gay as hell

mainly here for lurking, theme change to hopefully keep someone from finding this lol

[tributarysgalaxy]

shitty easy intro

bodily 19

mixed origin system, 230+ headmates fictive heavy

collective names : Lake, River, Mauu

collective pronouns : it/blood/sun

general stances: pro-endo (obv), proship, pro darkship (darkship ourselves we just dont post ab it), pro comship, neutral radqueer, pro para (though for zoo, pedo, and necro specifically please do not follow if youre pro contact), pro self dx for *everything*, neutral transid,

We believe that transandropbobia is a real thing, if you think its fake/not real get the FUCK off our page.

health conditions (vague)

DPDR, CPTSD, Depression, Autism, ADHD, AvPD, NPD (w/HPD&BPD traits), + more probably but its 1 in the morning idc to think of everything

[110budd]

I hate that my mutuals are sad right now. I wish I could take away all of the horrors of life for every one of them

[sodomit]

Parents: "children should be taught that actions have consequences"

Okay, let them stay up till 5 in the morning and feel like shit for the next day, eat a bag of candy in one go and have a huge stomach ache, go out without an umbrella and catch a cold, watch a violent movie and get scared?

Parents: "actually, we mean screaming and beating the crap out of them when they try to do these things"

[cambriancrew]

What do endogenics really want?

We DO NOT want

❌To demedicalize DID/OSDD. Both need to stay in the DSM and ICD and be taken seriously and treated properly.

But we DO want:

✅Plurality to remain demedicalized and be properly seen and supported as such. Plurality as in, the state of having more than one mind in your head. It’s not inherently pathological and shouldn’t be seen as such by anyone. 

We DO NOT want:

❌ To be in DID/OSDD-only spaces

But we DO want:

✅ To be allowed spaces of our own without being harassed just for existing

✅ To be allowed shared spaces, separate from DID-only ones, with those who *want* to be in a shared space, without being harassed just for sharing space

We DO NOT want:

❌ To use terms that don’t belong to us

But we DO want:

✅ To be able to continue to use the term “system” the way we have for literally decades because it is not and never has been an exclusively DID term. It has always been for all people who experience having others in their head, and was originally used as a substitute for “person with MPD/DID” because not everyone in the community back then had, needed, wanted, or fit the criteria for a diagnosis - but all were plural systems regardless.

We DO want:

✅ To be treated with decency and respect

And we DO NOT want:

❌ To be accused of faking just for experiencing plurality differently, or harassed in other ways

We DO NOT want:

❌ People thinking that every system works the same or that advice that works for one will work or be good for all

But we DO want: 

✅  To be able to share spaces where that advice and help can be freely shared among different kinds of systems because while it might not be good for everyone, it’s always good for some, regardless of system origin or diagnostic status

We DO NOT want:

❌ People assuming that endogenic = never had any trauma. 

And we DO NOT want: 

❌ People thinking that just because we have trauma, we must be traumagenic. That’s for us to determine for ourselves.

And we DO want:

✅  The right to self-determine what’s right and true and what works for us, without being harassed for doing things some people assume are mistakes/going to hurt in the long run/whatever. Freedom and independence are nothing if it doesn’t also include the freedom to choose, and the freedom to make mistakes. And remember, since systems work differently, what may be harmful for you may be very beneficial for others, and vice versa.

[peach-energydrink]

iboy

A gender where someone is a boy in only a way they can understand, this may be because its too complicated to describe, or because the experience is so personal it feels impossible to make others understand.

I only found a masc version, but I wanted to make one that is for just boys.

[naga-noia]

frankly idk how more people didn’t start jumping ship sooner when this new wave of anti-transmasculine/exorsexist rhetoric started rehashing old transmedicalist arguments like “anybody who calls themselves ‘genderfucky’ is a fake wannabe trans person making a mockery of REAL transgenders” and “they’re not even TRYING to be real men, they’re just stupid little afabs who are clinging to their birth sex, and are therefore privileged”

like. are you kidding me. I have played these games before. I can recognize that truscum bullshit stench from a mile away

[angel-bunny-writes]

i'm at a loss for words...

