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Momo - he/him only - white - mid 20s 🔞🔞🔞

[totalmoralfag]

intro post!

momo - he/him only - white - 20s traumagenic DID system, nonbinary transmasc Minors please DNI + will be blocked on sight. This blog frequently discusses topics of kink/sex, and is intended for 18+ ADULTS ONLY.

this is a sideblog for ranting, discourse, etc. i have severe ocd, along with a slew of other shit wrong with me that sometimes may make me sound incoherent or nonsensical. im open to well meaning criticism but you're also welcome to just block me. im not an authority on anything, im just sharing my own thoughts and experiences.

STANCES: anti-radqueer/anti-xenosatanist, nuance-ship (<- this specific definition), pro-RACK, neutral/pro-non harmful paras but very strictly anti-harmful paras (technically para-health), pro-good faith "weird" identities (endogenic systems, otherkin/therians/etc, contradictory labels, etc), anti-radfem (both TERFs and TRFs). im an intersectional transfeminist who believes in transmisogyny AND transandrophobia AND exorsexism.

i do not & have never used 4chan, kiwifarms, or adjacent sites and consider them dangerous and malicious. my username is a reclaimed joke based on the pro-para/pro-ship crowds unironically co-opting 4chan slurs to harass people who dont support abuse.

[galactic-mayhem]

saw this on pinterest but i think it belongs here too

[e-von-dahl]

“Trans men don’t make good music it’s all cringey ukulele indie pop” name a trans male musician who makes music like that other than cavetown

You know what? Name any trans male musician at all who isn’t cavetown

[totalmoralfag]

i dont want to derail from op's original point, but there have been a lot of wonderful reccs on this post, and i DO think we as a community need to do more to uplift trans men/transmasc musicians instead of stereotyping all transmasc musicians as "cringy". so, i sat down and went through every comment, tag, and reblog on this post (at least, all of the ones that are visible to me) and compiled a list, and i included some of my own favorites that i didnt see mentioned!

this list is not in any order, and i am not familiar with most of these artists, so an inclusion on this is not an endorsement of anything! if ive made a mistake anywhere, just let me know!

schmekel - transmasc jewish folk band (they seem to have deleted the majority of their music off most platforms, unsure why? but this link is to a playlist of re-uploads)

exiliahu - very vocally pro-palestine jewish trans man

noah finnce - british trans man, pop rock

ellyotto - canadian trans man, hyperpop

jesswar - fijian-austrailian trans man, hip hop

2am ricky - Black american trans man, hip hop/soul/jazz/house

rahim redcar - french trans man, indie/alt-pop

elio mei - american trans man, indie folk

anjimile - Black american trans man, indie folk

the oozes - queer punk band w/ a trans man lead singer

sushi soucy - transmasc, folk rock

dopamine - band of scottish transmascs

boy jr - transmasc, indie/alt rock

great grandpa - queer indie rock band w/ trans man lead singer

riotnine - transmasc punk band

the muslims - transmasc poc anti-fascist punk band

TR sun - Black american trans man, hip hop

billy tipton - american trans man, 1940s jazz star

mal blum - american trans man, indie rock/folk punk

dayflower - british transmasc "dreamcore" indie pop band

ryan cassata - american trans man, folk punk

ezra butler - british trans man, indie pop

bells larson - canadian nonbinary trans man, indie pop

sasha allen - american trans man, indie pop

boy bowser - american trans man, energetic hip hop

mikah amani - Black american trans man, folk music

jake edwards - british trans man, pop music

jakey bake - trans man, super indie/underground

king aiden - Black american trans man, indie pop

addison grace - american transmasc, indie pop

dylan and the moon - british trans man, indie folk

searows - american trans man, indie folk/bedroom pop

elio kennedy yoon - Asian-american trans man, indie pop

beverly glenn copland - Black canadian trans man, art/folk pop

REVENGEOFPARIS - nonbinary transmasc rapper

V3CTORGRAPH1CS - nonbinary transmasc, hyperpop

Um Jennifer? - american indie rock duo ; one is transmasc, the other is transfem

jigsawllie - transmasc, indie "weirdcore" vocaloid music

Jupi77er - brazilian trans man rapper

[totalmoralfag]

I spent years in TRF circles avoiding the word "transandrophobia" because everyone around me insisted that it was an evil word coined by a lesbophobic "TMRA" (or even continuing to spread blatant lies about it being coined by a neonazi terf) Just to find out the guy who coined it is a self identified transmasc dyke who has literally spent years clarifying his identity and his political stances over and over just to get people to take him and his experiences as a transmasc dyke seriously. we're never making it out of the crab bucket

[totalmoralfag]

I'm also particularly angry about the TRFs who contributed to this misinformation campaign solely to tear down other trans people and the hypocrisy of it all. TRF circles on here have spent the last 9 months defending their most popular bloggers openly condoning pedophilia, zoophilia, rape, and other blatant abuse apologism, platforming MAPs and insisting "fiction doesnt affect reality" while defending actual real life groomers and predators who have hurt real people, and then they turn around and say "if you use the word transandrophobia youre supporting a lesbophobe with a dykebreaking kink".

EVEN IF that were true, literally all that tells me is that they ARE capable of recognizing that there are certain sexual practices that are inherently abusive and unethical, they just dont care when its something they personally like. they dont care about anyone's liberation or nuance, theyre literally just being selfish and cruel for the fun of it. Deeply evil website

[totalmoralfag]

I spent years in TRF circles avoiding the word "transandrophobia" because everyone around me insisted that it was an evil word coined by a lesbophobic "TMRA" (or even continuing to spread blatant lies about it being coined by a neonazi terf) Just to find out the guy who coined it is a self identified transmasc dyke who has literally spent years clarifying his identity and his political stances over and over just to get people to take him and his experiences as a transmasc dyke seriously. we're never making it out of the crab bucket

[totalmoralfag]

hi transmasc tumblr - im looking for some clarification on the coiner of "transandrophobia". im already aware that the myths around it being coined by a neonazi terf have been debunked, & that the original coiner is a user named "saint", but i dont know his (pronouns?) blog. ive also heard allegations that saint has a sideblog specifically for dykebreaking - ive heard some people say that this is not true & that he is a sex worker who engaged w the kink for money but does not support it, but during the peak of that discourse i also saw screenshots of *a* blog (unsure if it was saint's?) that seemed pretty explicitly supportive of dykebreaking entirely on its own.

im out of the loop and don't know where to go to verify any of this. does anyone have any insight and/or links to proof on this situation? the answer wouldnt change my stance on the need for a word like "transandrophobia" or discussing transmasc struggles, but if im going to be using the word i'd at least like to know the truth about it