let go and learn

Kay. 30. Momma to 2. Autocorrect hater.

[toonewme]

I know I don’t post on here much but if there is any chance of getting help, our pup needs surgery for a chronic dislocated hip.

https://gofund.me/fd5cfded

[toonewme]

I know I don’t post on here much but if there is any chance of getting help, our pup needs surgery for a chronic dislocated hip.

https://gofund.me/fd5cfded

[elixiraura]

if you ever need to search for anything on tumblr:

https://findtags.tumblr.com/

https://tumblrtagsearch.glitch.me/

[cherryandsisters-deactivated202]

an explanation is not owed

[the-redonkulon]

I’m kinda surprised at how many ‘likes-but-did-not-blogs’ there are on this post….there are absolutely no downsides to not sharing it, regardless of whether or not it fits your aesthetic or even if your page isn’t sexual in nature.

Unfortunately, many guys still need to see this….. (but ovviously it applies to everyone).

Consent is paramount, and the ability to remove consent at any time (yes even after sex has started, if it hurts or you get cold feet or whatev)

[thenaughtymilf]

ALWAYS make sure you have consent. And consent can ALWAYS be taken back. Be mindful and respectful of your partner. It’s really not that difficult.

[toonewme]

When your brain screams to bring old rp chars back

[toonewme]

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMdrE4SA6/

Can you please not…

TikTok

[toonewme]

Send help I’ve spent the last week and a half watching handmaids tale and I feel like once I get caught up I’m it going to know what to do with myself anymore...

[stars-bean]

Toy Story (1995) dir. John Lasseter

[dysonairbladefan1992]

If I ever seem arrogant or anything like that, please know I’m joking 100% I have zero self confidence and I sometimes pretend that I think im dead cool and awesome because I’m actually terrible so it’s mildly funny

[boobsinger]

wanting to be friends with people on tumblr but not knowing how to

[blackcatrph]

꧁poetry sentence starters꧂

from the first 70 pages of “whiskey words & a shovel” by r.h. Sin

 “ you’re so used to being mistreated. ” 

“ you’ve gotten so used to being hurt that happiness scares you. ” 

“ who robbed you of innocence? ” 

“ who was your first? ” 

“ and the saddest part of all? you’ll cling to the good memories, as if there were any. ” 

“ the pain will always be there. ” 

“ so many people are setting the bar really low. ” 

“ you get what you allow. ”

“ i was never what you wanted. ” 

“ i was just the one you settled for. ” 

“ you’re an experience. ” 

“ meet me here. ” 

“ you were never the one. ” 

“ this was never love. ” 

“ you were simply necessary. ” 

“ i had to be hurt by you. ” 

“ i hope you find what you’re looking for. ” 

“ i hope you find the truth. ” 

“ and that’s how they control you. ” 

“ our version of living feels more like death. ” 

“ i understand you. ” 

“ i was forced to survive in your absence. ” 

“ i was faced with the realization that I never needed you. ” 

“ you’re always apologizing. ” 

“ one day I’ll stop listening. ” 

“ we grew apart.” 

“ we stopped trying. ” 

“ i’m trying to get better. ” 

“ i’m trying to get better at walking away from unhealthy situations. ” 

“ i struggle with the idea of anyone loving me unconditionally. ” 

“ sometimes I wish you waited for me. ” 

“ i got tired of going through the same shit with different people. ” 

“ it’s not your fucking fault. ” 

“ you can’t change a man. ” 

“ the thought of being in love is blinding. ” 

“ bargaining using sex.  either way you get screwed. ” 

“ the memories hurt the most. ” 

“ sometimes i get tired of thinking about the things that i don’t want to think about. ” 

“ sometimes i get so fucking tired. ” 

“ tonight, you’ll be the death of me. ”

[boozerman]

GHOST OF TSUSHIMA (2020) dev. Sucker Punch

[ghostmemesource]

running away together plot. muse a and muse b decide to leave everything behind in their lives (whatever that may entail) to run away together. the destination might be unknown but the road together brings out new dreams, aspirations, and a newfound relationship between muse a and muse b. there is site seeing, sleeping in cars, fast food stops, and long talks in the middle of the night. there’s struggling for money, not knowing where they’ll go next, and even wondering if they should turn back.

