transID tips!

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[transidtips]

let your blood wash me clean, for i’m, i’m, i'm, i'm a rotten girl!

send in asks for transids that you would like tips for (ie transbpd, transchinese, transplural, etc)!!

we will either make a list on my own or send a link to a list someone else made :3

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mod mikus ids: cisplural, ciscaneuser, transwheelchairuser, cisnpd, cisstpd, cisocd, cispsychotic, permadissociated, transsemiverbal, cissadistic, transharmful, transprogrammer, cisEDS ^_^

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I've recently come to terms with being transintersex, I've had this deep feeling since I learned what being intersex is that I was intersex. It's hard to explain it's just this feeling that I can't ignore anymore, but I feel deep guilt because I've been told it's intersexist. Sure, I could use alt terms but I've tried and they just don't fit right. How do I get over this guilt? How do I deal with my dysphoria around my identity as intersex now? Is this just a delusion that I need to correct? Any advice would be appreciated.

hi anon. i also identified as transintersex for a long while before realizing im actually cisintersex. it is so, so much more common than most people think. but as someone who did id as transintersex, i do understand where you're coming from. i wanted to be intersex before i even really knew about the transID community. and, like you, i felt terrible about it for the same reasons.

i appear as a mostly-typical mulleripathian with one physical variation and, to my knowledge, mosaic turner's syndrome (i can't afford to test, but the symptoms line up almost perfectly, and i Don't trust the medical system for. Obvious Reasons).

despite appearing as a typical mulleripathian, i am intersex.

there is no "wrong" way to be intersex. there is nothing any fakeclaimers can do or say to ""prove"" you aren't intersex, because you are. you are not delusional. your identity is real, and it is valid.

the link i posted above - which includes the definition of mulleripathian - is also a huge list of intersex traits, including many that people don't often realize or know are intersex. it's actually how i found out that i am cisintersex. fair warning, the blog is not sympathetic to transintersex beings, but i found it very helpful. who knows, maybe you'll find out like me that you're also cisintersex? you're still intersex either way, anon.

i apologize that i cannot offer many tips for dysphoria in this case. i would recommend finding others in the community who do support transintersex beings.

you are valid, you are real, and you are intersex.

if you would like, you can reach out privately, though if you're uncomfortable with that i completely understand.

[transidtips]

trans cane user (w/o access to a cane)

hi anon ! i usually use a cane these days , but i lost mine , so ... o7

- when you're out and about , be considering distances . how long is that walk ? how many steps , how long will it take ? will you need to stop and rest or is it bearable ?

- stairs are EVIL INCARNATE . so are slopes . (sidenote, FUCK MY COLLEGE CAMPUS)

- im pretty much always limping when i'm without my cane

- if there are any , always be using guardrails / handrails / anything you can lean against .

this probably isnt the most helpful , i lost my cane a while ago and ive been . Very Sad (i was dating my cane)

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Hi, just a quick question since you said anti rq dni. I'm a radqueer but the rest of my system is anti. That also means the acc we like/follow from is our host's account.

I was wondering if I could follow you? The account it'd follow from would be our host's account.

Apologies, I just don't want to ignore your dni but I do want to follow, but I sadly can't from my account

- @robin-in-alt

oh yes thats just fine ^_^ i understand!

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Ik this is such a stupid question but I'm new to all this stuff- is transADHD kind of like undiagnosed ADHD? if I suspect I have it but can't get tested rn couldn't I identify as transADHD or is that using it wrongly?

hiya nonnie! this isn't a stupid question at all. honestly, there is no "wrong" way to identify as a transID! i am transNPD. i'm not sure if i transitioned, or just simply allowed myself to be more disordered, so personally i'm not sure if i'm trans or cis NPD. in my case, i fluctuate between calling myself transNPD, preNPD, and xisNPD.

pre-NPD meaning i identified with the transID first, only to realize i was cis- that ID. and xisID meaning i transitioned to the point where people who know me think i am cis-that ID. so if you find out you are cisADHD, you could say you're preADHD instead of transADHD.

there's a lot of different terms for this, and at the end of the day, it's your identity. i am mutoNative and cisNative. muto-ID meaning one is cisID, but prefers to call themself trans-that ID. so if you find out that you are cisADHD, but still want to call yourself transADHD, you could use mutoADHD.

usually, people say they are transID because they aren't cisID, but like i said above, it's your identity, and you can choose how you identify.

i do hope this helps, and feel free to send in another ask. best of luck, anon !

