[femalice]

desisted. dysphoric.

follow/rb/like ≠ endorsement

a reblog does not mean i 100% agree with the post.

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[radmenace]

Masterpost of gender-neutral language used for women but not men

Some say that gender-neutral language is not sexist, nor does it erase women. Here are some examples that prove otherwise, revealing the bias for women, and not men, to surrender linguistic boundaries.

(I’ve been collecting examples since I made this post. Thanks to all who submitted! I will keep adding on.)

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[butch-reidentified]

adding these

[eve-was-framed]

all of these fucking weirdos are constantly accusing radfems of “reducing women down to their reproductive organs” yet will literally call women fucking menstruators and birthing people. I am going to actually lose my mind how are there STILL women who support this misogynistic bullshit

[lobotomy-lady]

people using the "I watched liveleak gore vids as a kid" argument in support of literal children having easy access to porn is so demented bc like first of all you absolutely should not have been watching real people getting graphically murdered as a child. secondly imagine what it would have done to your psychosexual development if you had masturbated to those videos & inextricably linked them w/ pleasure in your mind. you'd probably have become a serial killer. that's what's happening to millions of boys watching women being sexually tortured on camera, they turn into future rapists who can only get off on seeing women in pain. COCSA rates have never been higher, little girls are suffering unimaginable pain because you disgusting coomers act like having to show a website your ID is akin to having your dicks chopped off. frankly I think that would be a better solution to this problem but to each their own

[eve-was-framed]

thank you dylan mulvaney for the days of girlhood music video 💕 because of you more women will finally come to terms with the fact that your movement is full of misogynists who think being a woman is all about one night stands, pool parties and shopping

[eve-was-framed]

and I hate when ppl say “it’s not that deep!!!” bc they would literally never say that to any other group whose existence is being appropriated and mocked for clout to this degree. when you grow up in a culture where women are constantly stereotyped as neurotic, unintelligent shallow bimbos it absolutely is “that deep” to see someone (especially a man) receive unending praise for profiting off of that stereotype

[cartoonradfem]

before the comments were turned off lmfao

[sichorean]

"I get it. I do"

This entire post proves that you don't.

Women do not want a flower. We don't need a flower to appease us or validate us. We want actual, structural, institutional change. Because we are- from birth - subject to misogyny and sexism in every aspect of our lives. A flower is not going to change the pay disparity we face. A flower is not going to stop domestic violence. A flower is not going to help women suffering for decades due to medical misogyny.

We want to tear the system apart. You want a flower to soothe your ego.

We are not the same.

[hadesoftheladies]

trans women want to be centered as women, they don’t have any true solidarity with us. our oppression is their validation. we truly cannot be the same.

[animentality]

[deadfish-inabarrel]

No it's schrodinger's embryo. It is both a person and not a person depending on which one benefits men at that time,

[blackswallowtailbutterfly]

The only internal consistency of Patriarchy: it benefits men.

[missmastectomy-deactivated20250]

I've been meeting more and more 21-24 year old trans people and so many of them are just so... childish?? They still act like teenagers. And at first I was judgemental of them. I do not respect that they are grown adults that continue acting this way.

But I've also learned that a lot of them started transitioning at 14, 15, 16, etc. So fucking young. Indoctrinated and put on this horrific medical malpractice train that they just can't get off of. There's a really disturbing lack of self-reflection that baffled me until I realized that transition has basically stunted them.

This applies more for the ~everyone is valid uwu~ crowd than the transmedicalists, who usually want to just move on with their lives. But these people are stuck in this ideological bubble where they cut out anyone who disagrees with them. They reject anything that makes them feel uncomfortable, that threatens their perception of their gender, which is so fragile that it can't be held under scrutiny. And they know it. It's why the act the way they do. Allowing their views about gender and the world at large to develop would also mean leaving behind their zealotry. They cannot do this because of how invested, physically and socially, they have become in this ideology. Leaving it behind would mean loss of friends, loss of ego, maybe even a full detransition. It would mean death.

[capricorn-season]

[feminist-furby-freak]

Reminder that ~50% of trans-identified men in federal prisons in the US are convicted of sex crimes!

For reference, only about 10% of regular men are incarcerated for sex crimes.

[old-school-butch]

Same proportion in UK and Canadian prisons. There are 2 options:

50% of men who identify as trans are predators

50% of predators say they identify as trans

This is why we need single-sex spaces to protect women.

[kronkk]

But what if the children LIKED to eat lead paint. That's their CHOICE.

