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@tradwifesblog
hey, so I’m a bisexual girl (I’m hoping you aren’t anti-lgbtq) and my ex gf was a lesbian tradwife, and I’m a minor too. So like, I’m a trad-husband, kind of? I mean I’m basically a woman learning how to be a proper gentleman and a loving husband and father, and just… it’s good to see other minors like this around. Gives me hope. Thanks, I love your blog.
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I'm so pro-patriarchy, why should men and women be competing to be better in the workplace when they are polar opposites? I simply don't get it.
Has it ever gone through your head that, maybe, perhaps, being opposites often time may come in handy because it gives everyone a new perspective. Or maybe that being opposites has nothing to do with said job? Or even the fact that people who are different from each other contribute a lot more to the job than people who are exactly the same? Also, women can also be polar opposites to each other and so can men...
Of course but i’m not saying that.. I’m saying why are feminist women *competing* with men within the workplace. Especially with jobs in trade etc, women won’t be as good as the average man in these types of jobs yet women endlessly *compete* with them. And i’m not talking about personalities because then yes, “women can also be polar opposites to eachother and so can men…” I’m talking about biological factors and domesticated factors, in which we have evolved over time. In that perspective, men and women are opposites.
When women say they have to compete with men, it isn't due to then not being on par with men. It's because of people like you, who few women as being less good at a job due to them not being men. People like you who assume that women aren't good enough at said job just due to their genitalia, and try to justify it be giving a half backed excuse such as the one you just gave now. Also you just kind of assumed that every woman wants in life exactly what you want in life, which is wrong. It's perfectly okay if you want to live your life the way you do. But assuming that every woman would be better just following your life style is just wrong. You're just as obsessed with the patriarchy as radical feminists.
“People like you who assume that women aren’t good enough at said job just due to their genitalia” But is that the only difference between men and women? No, there’s more biological differences like how men are taller ( average male height being 5’9 and average female height being 5’4 ), how men are stronger than their female counterparts ( due to the level of testosterone equating to more than 10x then the average woman, generating muscle mass a lot faster and easier than women ) and men outperform women in the EQ skills of assertiveness and confidence etc. Genitalia isn’t the only difference between men and women, if you believe this then you’re wrong 😂. Plus, i don’t believe every woman is suited to my ideal lifestyle, nor was i pushing it on anyone, just as how not every woman is suited toward a 9-5 or a modern-day job. “When women say they have to compete with men, it isn’t due to them not being on par with men.” Yet i still see women trying to be better than men in almost everything, not because of “people like me” or something of the sort.. It’s because they want to assert themselves as the better sex, we see it all the time on social media. If you’re not seeing it you’re blind.
Men being physically stronger & taller than women does not mean women can’t intellectually “compete”-i.e: work alongside & add to the workspace of a corporate job office? Like that muscle mass, extra height, ect-does NOTHING then. It becomes irrelevant. Being assertive & confidence are not the ONLY two skills needed for a typical 9-5 job. Besides TOO much assertiveness & confidence is bad & there’s plenty of situations where it could even get you fired.
I want to be a housewife because my love comes in the form of submission. This is not the case for everyone, & putting women who don’t live your lifestyle in a negative light then turning around & claiming you accept others don’t live your lifestyle is VERY contradictory. If you don’t want backlash from them, stop attacking THEM first by putting them down. If you have the personal thought that women shouldn’t be in the workplace because their not equal, fine. You’re allowed to think that. But when you post it, it’s open to interpretation. The same way you interpret feminists posts as “no women should stay home anymore or be a housewife!!” (Which they’re not claiming) THEY are looking at YOUR post as “oh she thinks everyone should stay home because of the rude way in which she’s discussing women in the workplace” (which you aren’t saying). Not discussing the other leaves room for understanding.
If you’re confident in your traditional lifestyle, which you have every right to be, you wouldn’t be putting other women who don’t wish to abide by it. Your love for traditional lifestyles can come without mentioning the way other women live their lives at all.
If you had just taken 5 seconds to look on my blog you would have known I'm completely fine and supportive with women going into the workplace and that none of my posts are meant in a hostile or rude way. There's always going to be jobs that a certain gender is better at, I mentioned the trade industry in which being a man would be beneficial, yet women compete to be better than the men in this industry. You don't see men trying to be better than women in their ideal fields of work, the original point was literally that women shouldn't compete, not "putting them down" or putting them "in a negative light". Try find a post of me "putting other women down", I doubt you can.