-- MAD MOD !

[novalitesdiary]

adding onto this, schrödingers-id is also a term that fits what anon is saying!

its basically "i think i have this/am cis of this, but if im not im just gonna transid as it anyways"

again, no way to use any transid wrong though :)

[transidtips]

yes ! i completely forgot about this , i am .. so eepys. thank you !

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trans scizoaffective bipolar type ?

oh hey ! im cis-bipolar schizoaffective ^__^

for me , its definitely a mix of bipolar and schizophrenia . i have some recurring delusions (such as being in the backrooms) , hallucinations (hearing sounds such as music, whispering, people calling my name, and seeing things like something moving outside my door, or things crawling around) , manic episodes (going to sleep at like 3 AM when i have work at 7 , being irritable / aggressive / extremely energetic even though i'm usually always tired) , and other such things.

as for advice , try finding a delusion you can believe in and support , and when having a manic episode , support that belief to the full degree . randomly act like you heard / saw something that nobody else saw ; people may be more likely to believe you are cis-schizoaffective :3 randomly change how much you're functioning -- good on one day , bad on the next , medium the next , etc . act 'different' around people - i sometimes get paranoid during my manic episodes , and it Definitely shows ! i become deeply distrustful of people i'm usually close with , like my manager !

hope this helps , anon ! im . Very eepies rn , so this may not be fully understandable . feel free to come back for more tips ^__^

(i want to say as well, it makes me feel good knowing i have at least someone who wants to be like me , wants to have something i have . best of luck to you , anon , and i hope that if you pursue transition it is successful !)

[transidtips]

Ik this is such a stupid question but I'm new to all this stuff- is transADHD kind of like undiagnosed ADHD? if I suspect I have it but can't get tested rn couldn't I identify as transADHD or is that using it wrongly?

hiya nonnie! this isn't a stupid question at all. honestly, there is no "wrong" way to identify as a transID! i am transNPD. i'm not sure if i transitioned, or just simply allowed myself to be more disordered, so personally i'm not sure if i'm trans or cis NPD. in my case, i fluctuate between calling myself transNPD, preNPD, and xisNPD.

pre-NPD meaning i identified with the transID first, only to realize i was cis- that ID. and xisID meaning i transitioned to the point where people who know me think i am cis-that ID. so if you find out you are cisADHD, you could say you're preADHD instead of transADHD.

there's a lot of different terms for this, and at the end of the day, it's your identity. i am mutoNative and cisNative. muto-ID meaning one is cisID, but prefers to call themself trans-that ID. so if you find out that you are cisADHD, but still want to call yourself transADHD, you could use mutoADHD.

usually, people say they are transID because they aren't cisID, but like i said above, it's your identity, and you can choose how you identify.

i do hope this helps, and feel free to send in another ask. best of luck, anon !

-- MAD MOD !

[transidtips]

TransIRL tips? Like IRL psychosis? Iykwim

Will do! A lot of these are based off my own past experience with being an IRL, so if any don't fit you, feel free to leave them!

(Also, there don't involve actual psychosis as I don't know if you would be comfortable with that, anon. Feel free to send another request if you'd like tips with psychosis!)

TransIRL tips:

First, pick a character. Make sure it's one you have an easy time resonating with, or feel you might relate to. (Or, if you happen to be otherkin/a fictive/otherwise identify as a character, using that identity for this would probably be easier!)

Once you have that character, you're gonna want to remodel your identity to center around that character. Change your name to their name, use their pronouns, etc. - Much like the name suggests, IRLs identify as that character In Real Life, so you would believe you ARE that character.

Adding on to that, getting upset/triggered when someone doesn't refer to you as your IRL (Or outright refuses to acknowledge your existence as that character) is also pretty common. - As well, IRLs tend to get upset about doubles (other people that identify as said character) due to the nature of the ID, and believing you are the character, and therefore those people are stealing your identity. (DISCLAIMER: This is NOT to say you should harass people! Don't do that! Just block them!)

It would probably also be a good idea to have certain memories (either real or created) of being that character! It helps a lot with immersion, and is useful for if anyone asks!

