play heavily into this, but ive always been fixated on fashion since i was really little. ive never had the chance to play with it on my body actually genuinely literally until i was 14-15, and im 22 now. i still dont dress the way i would like to, but i hope to get closer one day!!
my fashion taste is also a part of my agere bc of this forced repression of my tastes overall during childhood. i make up outfits in my head, and i get even more excited when i can wear something close to it irl!
does anyone else have obscure fashion taste?? if so, care to share?? id loove to hear it!!
here are ones puppy uses!! all are optional and some ppl cant do all or most so srry, but these are tips i has!
EDIT: LONG POST OOPS... puppy doing best ;w;
EDIT 2: HOLY YAP. THIS GOES UNDER CUT....
if little enough, wear kids clothes! they go up to adult size small, sometimes medium! puppy personally find it hard to find ones that fit cuz puppy wears adult size L, but lots of stores are making clothes that are kid-like for adult sizes for "nostalgia"!! also make LOTS of cute socks in adult sizes these days
same for shoes!! if your feet SOMEHOW small enough, can sometimes fit kids shoes, BUT puppy find that chinese shoe companies/brands make VERY CUTE SHOES that look like kid shoes but in adult sizes!! puppy got paws from "magchic"!
u are free to wear kid accessories .... do it.... who gonna stop u.... puppy wears hair clips for kids >:3c
^^^^ btw if cant do any of this, study kid styles!! for example puppy notice depending on age range kids have certain fashion trends, styles of wear, things often seen in clothes etc. babies , no matter gender, often have frills or "Lettuce" edges, wear thick socks and dont have pants. toddlers wear lot of chunky colors and overalls. etc! the older u are, the more complex the clothes get!!
u are also free to diy!!! draw on tshirts!! draw on fabric shoes!!! draw on the walls if ur allowed!! draw on everything u own!! learn to sew maybe!! either make ur own cute clothes or diy adding to clothes u already like to make even kiddier!!
if allowed, decorate ur room like kid room! hang up pictures u drawed/colored or even jus printed out, have stuffies in room, have kid bedding (!!! puppy find the bed VERY IMPORTANT in a room for vibes) or bedding that make u feel small, carpets lights etc. in fact...
HERE IS PUPYS ROOM!!! as u can see, very colorful, puppy has twin bed cuz room is small but any size bed will work tbh! twin bed can has cute bedding MADE for kids with print and stuff, and toddler/kid bed frames that r cuuuute, but full/queen/bigger size bed make u feel small...! either way u can buy bed rails to put on and trap u in >:3!!!
use kid plates and spoons and forks and sippies owo if able to
if NOT able to, drink from water bottles with sipper spout or straw! can put any drink in as long as it safe in the type of bottle!
puppy likes angel milk and choccy milk and juice best (also coffee but shhhh), dont have to jhust drink "grown up" drinks or eat "grown up" foods. eat kid stuff!! if dont want eat somthing like say, lunchable or dino nuggets, prepare ur food ina kid way! cut it into little bites! section it into dif foods so they dont touch if u like!
^^^^ puppy find it best if do this All the time if trying be Perma kid/baby/tot etc. for example, puppy ALWAYS eat off baby plate and try to use sippy as much as possible! it rly reinforces that ur a foreverbaby
play! any way at all! nostalgia and kids games r best if u like videogames, but also play with toys OMG!!! puppy LOVES playing pretend with toys. its so healing!!! but understand not everybody comfy esp at first! puppy only done it like 4 times xD
creative things! as kids we ALWAYS making something, either at home or school or whatever! not just drawing - but cutting stuff up, paper craft, glitter glue / gluestick, etc! get creative! if dont like messy try making bracelets or DIYing other things!
^^^ btw make sure u use kids tools like baby scissors , safe glue etc :3
Lie. /silly (puppy dont correct people when they think am younger than chrono age for example... as long as not getting in trouble!)
birthdays!! pretend is your birthday and you turning your transage!! puppy turning 4 this year :D
let urself feel BIG feelings... act "immature" sometimes. puppy only recently started doing this, makes puppy feel very little to cry and throw a fit and get mad at things since puppy so used to not doing that and "acting grown up" ykwim?
bring stuffies/toys/comfort item wherever u go! doesnt have to be "out". either the item or place! puppy brings stuffy everywhere, around the house for example, or to appointments. usually in public keep it in bag for safety to not lose it, but also sometimes bcuz embarassed ;w; trying not to be
have comfort items in general! lotta babies / tots have comfort items, either toys or blankets or clothes. puppy has comfort stuffy and comfort jacket!
this is weird one...... either pretend job is school (if not in school and has job), or work job that "easy" or lots of kids/teens work. puppy work a job where teens work so dont feel TOO grown up :3(also bcuz puppy is stupid but shhh)
have agere account and/or stealth account where u say u are ur true/transage :3 if "too young" to be on internet/have account, maybe pretend u are caregiver to ur little self...!! post abt ur little self like was chrono kid!!
did u know its legal (and morally right /silly) to take bubble baths with baby toys. puppy a genius. puppy only has rubber ducky but friend has baby bath toys lets puppy use!!
