#kink discourse

[joycomplexx]

I think what people don't understand is you can analyze and engage with something critically, and also have it be your fetish. they're not mutually exclusive

[findme-at1am]

Welcome to I have Plaidos blocked and everything I learn is against my will half time show.

Welcome another kink critical who admits they don't know how to properly choke a person. Some of y'all give me second hand embarrassment making side accounts for specific discourse and not doing your research ABOUT THE DISCOURSE YOU'RE IN.

"Normal Mental State" tell me you would make a great demeaning psychiatrist without telling me-

Also people drink alcohol and extra sugary drinks and "harm" themselves, people smoke and "harm" themselves, people read the news and "harm" themselves. No one on planet Earth has a "normal" mental state pal. "Normal" is subjective based on contextual surroundings of an individual.

Also trans people depicting themselves in trans art will never be problematic to me. Sorry you don't like the caricatures but thats your own personal discomfort at cisgender stereotypes not a "time to find a reason why I despise trans men again". Especially when I see trans women who don't mind being called puppy girls and the like.

Are we really telling trans people that their *presentation/kinks are* upholding cisgender norms by *reads notes* ...being a puppygirl..? What kinda fox news teleprompter ass opinion....

Edit: someone to block that is intentionally interacting with this post.

Edit:only adding more to block

[sacred-pro-fiction]

Im so tired of noncon fantasies being defended exclusively from the standpoint of women who fantasize as the victim

"Accusing ppl with rape fantasies of wanting to be raped is disgusting apologism!"

I fantasize as the rapist. I like imagining scenarios where someone isn't attracted to me, because I'm used to being treated as an object and it pisses me off. The only fantasy that feels empowering is one where I'm 100% sure the other person isn't using me for their pleasure because they aren't experiencing pleasure at all, because I'm in control, because it's all about what I want and nothing else.

That doesn't make me a rapist, and most of the people condemning rape fantasies have people like me in mind, so it would be nice if that was acknowledged more.

[eatfeet69]

But THOSE queers make us look bad!

We will always "look bad" to them you BONEHEADS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[proship-shuujuu]

all three of these are actual kinks, or attractions that are often explored through kink — age-play, fauxcest, cnc, etc. — or fiction. consent does not matter in fiction, since, by clicking on that work, you have consented to see it and whatever kinks it includes. i fear this is not rocket science.

you cannot be pro-kink and antiship.

[unsolids-your-snake]

It's weird how even in leftist spaces where talking about sex is appropriate and common, it's not really okay to go off about your desires as a top/Dom/active/giving partner unless it's super soft and UwUified

People can talk all day about how they want to be choked or fucked or stepped on or whatever and it's so unserious that it's often a punchline even outside of spaces like this, but if you talk about wanting to hit, choke, or fuck someone it isn't received the same way at all. Talking about wanting to rail someone into the ground is almost crass in the same space where talking about wanting to be railed will get you nods and laughter

Idk where exactly I'm going with this, I barely slept last night, but it feels like the receptive partner is treated as though they're not responsible for the sex they participate in and that the active partner is fully responsible for liking it, wanting it, and doing it, almost as though consent and mutual participation are not involved.

And I'm just tired and also grossed out

[clearancecreedwatersurvival]

The only people who are actually out here pushing their kinks onto other people are the trad wives and evangelical fundie Christians who are just constantly advocating for 24/7 lifestyle D/S kinkplay. Yeah girl we all want to hear about how much fulfillment you find in being a submissive helpmeet and washing your husband’s feet or whatever y’all are into.

[spiralmindz]

it makez me so fucking bitter the way tumblr in general treats kink everyone's a hashtag Pervert hashtag Sex Freak but like if ur kink isnt currently popular we still get to cancel u for being into fat ppl lmao