I hope those women who raised you don’t know what a regressive attitude you have. If they’re anything like my sisters and wife, they’d be horrified…
They don’t give a fuck because they’re not hypocrites who blurt out all this progressive shit yet don’t exercise it when it comes to something they disagree with.
Thoughts on Jews?
Love Jewish people, couldn’t give very much input as there are not that many Jewish people who live near me, nor do i know much about Jews. I have nothing against them. To hate a group of people for no apparent reason is so beyond me, i don’t intend to spread hate to anyone in general. Most people are welcome here.
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I'm so pro-patriarchy, why should men and women be competing to be better in the workplace when they are polar opposites? I simply don't get it.
Has it ever gone through your head that, maybe, perhaps, being opposites often time may come in handy because it gives everyone a new perspective. Or maybe that being opposites has nothing to do with said job? Or even the fact that people who are different from each other contribute a lot more to the job than people who are exactly the same? Also, women can also be polar opposites to each other and so can men...
Of course but i’m not saying that.. I’m saying why are feminist women *competing* with men within the workplace. Especially with jobs in trade etc, women won’t be as good as the average man in these types of jobs yet women endlessly *compete* with them. And i’m not talking about personalities because then yes, “women can also be polar opposites to eachother and so can men…” I’m talking about biological factors and domesticated factors, in which we have evolved over time. In that perspective, men and women are opposites.
When women say they have to compete with men, it isn't due to then not being on par with men. It's because of people like you, who few women as being less good at a job due to them not being men. People like you who assume that women aren't good enough at said job just due to their genitalia, and try to justify it be giving a half backed excuse such as the one you just gave now. Also you just kind of assumed that every woman wants in life exactly what you want in life, which is wrong. It's perfectly okay if you want to live your life the way you do. But assuming that every woman would be better just following your life style is just wrong. You're just as obsessed with the patriarchy as radical feminists.
“People like you who assume that women aren’t good enough at said job just due to their genitalia” But is that the only difference between men and women? No, there’s more biological differences like how men are taller ( average male height being 5’9 and average female height being 5’4 ), how men are stronger than their female counterparts ( due to the level of testosterone equating to more than 10x then the average woman, generating muscle mass a lot faster and easier than women ) and men outperform women in the EQ skills of assertiveness and confidence etc. Genitalia isn’t the only difference between men and women, if you believe this then you’re wrong 😂. Plus, i don’t believe every woman is suited to my ideal lifestyle, nor was i pushing it on anyone, just as how not every woman is suited toward a 9-5 or a modern-day job. “When women say they have to compete with men, it isn’t due to them not being on par with men.” Yet i still see women trying to be better than men in almost everything, not because of “people like me” or something of the sort.. It’s because they want to assert themselves as the better sex, we see it all the time on social media. If you’re not seeing it you’re blind.
although i so respect your choice to be " traditional feminine " women. I don't see the fact that you kept dissing feminist and especially other women ( it seems big degrading + devaluing women, especially because feminists usually help women who are abused + raped along with women's right ) your intention might be fine but the way you worded it is extremely inaccurate. It seems rather forceful instead of encouraging.
Thank you for being so polite ! Yet, I don't think I have made any "degrading" posts towards feminists themselves - unless you're talking about a post I made on October 30th titled "Modern feminism is lying to all young women." Which was not meant in anyway to degrade a certain group of people, it was just posted to criticise the movement as a whole, of course this is generalising which is why I put "! Not all feminists have these opinions !" at the bottom of my post. I agree that feminism, as a general term, has moved the world forward in many ways, such as giving women the right to vote, encouraging women to come out in domestic violence or r*pe cases etc. But, the modernised version of this movement for women, in my opinion, is spreading the wrong message. Also, I have no intention of forcing women into this lifestyle, it's not for everyone, some people don't want to get married and have kids and that's not under my control. I don't want to make people feel attacked or devalued, that's not the purpose of my blog ( unless you're vile ) so feel free to tell me if you feel that way !
I'm so pro-patriarchy, why should men and women be competing to be better in the workplace when they are polar opposites? I simply don't get it.
Has it ever gone through your head that, maybe, perhaps, being opposites often time may come in handy because it gives everyone a new perspective. Or maybe that being opposites has nothing to do with said job? Or even the fact that people who are different from each other contribute a lot more to the job than people who are exactly the same? Also, women can also be polar opposites to each other and so can men...
Of course but i’m not saying that.. I’m saying why are feminist women *competing* with men within the workplace. Especially with jobs in trade etc, women won’t be as good as the average man in these types of jobs yet women endlessly *compete* with them. And i’m not talking about personalities because then yes, “women can also be polar opposites to eachother and so can men…” I’m talking about biological factors and domesticated factors, in which we have evolved over time. In that perspective, men and women are opposites.