[nightfeverfever]

murder isn't okay however sometimes your friends have REALLY bad parents

[minttttttttttttttttttttttttttt]

all ralsei sprites fall into one of 4 moods: pretty princess, smug bitch, bearer of the curse, dog begging you for boiling water on the stove

[isuggestforcemasc]

>be me >see blog with based handle >shinigami eyes highlights in red >click on handle >read bio >"transmeds fuck off" every time.

[victusinveritas]

It's almost like something happened in 2020-now that is causing these problems.

[wreyeder]

I want you guys to know this shit not only makes my life better and easier, and consequently makes me like you more, but WAY MORE IMPORTANTLY could literally save someone's life.

Yes, eye strain sucks. Yes migraines are painful. Yes seizures are miserable. But every single epileptic seizure, to a very small but very much not zero degree, can just kill you. Seizures are horrible and dangerous - with aspiration and head trauma to take into account as well. Even if it's "not that much flashing" or it's "not that long" or "it's only a seizure" or whatever kind of excuse you may want to make - PLEASE think about photosensitive users when you interact with media

Anything with

Rapid change between different colors

Rapid change between light and dark frames

Anything that causes the value of the screen to change very majorly very quickly

Anything very color intensive/stressful for the eyes

Needs to be tagged with things like "flashing lights" "strobing" "eye strain" etc - NOT tags such as "photosensitive" or "epilepsy" bc we use those tags for our community

Please and thank you

[directionlesshotdog]

Advice! Before you post, if you take a look at your post and could mistake it for something a TERF would say, delete it!

“But this specific group of trans people is privileged over me!” How do you know? Transness makes gender based privilege Complicated. Transitioning makes it more Complicated. No, your cool way of simplifying it doesn’t actually make your opinion work.

“But I’m not calling this group of trans people a real slur! Just a made up one!” Intent matters more than anything else. If you say shit like theyfab or straggot while targeting other queer people? That’s slurs. Especially if you aren’t part of those groups.

“I was harassed by this group of people!” That’s awful and I hope you reported them for harassment. That doesn’t mean you can spread hate for an entire minority.

Don’t paint entire sections of our community with the same hateful brush. It helps no one but those who want to destroy all of us. Don’t treat an entire minority as though they represent only the worst parts of it. There are terrible nonbinary people, trans women, trans men, and more. And not one of them represents the entire trans community. So stop acting like they represent their own part of it.

[angel-bunny-writes]

can i say that nonbinary people experience a specific type of oppression that binary trans people don't or will y'all get mad at me?

[rabberoth]

Attention all celestial beings, deities, demons, and other ethereal entities inhabiting mortal meat suits:

We know it’s a bit of a drag dealing with these squishy, high-maintenance vessels. Eating? Sleeping? Showering? Yes, it’s all very mortal and inconvenient. But hey, this is your ride, and no one likes a broken-down car. Show some respect to your vessel, it’s literally carrying you around the mortal plane.

Here’s your “Vessel Maintenance Checklist”:

Fuel it properly! Eat some actual food, yes pizza rolls count but throw in a vegetable or two occasionally.

Hydrate. Your body right now is mostly made up of water. You need to replenish your reserves once in a while.

Sleep! At least 6-9 hours. Powering through is not a long-term solution, my friend.

Showering and grooming. A clean vessel is a happy vessel. Your mortal friends will thank you.

Stretch and move. A little walk won’t kill you!

Remember: Treat your vessel with kindness, or it can start feeling bad. You’ve been warned.

[translovedaily]

Trans men will overcome anyone that tries to tear us down.

[this-is-trans-joy]

i wasn’t gonna get involved with the whole “trans man gets a tattoo of a uterus on his back” discourse because i think it’s the stupidest thing i’ve ever heard but nearly every post i’ve seen about it has either been “trans men are too obsessed with their agab” on one side or “trans men are allowed to feel connected to their agab” on the other side and i’m just wondering if we all missed the part of the tattoo where it’s very clearly a depiction of being imprisoned by that particular body part, and given the state of both trans rights and reproductive rights right now can anyone maybe possibly figure out why a trans man might feel like that and want to express that?