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my-yuujin

So i combined these videos below to make these 3 dorks sing together

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6tdVOodQPBY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_1rZp5e5tiU

they should make Appliyama 470 Boys

batbaffle

potatocrisp

hey bnhna can you??? address this panel of shinsou and aizawa taking a walk way back in ch70 ???

or maybe explain what this is alluding to in ch121 ????? ??

Just put him in the hero department already you cowards stop dropping hints

tree-rumi-blog

This’ been the wrost week this year and it hasn’t end yet

tree-rumi-blog

Changed my mind, this is the wrost, and it just started

tree-rumi-blog

Hamilton fandom: yo’ Szin is such a liar she promised she’d do the entire musical, shame on her

Julia, Questions And Answers video (minute 3:46 to 4:04):

So yeah can y'all stop calling her a liar? You guys make me sick

tree-rumi-blog

How do i stop getting notif. about this its been 4 months wth

parskis

i swear to god, men raising their voice is the most terrifying thing in the whole world. they dont understand, like its an immediate panic response, game over

cl4yton-deactivated20180207

I actually had no idea women found this so scary

periwinklepromise

my downstairs neighbors fight on a regular basis, and every time he starts yelling i’m a little afraid he’s going to kill her. i have no reason to think this except that he is a man and he is angry

thewonderfulthingaboutfish

My math teacher has a loud voice and a temper and he scares the living shit out of me almost everyday. He’s made me and other kids cry more than once and he and his teacher buddies make a joke out of terrifying students.

diamondsamura1-deactivated20220

this was women in general? i knew my gf didn’t like it but I was unaware if this affected most women

survivor-surviving

Yes, it does

pandora-ness

As a woman, I had no idea it effected other women like this. I was too afraid to even talk about it. I thought I was weak. Thanks for bringing attention to this.

kaldraws8280

My dad thinks it’s funny that I used to cry when he raised his voice. I freak out whenever some one does. Once my director did, and I started crying I couldn’t stop. I’m glad to see I’m not alone…

suicunesrider

This is so important– seeing how common this is– and I also want you all to know that this is not normal. It isn’t something instinctively ingrained into women, to be afraid of men. There is no natural state of men being a threat that women constantly have to be afraid of. This is cultural. So many women and girls here have a mutual understanding of this feeling, and I think it really shows an unsettling truth about our society, particularly about how men are raised to act and how so many women have this defensive reaction gradually develop. It’s so important that these people have their voices heard, because it teaches us about problems that we just can’t deny the existence of any longer.

shidoninoure

I’m glad I’m not the only one

anexperimentallife

My fellow men, pay attention. I didn’t realize how scary this could be until one of my exes explained it to me, and it’s heartbreaking.

Also, when we move too much during an argument, or lean forward, it’s scary, and I never knew. I was even a little insulted at first, because surely she didn’t think I would hurt her. But see, that doesn’t matter. It wasn’t a sign that she mistrusted me specifically; it’s a conditioned response. (Although if you keep doing it once you realize it scares her, she SHOULDN’T trust you.)

Not every woman has been physically harmed by a man she trusted, but every woman KNOWS a woman who has.

I used to be horrible about this, because I didn’t realize how intimidating it was. I didn’t understand why the woman I was with clammed up or tried to tell me what she thought I wanted to hear, and I only got angrier, and acted even more like an asshole. It was wrong. It was abusive. It didn’t matter if I INTENDED it that way; it was still emotionally abusive. And it was inexcusable.

I get that when passions are high, and when you’re frustrated, it’s a natural tendency to let your voice get louder, to shout and gesture and lean forward. But you can train yourself to do better. You can train yourself to keep more of an even tone, to refrain from large and fast gestures, to not lean into her personal space. I did. I’m not perfect at it yet, but goddamn it, I WILL be.

Don’t tell me it’s too hard, that you just can’t do it, or that you “shouldn’t have to.” I’m 53 years old and just now getting the hang of it, and if this old dog can learn something new, so can you.

elfwreck

Note to guys: It really, REALLY doesn’t matter if you’re thinking, “but I would never…”

History is littered with the bodies of women who believed a man “would never.” This includes women killed by men who honestly, deeply, truly believed they “would never”… right up until she said that one thing or moved in just that way and he just got so mad, just that once, and pushed her or punched her or slashed her or shot her… just once, y’know, to shut her up, or because she was flinching and didn’t she know that HE’S NOT LIKE THAT and I’LL TEACH HER TO BE AFRAID OF ME…

We are trained, from infancy, that Men With Loud Voices are a source of pain from which we cannot escape, and attempts to escape may result in more pain. And as soon as we’re old enough to comprehend a world broader than our immediate circle, a world that extends into the past and will run into the future, we realize that there is no way, no way at all, to tell which men “would never” and which men “would never… except if.”