shave body hair if that something u want to do !! puppy knows feels euphoria when smooth aaaaall over~
use kid soaps / shampoo / etc! or lotion!! make your skin smooooooth and soooooft and SMELL SO GOOD OMG...
puppy use ONLY kids toothbrush/toothpaste. this is not optional /gen, only way puppy find that make self brush teeth at ALL is with kid toothpaste and baby toothbrush .... adult ones hurt and mint toothpaste taste bad :( if anyone ask, just say have sensitive gums/teeth and u dont like taste of mint.
read kid books or have ppl read to u! lotta ppl on youtube make videos reading kid books btw u can listen to them!! puppy sometimes listens when cant sleep
wake up, have breakfast in jammies, and watch kid/comfort show while eating :3 feels SO good
have a routine!! lota babies have routines. dont have to be Scheduled, just something u do every day!
use accessibility tools! puppy want to use easy-tie on shoes, but for now just tie a knot and slip on/off. same for buttons, zippers, pencils/pens etc, anything to make it easier (so easy a baby could do it even...)
learn some baby signs! some babies learn sign before learn to talk. plenty of books an videos teaching baby signs!!
if have someone supportive irl... hold their hand in public! makes u feel like baby being walked around so u dont get lost....
IF POSSIBLE, wear things like diaps / pullups etc. dont even need to "use" them, just wear like disposable underwear! if menstruate, period panties are good excuse! btw they make diaps for adults that r not expensive ab/dl diaps, they r medical u can get at walmart target walgreens etc, if cant find they also make big big baby diapers/pullups! hear goodnites r very good for that
if cant wear diaps, try stuffing or layering undies? puppy not tried. did u know they also make L/XL/XXL etc undies for kids that fit adults Very easy .... puppy actually has some undies made for kids that are too big on paw!!!
wear binder ! makes u look and feel littler to not have chest stuff
if cant wear binder, try sports bra! DO NOT LAYER IS DANGEROUS... but tight sports bra will work for some ppl, esp if wear loose clothes over it
spend time outside! have "recess"! go to park if able, who gonna stop u? the cops? ....maybe ._. be careful LOL... but also just go outside and play outside !! good for you AND its playtime
when not busy doing big kid stuff, do little kid stuff! every opportunity! puppy spend ENTIRE TIME as baby when not working or doing important stuff like appointments. this not always mean BABYMAXXING 100%, just that puppy always trying do things that add to the vibe. for example, am wearing bluey shorts rn :3
have a bedtime! good for u, good for ur schedule, good for baby vibe! nightlight if u like one or can sleep with one one (puppy personally need it very dark....), sleep with stuffy, lots u can do to get sleepy comfy~
have cute bag! puppy uses preschooler backpack / mini backpack as usual bag, it got dinos on it!! it fits everything puppy needs (wallet, keys, phone, water, hat, stim toys, stuffie... the essentials =w=) decorate it too!! bonus points if has place for u to write ur name, personall makes puppy feel very kiddie
did u know they make jumbo crayons and jumbo chalk. puppy did. puppy has huge box of jumbo crayons. it RULES.
hot take.. dont need to watch or listen to kid friendly things! when puppy was kid was listening to GARBAGE and watching pewdiepie :SOB: so like ... kids get into the darnedest stuff!! when ur watching and someone says bad word for example, dont think "oh im too little to hear this im not little anymore :(" think "omg im too little im gona get in trouble tee hee >:3c im so mischevious"
this is important. have a favorite color. tell people ur favorite color. do it. mine is yellow
risky but try to become permaregressor!! puppy is ALMOST THERE , not always feel 100% little, but that maybe a good thing bcuz if puppy was little all the time at transage (2-6) would not be able to do literally anything. and puppy needs to know how to boil water :sob: U EVER BEEN AGE REGRESSED AND TRY TO MAKE FOOD? ITS NOT GOOD
when encoutner "mdni" or "18+" only, that is not for u. that is for big kids. unless ur being naughty and lying saying ur older.... >:3.... (note: pls do not actually do if u are legal minor u can get in trouble and get others in trouble. sadly)
PUT STUFF!! IN UR MOUTH!! fingers, pacis, chew on straws, teethers, chew stim toys, etc!! it goes in ur mouth now!! (pls wash things first tho lol)
and lastly, let urself be fun and free! feel everything as much as u can and be ur authentic self 100%!! kids dont grow up Knowing how to hide themselves they just ARE THEM!! puppy doing best every day to do that!!
ok puppy running out of things to say :sob: HOPE THIS HELPED!!! puppy surprised at how much typed....
pls feel free/encouraged to rb, screenshot, archive etc so if blog gets termed these tips can live forever~~!!!
I love toddler little space so much. I love not having to pick between big kid activities or baby ones. I love that I can have a mix of tummy time and hide and seek. I love that I can have diapers,pacis,and bottles while still playing older kid games on the laptop. I love being able to watch big kid shows and play with baby blocks.Its the perfect in between and ive never felt happier.
Getting a cg crush is so much better than a romantic crush. Like yes I fantasize about you taking care of me. Yes I get happy and giggly when you acknowledge my little side. Yes I get giddy when you call me pet names. LIKE I WANT YOU TO BE MY MAMA SO BAD. It sucks though when you attach super quickly thought and don't really know each other very well yet 😔🥺
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