[transidtips]

MAD MOD ! here to say that if anyone sees me rbing something to this blog that Doesnt fit . please ignore it im very stupid </3 im sooo so eepy and dum. all the Time. please ignore when i fuck up ebcause i do it OFTEN . thanks chat yipee i need to go to bed signed yours truly glaive. or something idk

[transidtips]

transana requester here…

i’m wondering if you have any snack ideas? i like carrots and hummus but that’s about the only snack idea i can think of.

thanks. <3

- @dxmb-pxppy

hello! mod miku here :3 i used to be cisana (im recovered now) and one of my favorite lowcal snacks was actually ice and cinnamon ^_^ its a little weird when you first start it but its actually really good!! and things like watery fruit is also really good :3 things like watermelon and blueberries can also be good if you like things like that

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not sure if you do this kind of tips but... how do i find people that'll program(ramcoa) me? if you dont do tips like that then can i just get some transprogrammed tips?

i too wish to find people that'll program me. o7. i usually look for active fults and people in the transprogrammer tag but its still Difficult.

as for transprogrammed tips, see what you can find on RAMCOA programs! there's a bunch of resources out there, and you might be able to apply some programs to yourself. if you're a system , see if you have anyone willing / able to create a subsystem/layers for programming !

i truly hope this helps , since i'm in the same boat. best of luck to you !

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ehehe um, maybe transocd tips but specifically like, moral/emotional (like.. not germs but vibes) contaimination ocd? like someone bad has touched this, now its yucky and then some compulsions around that maybe. idk if that makes sense haha. thanks though

hi anon !! cis OCD :3

be paranoid about who you follow / interact with ! who are they , what do they support , who else do they support ? be vigilant all the time - you never really know if someone is Bad or not !

constantly reflect on your own thoughts ! what if you're supporting something Bad without realizing it ? or someone Bad ? maybe that itself is a Bad thought ...

if someone Bad likes something you do , maybe it's bad ? and it makes you bad for liking it !

hope this helps !

[transidtips]

transdd ( delusional disorder ) tips ?

Sure!!!

The main symptom of delusional disorder is, well, delusions! Try to figure out what kind of delusions you have (most common are persecutory, jealous, and erotomanic, but there are more), and who/what they center around.

Keep telling yourself that your delusion is true! Whenever you remember it, start convincing yourself. Eventually you'll start to believe it!

Ignore any signs that it's not true. People with delusions can't be convinced that their delusions aren't true!

Hope these help you!

[transidtips]

transshooter n or transmallshooter tips pls?

done! :3

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pleeeeaaaseeee transwheelchairuser tips!! i cant even get a wheelchair do to my parents so this would rlly help me and my dysphoria:(

I’m sorry to hear your parents won’t let you get a wheelchair. I’ll see what I can do!

Transwheelchairuser tips (for when you can’t get a wheelchair):

-Sit as much as possible! If there’s a chair in the area, and you don’t have to move, sit. If you wanna go the extra mile, get one of those portable camping chairs to sit wherever.

-If you have a desk chair at home, try using that to get around. It’s not the same, of course, but it does allow you to move while still sitting.

-Wear a backpack! Try to avoid wearing bags that fall to the side of you, as those might interfere with your movement.

That’s all I can think of right now. Best of luck with your transition!

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transreality tips? we're transpokemonreality but general tips are cool too!!

Sure! I’ll see what I can do.

General Transreality tips:

-Reality shifting! It depends on your spiritual beliefs whether you actually want to try this or not, and that’s completely up to you. If so, there are a lot of subliminals out there to help!

-Journal as though you are in your transreality! Write down what you did that day, the people you saw, etc. If you want, point out the differences in your transreality than your old one!

-Draw/write yourself in your transreality! It doesn’t have to be good, you just have to like doing it.

TransPokémonReality tips:

-Try to do some related crafts, like making a pokéball out of cardboard or a potion bottle!  -Dress for the occasion! People in Pokémon usually have distinctive outfits depending on what they do, so try dressing how you’d look in the Pokémon universe!

-If you have the money, get a Pokémon plush and take it with you places! That’ll be your Pokémon partner! 

That’s all I have for now, hope these help!

[transidtips]

Mod Arsonist!

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Hello! I’m @inconsistentidentity , or on this blog: Mod Arsonist. He/rot/weird/uncanny/rat pronouns.

I’ll mostly be doing transid tips that are harder and require more research to answer, or seem self-explanatory. Idrk what else to say.