[museinspo]

“She apologized all the time, as if it was a habit; but you could see it in her eyes that she meant it. Every apology was sincere. She was sorry for the way the world worked. She was sorry for everything.”

— (via jan-zhao)

[aangisdead]

best things about the childhood best friends/friends to lovers trope

casual displays of affection

sharing a bed because “we’ve been doing it since we were kids”

platonic cuddling 12/10 times that a bed is shared… totally platonic…

that thing where they lay down and one person is lying perpendicular to the other with their head on the other’s stomach u feel

casual displays of affection

late night deep talks (a rooftop setting optional)

“i know you better than i know myself”

saying i love you to each other thinking the other person means “only as a friend/sibling” when no they mean romantically

calling the other person “home”

laying their head on the other person’s shoulder

forehead/cheek/temple/top of head kisses

super tight hugs where one or both “feels safe”

pet names/nicknames/referring to the other as “my (person’s name)”

CASUAL DISPLAYS OF AFFECTION

missing the other person whenever they’re not around more than best friends probs should

trusting each other so easily so effortlessly bc it’s second nature

literally just?? the fact that they’re best friends?????

“i’ve always loved you” / “i have loved you all my life”

basically pretending everything is casual and totally platonic when really they love each other so much i’m trash bye

[the-littleroleplayer]

undermyanumbrella​:

i want to write relationships that are complicated.

i want to write the on-again-off-again relationships. i want the screaming matches and the cancelled dates and the hurt feelings and the second guesses and second chances. 

i want to write people who completely shake up each other’s daily routine and flip their entire world on its axis. i want them to drive each other crazy and question why they bother sticking around and then remember the way their partner laughs or see them in a moment of vulnerability that tells them ‘this is is why i stay. this is why i love you.‘ 

i want to write relationships with struggles. with class differences and financial divide. two people who are so completely different they somehow complete each other. i want the jealousy and the feelings of inadequacy that goes with it. 

i want to write people who aren’t afraid to be honest with their partner. who aren’t afraid to say ‘yeah you’re being an asshole’ followed by ‘but i still love you, you idiot.’

i want the first time they see their partner cry and the morning after their first intimate night when everything feels so right.

i want people who get so used to one another that they stop going the extra mile. i want the ‘you don’t make the effort because you already have me’ argument.

i want relationships that challenge each other to be better people and make each other question their beliefs and moral compass. 

but most of all, i want to write relationships that are real. that make you feel something. i want to go on the emotional rollercoaster right along with them.

that’s what i want.

[littlexne-blog]

the signs when sad

Aries: pushy, mean, slightly aggressive but all they want is a supportive hug Taurus: impatient yet sensitive  so they isolate themselves, binges on anything in sight, comforting conversations and rants tend to cure it Gemini: silent, keeps it a secret, nerves and overthinking, needs to lean on others but never admits it Cancer: shuts off all communication with others, cries silently to self, snug blankets, long hugs and warm cups of tea help Leo: brushes it off externally while it eats them up inside, music and a social event is sure to brighten their day Virgo: overthinks everything making themselves feel worse, reading to try distract their mind Libra: numb, bottles it all up, wallows in themselves, socializing with people who truly care Scorpio: cries at night, stays away from people and parties, fresh air and the open road clears their mind to free their emotions Sagittarius: takes it out on other people in the form of anger, knows exactly what to say to affect you, allow them to simmer and calm Capricorn: lack of motivation, on edge and very tense, seems blank and emotionless, a good long bubble bath with a glass of wine will help them relax Aquarius: untalkative and cold, quieter than usual, normally doesn’t want any attention when feeling this way Pisces: feels every negative thought all at once, anxiety rules them, irritable, retreats into their own world, needs someone close to trust with their life to help