anti-derealization association

[queengreendown]

It’s almost as if nobody wants to admit that they might not be prepared to do the work it takes to love somebody. And it can be laborious. To be intimate with someone who is flawed (which is the standard) requires us to expose our own flaws. We don’t talk about the heavy responsibility of that. We don’t talk about how we’re too lazy or too cowardly sometimes. We instead accuse love of being elusive. It isn’t. It is omnipresent. It asks us to be better people. And sometimes we flat out refuse.

[grossnational]

Kowloon Walled City, China, c.1989

The Kowloon Walled City in Hong Kong was built gradually—building on top of building—over time. Without a single architect, the ungoverned and most densely populated district became a haven for drugs, crime and prostitution until it was demolished in 1993. Photo documentation of the site exists but for the most part much of the inner-workings of the city remained a mystery.

Perhaps due to its proximity, Japan, in particular, developed a keen interest towards Kowloon. Its demolition in 1993 was broadcast on national television. But watching the footage, what most spectators didn’t realize was that up until the night before demolition a team of Japanese researchers were taking precise measurements and documenting the vacated city. Their findings were compiled into a book that, among other things, featured this panoramic cross section of the city depicting what life was like inside. You can read more about the book on Spoon & Tamago, and if you look hard enough, a few rare copies of it are available online.

[christophersebela]

In 2012, blogger Cliff Pervocracy coined the term “missing stair” to describe individuals who pose a danger to others, but are tolerated within a community because everyone is aware of their issues. If you know about a missing stair in an unlit stairwell, you can work around it and avoid it. No one bothers to fix the missing stair because jumping over it works just fine. But if no one told you that there was a missing stair, and it’s just assumed that you’re aware, it’s all too easy to be hurt. Every time you allow someone with a known history of harassment to drum for your band, or play at your venue, or come to your party, you’re saying that their presence matters more than other people at the event feeling safe. You’re putting the onus on potential targets to be aware enough to leap over the missing stair, rather than roping off the stairwell with caution tape. And if someone does get hurt, it’s their fault; that’s what happens when you use a shitty, jacked up staircase, dude.

an easy to understand metaphor about why the scumbos should be driven out of communities of all kinds.

from IMAGINING A SAFER SPACE: BUILDING COMMUNITY & ENDING HARASSMENT IN PUNK by Lorena Cupcake

(via christophersebela)

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[treeandray]

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[mossgirl]

[vaporwavedotorg]

[treeandray]

Tree & Ray - Spectrum

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[protobacillus]

[zigtalk]

[heavyhorsehills]

miko revereza

[ladyburde]

Harmony Korine Blue Checker, 2014 Oil on canvas 102 × 84 inches (259.1 × 213.4 cm)

Photo by Rob McKeever

[weirdnessisgood]

[wavegrower]

spring waves

[ssatiatedd]

[chucklebot]

oi, how old do you reckon i am?

some 40 year old coked up person at a party who you’re not really sure is a gatecrasher or the host; kinda uncomfortably close to your face (via chucklebot)

21? Haha! 21 again! Haha!

[lifeinpoetry]

Whatever I do without feeling has no value.

Anaïs Nin, from her diary, as seen in the introduction to A Literate Passion: Letters of Anaïs Nin & Henry Miller, 1932-1953 (via afroui)