I’d like to share a story. One that started over a year ago when I joined a role play community called the “definitely community”. I thought, this is going to be fun. I picked a character that was available and joined in. I even got invited to join a discord server because that’s where everyone “hung out”. I had just missed the wedding of Gamora and Peter which I’m glad because I was told there was some drama and someone was “blocked” and out cast from the rp community. Funny thing is, I knew that person and got their side of the story. That person’s treatment was unnecessary, but they were blocked and out cast. Sound familiar? It should because it happens all the time.
The drama didn’t affect me directly so I didn’t pass judgement as NO ONE NOT DIRECTLY INVOLVED SHOULD, but I watched as other people bashed that person, people who didn’t even interact with them joined in on blacklisting them from the community, HATE TALK RUNNING WILD. Why? Because people were easily manipulated into believing that person did wrong. Again, I ask, sound familiar? Yes, I think you’re starting to get it now.
So I continued on. I had a role play partner, stayed in the server, watched as people were left out and drama after drama circulated. Let me tell you how fun that’s not, but at the heart of every single drama was one blog in particular. One mod. Want to venture a guess? I’ll tell you. This person has several blogs. Some you all interact with. One they try to keep super secret. Since I’m letting it all out, I’ll tell you. The blog and mod behind all the drama and manipulation. @definitelybuckybarnes . Aka @definitelylancetucker Aka, @stuck-y-together Aka, @definitelydaytina . Your beloved Christina. Tina. Whatever she goes by these days. Yes, she is all those blogs and more. The master manipulator of blogs and characters.I was told you say people are jealous because you got Bucky first. No one is jealous. You just treat people like shit and accuse them of god knows whatever fits to gain attention. That’s why people don’t like you.
Why am I spilling the tea? Because I’ve watched this happen time after time. Every drama that happens, she’s at the center. Even now, I encouraged someone that joined the community months ago and they’ve been cast out. Why? I’m sure you were told lies and manipulated. Did you get proof? I’m willing to bet it was all he said she said, but it worked cause you bought it. I know, because I’ve seen it. You’re all sheep and if you don’t agree with Bucky/daytina/Tina, you too will be shunned and blocked.
I saw the post for the New Years party. Does anyone else find that a little fucked up? You can only come via invite and all plus ones have to be approved. Excuse me, but that sounds like a dictatorship. Conform or you won’t be accepted. Again, manipulative and also bullying. Something they swear they don’t do, but they have and are currently doing it still because all you sheep are following her lead and giving her audience. Some things never change.
Have you ever wondered why there are so many abandoned blogs, my own included? Because we were all treated like shit. We didn’t conform. We were made to feel like we didn’t matter if we had a difference in opinion. Some of us even went and created a new community. Is it any better? I don’t know because I have given up role playing because of how I continually see people treated, myself included. I no longer wanted to be part of the toxic behavior that fuels this community, any community, but if I’m going down, I’m taking Bucky/Tina with me! I’ve sat back and watched silently. I follow many of you. I’ve had more than one person come to me about your toxic behavior. It’s funny how the people you’ve cast out or banned have found their way to my inbox. Enough is enough, already!
Your lies and manipulation and dictatorship need to come to an end. You are treating people like shit for what? Because someone doesn’t want to be told what to do? You’re not a god! Quit acting like one. You don’t own or run the community, yet you behave like you do. There are good people behind the blogs that you’ve cast out, they’re just free thinkers and aren’t easily manipulated. Those people you’ve hurt, they’ll recover and carry on. You’ll still be the vile person you’ve been because you’re a spoiled entitled brat that cries if she doesn’t get her way. When will you seriously grow up already? There’s your tea people.
Go ahead, block me. This has no effect on how I’ll sleep at night. This is an old blog I no longer use and it’s sole purpose is exposing the lies and manipulation you’ve all come to believe. My own definitely blog lays dormant and has for a long time. Good luck figuring out which one it is. I’m not accepting asks or messages. Once this is posted I’m logging out. You all need to figure out what to do. Continue to follow the lies and manipulation or start thinking for yourself. I guarantee this will happen again and keep happening because it always does. You’re either part of the problem or solution and I don’t see anyone being the voice of reason and knocking someone from their high horse, that would require you to stand up to the monstrosity.
I’m tagging all definitely blogs old and new. Also throwing some of the without a doubt blogs in as well. They’ll be happy to know someone finally called you out on your shit! And kudos to those who haven’t chosen sides. At least there’s hope that some of you can’t be controlled.
There was something someone told me once and it rings true. Food for thought maybe. “Becareful of the company you keep. How they talk about someone else is exactly how they talk about you.” Keep that in mind, sheep. “We change people through conversation, not through censorship.” Maybe some of you should brush up on your pop culture and listen to the words of Jay-Z.
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