We live or die on that “if.” And any man who doesn’t like facing that hyper-vigilance can work on fixing OTHER MEN, not women’s fear.

The reaction shouldn’t be “not all men are like that;” it should be “no woman should have to live in fear.”

It’s telling that so many people will hear a story of long-term abuse and say, “why did she stay with him?” and not “why did he treat her like that?”

plaggnoir

This made me cry.

galactic-gangstar-gibbon-deacti

Don’t skip over this.

Its the third time the same goddamn bot talks to me why dont i have this lucky with people

This' been the wrost week this year and it hasn't end yet

thestardazed-deactivated2020072

| L I E U T E N A N T |

extorchic

Rei: Well, I’m leaving

Astra: See you around dude [offers fist bump]

Rei: [Surprisingly, grins slightly and returns the fist bump, then leaves]

Haru: Ok, that was strange

Eri: When did you become so close with our resident Lone Wolf™?

Astra: The other day I asked him to help me with this new video editing software, and we eventually bonded over memes and cat videos

Eri: Who would’ve thought…

Yuujin: Wait! Aren’t I supposed to be this group’s resident Lone Wolf™? My buddy Appmon turns into a gigantic, literally edgy, purple lycanthrope!

Haru: Babe, don’t take it bad, but given the amount of heart emojis you use when texting, you just can’t be a Lone Wolf™.

bpdvoid

i hate that my first reaction to stress is always Time To Die™ like ok calm down edgelord

I had the need to draw my baby Eliza, I haven’t drawn “seriously” for weeks and I’m really happy how this turned out!

#hamilton #hamilton musical #hamilton fanart #eliza #eliza schuyler #eliza hamilton #fanart #myart

sanlina-art

defira85

Reasons why I need the A in LGBTIAQ to stand for Asexual, not Ally

Because my mother told me that all I needed to do was get drunk and lie back and let my husband have his fun. Because if I was drunk, I’d be more relaxed and it’d be over sooner

Because my sister told me that I was trapping my husband in an abusive marriage, and that one day he was going to leave me

Because both of them looked at me in disgust

Because my asexuality is considered to be as great a crime against my husband as a woman who has affairs and cheats on her husband

Because my cousin didn’t even try to understand, and just kept asking ‘but what about in five years? how will you feel then?’

Because I was so afraid of my body and so afraid of sex that I didn’t seek medical help for a legitimate question for over a year for fear of being labelled a deviant or something broken

Because I still ask myself at least once every day if my husband wouldn’t be better off without me

Because I still ask myself at least once every day if I’m broken

Because I still tell myself at least once every day that I’m pathetic and useless and an abnormality

Because I love my husband with every fiber of my being, but everywhere I turn I’m told I really don’t, because love = sex

I need A to stand for Asexual because nobody ever talked to me about asexuality even when I was an outpatient at the women’s hospital for 18 months, and everyone told me desire would come in time

I need A to stand for Asexual because we are literally invisible, and so unimportant that people assume we don’t even need representation, because everyone assumes our lives must be bland and unimportant and lacking in challenges or bigotry

For every asexual that wants a relationship, for every asexual that does not want a relationship, for every asexual who has not yet come to terms with their identity, for every asexual who was told we were abnormalities, for every asexual who was told we just weren’t doing sex right, that we needed a good fucking, that we needed to be drunk, that we needed to relax, that we needed to be raped

We need representation, and we need visibility

That is why the A needs to stand for Asexual, and never for Ally

bassarisque-deactivated20181203

Fucking Important Post.

left-hand-path-notes

Just so we’re fucking clear, this blog is inclusionist. If that’s a prob, gtfo.

theomachomai

People don’t understand the enormous and insidious pressure aces are under to just give in and pretend you like it already. This at an individual and institutional level- look at the way psychologists treat people who don’t want sex, whether they are ace or not. Conversion therapy for aces is so normalized that people don’t even notice it exists.

I'm ok with the pride month and I'm really happy about how far the LGBT comunity progressed, but I feel kinda sad because a lot of people put out aces and aros and I'm both, it is hard enough trying to accept myself and now I can't feel "proud" of myself for being what I am or even be in the comunity.

We don't feel opression, you say? Then why do I feel like I'm not normal? Why do I think have the need to be at least homo/hetero/biromantic? Why I can't accept myself yet?

Isn't that exactly the same bi/homo/trans people had and still have to pass through? Of course we are less exposed to have physical attack. But we still are exposed to psychologic attacks.

I can't even feel safe in the comunity. I can't even feel the pride you all can feel this month. I can't even feel valid. Thanks, really, thanks.

#lgbt #pride month #i hope yall have a great month #congrats