[kronkk]

The child says they will kill themselves unless we give them a lobotomy. We must obviously give the lobotomy. Or they will order an ice pick online with cutesy anime girl packaging.

[kronkk]

[ace-pervert]

Have you considered getting mental help?

[kronkk]

Thanks, Ace-Pervert, I've never considered that. I'll look into it asap. Let's hope I'm not prescribed to have perfectly healthy and necessary organs removed and then have to be on pills or injections for the rest of my life.

[kronkk]

Update I've been scheduled for my chemical castration and lobotomy but luckily the surgeon is letting me bundle them for a massive deal. Can't wait to finally become my true self via paying $100,000 to people who surely have my best intentions hidden in their open pockets

[kronkk]

Update I have necrotizing fasciitis

[back-not-broken]

My torment as a gamer girl

My torment as a gamer girl

https://unherd.com/2024/02/my-torment-as-a-gamer-girl/

In the main game, you play as a man. In the online version, you may choose a female avatar — and you can create her in your own image (in my case blonde, overly made-up and probably quite vain). I called her Martine Horsese, and her steed would be Hoof Hefner. Take note, “gamer girls”: a dose of irony is needed to retain a modicum of cool when diving into dorkdom. But the smirk was wiped off my face the moment I started playing. In this new world, all the worst things women fear men would like to do, were there no consequences, happen — all the time, and to you.

As you go about your business, posses of male characters — almost certainly men, given their gamer tags: fightclub247, meatgrinder2001, bitch_flayer — lurk behind you. They stab you, they shoot you, they bind you in ropes and carry your hogtied, still writhing body on the back of their horse. They dump you in abandoned houses, where they take turns to jump on you — the closest simulation of rape the system will allow. Someone called Messi69 will “emote” by spitting at your body. On the voice chat, or in your message inbox, you will be told they can find you, that they will rape and kill you, that you’re a whore.

In a world where players can do almost exactly as they want, why do men keep choosing to rape?

[idontcareaboutmensfeelings-deac]

as a person with mental illnesses (yeah, diagnosed by multiple professionals), I can't understand why the approach to gender dysphoria is just... to give in to what the patient believes and wants

It's like we told borderline patients "oh reckless behaviour makes u feel better? Do it then. Here's a list of dumb things u can do to completely ruin your life, if it makes you feel better"

Or if we let narcissists believe in their inflated ego and in their rewritten reality, or if we told people with body dismorphia that they should get plastic surgery to solve their issue, or if we let anorexic people just starve themselves to death because if they feel they're fat and losing weight makes them happy then why not

No other people with mental illnesses get coddled by doctors into their mental illness. We get told it's an issue, we get therapy and meds and we learn to cope with the discomfort because our behaviour is dangerous to ourselves, to others and to society

But somewhat the cure for gender dysphoria is apparently tell the patient their delusions are right????

[melancholypilled]

i hate how parents fathers congratulate their sons for having sex/getting a girlfriend but feel anger and get overprotective when their daughters do the same thing.

it’s sad how the idea that women are property of their fathers while sons can be their own person is so deeply rooted in our society

[selasayer-deactivated20240608]

They really have to face what the world is when they have daughters.

[nodeadflesh]

becoming sexually active was the absolute lowest and most hostile point of my relationship with my dad.

it was over a decade ago, but i still vividly remember being forced by my mom to ask his permission to go visit my then-boyfriend at his house for the first time. he tried to refuse to discuss it with me, but i pushed it, so he got in my face and yelled, “i will not let you go over there so HE can have sex with you.”

i think something fundamentally changed in that moment. he had never spoken to me like that before. i realized that he saw me as some passive thing to be fucked and he believed it was his right to choose who could fuck me and when. i dont even remember what happened next. i think i just stayed silent and walked out in shock. i felt subhuman.

later my parents found out i had already been having sex with him and my dad didn’t speak to me for a week. my mom tried to get me, a 17-year-old, to find a way to patch things up with this adult man. i told her he was the adult here and it was on him to fix what he had broken (maybe the smartest thing i said in the first 20yrs of my life in retrospect, and i think my mom knew it too). when he finally spoke to me, he cried and i had to comfort him.

same boyfriend was older, abusive, and seemed to always find new ways to sexually coerce me. but i was repeatedly shunned and punished for having “let him” with no investigation into the circumstances.

[theresagooseinthemainframe]

Where are all the studies trying to get trans men to produce sperm? There are more trans men than women, surely their reproductive desires matter too? Their affirmation?

Where are the testicle transplants? Anyone wanna donate a seminal vesicle? Of course, we’d need to chop off a lot of penises. I’ll do it for free!