Trad Husbands
Traditional Husbands also have a huge part to play in a traditional marriage, although it’s not acknowledged by many of traditional individuals. So here’s a small list of the traditional husbands duties :
Make your wife feel protected, whether she’s with you or not.
Do the heavy lifting and fixing jobs around the house for your wife.
Always greet your wife with a kiss
Set an example to your daughter/s what a boyfriend should be like, and your sons how they should treat women.
Always bring gifts back from long work trips to show your loyalty and appreciation.
Make sure to remind your wife that you love her by taking her on dates, saying “i love you” frequently and holding her when she needs it.
Cater to her emotional and physical needs, like she does for you.
Give her days or time off, especially during pregnancy, birthdays and holidays in general.
This relationship is a balance, she looks good for you so make sure you’re hygienic and groomed for her.
Assure her consistently that she and her kids are completely provided for and protected as long as you live.
Support her in everything she does.
Women are a lot more emotional then their male counterparts so approach arguments and conflicts with caution and care.
Make sure you understand her boundaries and what she considers wrong etc, otherwise you’ll run into many arguments ( and obviously abide by these boundaries ).
Never talk badly to others about your wife. Even to your own parents and children.
This list isn’t all the duties of a traditional working husband, just a small guide. Although men and women aren’t equals, within a relationship it’s a balance. We have to work toward that balance by showing we have equal yet opposing duties.
Red flags in a man (in my opinion):
He doesn’t pay for a date
Follows explicit pages
Obsesses over appearance
Love-bombing early on
Secretive
Limited communication
Not chivalrous
Femininely
Doesn’t have interest in your opinions
Doesn’t believe in traditionalism
Huge feminist
We need more “tradwife” pages that speak on the duties and roles in a traditional relationship instead of ones that spew out pictures of an unrealistic family life. I love those pages as well, don’t get me wrong, but they don’t show much realism and make people believe the traditional community is delusional. We need more accounts that speak on the subject in itself and educate the people who need it. Traditional people want to spread the message that being traditional is ideal and beautiful but constantly showing the unrealistic expectations of this lifestyle deters average people from liking it completely. Simply because most arguments against this lifestyle are cases like domestic abuse and financial consequences but if we shown that we acknowledge these things and how to prevent them in this dynamic, people will start to understand why we cherish these family, and individual, values.
Real homemaking is not always going to be “aesthetic”. Those times when your children are crying, when your house is messy and when you and your husband are in a petty argument, it will all be worth it. To those who are living this lifestyle, the men and women, i have so much respect for you. You fight through the rough times when it doesn’t seem so beautiful being a traditional individual, when it doesn’t look exactly like it does on pinterest and tumblr, yet you recognise the beauty in those cries of your children and the fights between you and your spouse. You recognise that those “non-aesthetic” moments are always going to be part of life, that it makes your family stronger and gives you experiences to learn and grow from. No one, and certainly no family, is perfect. You see the perfect side of this family dynamic, yet the people who live within it day to day can’t grasp the perfection of the posts made by aspiring tradwives and that’s the beauty of it. It’s never perfect. It’s ideal, but never perfect.
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On most “tradwife” pages, exactly like mine, we don’t talk about the responsibilities of men in a traditional relationship and now a lot of the traditional male pages i see are fetish and kink pages with no respect for themselves or the women in their lives ( because keep in mind half of them have a wife and kids at home ). They will absolutely clutch onto the fact that they’re “masculine” and “strong” and that they provide for their family to prove their manhood yet i can’t think of a less manly thing than adultery. If you want to be this big, strong, traditional man, go ahead but that does not mean you abandon all your original duties of a relationship. Tradwives still need as much love as the modern day women you lust over on the internet, they still need you to be strong for them not just strong for an audience online. A lot of these pages ran by these men display the traditional lifestyle as a free pass for men to do whatever, get sex whenever and on top of that have a wife to obey you at every beck and call. They don’t understand that traditional gender roles is a balance, they seem to think women in this situation are their slaves, in every way shape and form, and all they need to do is go to work and get back home. All tradwife pages, even those ran by women, should start to display the roles of men in a traditional relationship, instead of showing men that this kind of relationship is a kink or showing them that we don’t expect anything from them, this vulnerability breeds predatory men. We need good and true masculine men, not these sex obsessed weirdos that want a wife simply for sex and not even giving her that due to his weird obsession with child-like teenage girls who post themselves and their bodies all over the internet.
Ohhhhh. Yes, Sir.