Or can we all just admit that men’s womb envy has gotten completely and utterly out of fucking control

[bisexual-slime]

I've actually thought about this too and there's such an absence of discussion around prostate implants and the possibility of being able to impregnate a woman with donor testicles. Trans men, being female, do not feel entitled to men's bodies and I'd say that's why absolutely none of them are thinking about this or talking about it.

[she-is-ovarit]

Even the most self-absorbed trans-identifying female person I've met hasn't felt that entitled to male anatomy.

[pusheen-the-radical]

also because the motivations are different. for literally all straight tims this is a female subjgation fetish, and appropriating our bodies and biologies is a key part of this. and though there are plenty of straight tifs who fetishise gay men, there is also a huge portion that is transitioning because they think it will help them to escape misogyny or mental illness. as always, moids is worse.

[nocountryforlesbians]

my interest in radical feminism is actually much more based on the issues of pornography, prostitution, reproductive rights, and male violence, than it is on trans issues, but by all means, call me a terf and make it seem like i just hate transgender people.

[ophelias-revenge]

Trans women derailing reproductive rights/silencing discussions on female bodies and periods and junk is probably how I got sucked in to radical feminism in the first place. Their shutting down productions of The Vagina Monologues, talk of periods being called “white feminism”, derailing abortion talks by claiming “no uterus no opinion” excludes trans women and hurts their feelings

[cliteralviolence]

You’ll notice most of our criticisms of the trans movement have to do with the ways in which they uphold patriarchy and less to do with hating trans individuals or denying trans people their rights to anti-discrimination.

[daddy-doms-are-gross]

u ever think about how most porn and kink shit wouldn’t exist if men experienced like…basic empathy and compassion towards women

[the-cosmic-goddess-deactivated2]

Look up “femdom” and get back to me

[daddy-doms-are-gross]

u ever think about how most femdom fetishes arise out of a desire to belittle and sexualize women’s anger in order to dismiss it more easily and most of its iterations wouldn’t exist if men experienced like…basic empathy and compassion towards women

[chadgamer]

never trust men who love sexy anime girls and who bank on being in any way gender nonconforming to seem nonthreatening to women 

[chadgamer]

vaguely effeminate hentai dweebs have been some of the most dangerous dudes i’ve ever had the misfortune of knowing and this really just continues to be the case 

[transgenderer]

this….is such bad politics. the whole point of this situation is that people could not and cannot tell who these people are beforehand, and using “gender non-conforming” as your chosen indicator before what happens becomes public throws all gnc men under the bus and doesnt help anyone find people like this faster. assuming that people gender non-conform for ulterior motives is some classic far-right shit and we really should not being encouraging it

[multiversal-lilith]

Yo OP

A bunch of those “vaguely effeminate hentai dweebs” are actually closeted trans girls, and your ‘fuck them all’ attitude is likely to keep girls who sublimated their gender into their sexuality and/or used anime as a coping mechanism from discovering themselves.

I don’t know the rest of your politics, OP, but this shit is bad and you should feel bad.

[lavendermenacing]

Hmm why would there be so much of an overlap between sexist creeps who use femininity as a shield and hetero/bisexual trans-identified males who think womanhood is an identity that is theirs to define, it is truly and genuinely a mystery. I didn’t even have to make that connection, you know what y'all are and proclaimed it yourself. Self burns are fun.

Any women who are maybe getting a little disillusioned with liberal feminism, but aren’t sure who are reading this: here is your proof that transwomen value male creeps who might hypothetically identify as women over your right to identify patterns of male abuse and talk about them for your own safety. They don’t care about you! They are not interested in your wellbeing or safety and their demands to be centered in feminism are demands to make it a men’s rights movement at your expense.

[aftonfamilyvalues]

im sorry but this shit is so fucking funny to me

[radish-lesbian]

There’s a reason such a large proportion of that community comes out as trans women. Once you tell a group of fetishizing, awkward misogynists who have likely faced ostracization due to their GNC (which is a real problem, femininity is punished in men due to society’s hatred of the feminine) that they can become women and gain access to female spaces, sexualize lesbians, and finally be celebrated for their GNC, it’s no surprise that a lot of them jump ship. The only part about these men that I resent is that they think that because they are feminine, their rampant (and often violent) misogyny is either nonexistent or something to brush off. Men, even non-conforming men, are often women’s greatest threat. Awkward nerdy men who have been pushed out of the mainstream and are looking for a new space to dominate are often even more hateful than their ‘normie’ counterparts. See the 'adorkable misogyny’ trope.