phm brainrot is so bad that iâm reviving back to this writing blog to think about flustering ryland grace (i really like flustered men in general, i think itâs cute LMAO)
there are many ways to fluster your boyfriend, itâs one of your things to pass time. but one of them is just by staring at him with admiration. ryland could be just sitting at the kitchen island table in the shared apartment and grading his studentsâ assignments. you, on the other hand, is across the table from him, drinking your cup of tea with your eyes on his appearance.
the dirty blonde hair is tousled and fluffy, he seemingly didnât bother to fix it since itâs a saturday afternoon. the little furrow on his brows as he attempts to read one of his studentâs atrocious handwriting. the arch of his nose that holding his glasses on its dear life (at this point, is he even using them??). the small pout when he finds the answer quite confusing.
your eyes continue to travel down further.
one of his silly science shirts, the âi wear this shirt periodically,â is fitted into his toned arms and chest. you always wondered how this cute nerdy man who teaches middle school students have this much muscle on him. hell, if you asked him to pick you up, he probably would without a problem.
both of his hands are occupied with an answer sheet and a green pen, noting on how he moves his fingers as he writes notes and praise on another paper. you recall of him mentioning that marking them with a red pen will diminish his studentsâ confidence when they get their graded assignments back. it is obvious that he cares his students as if they are his kids.
âyou seem awfully observant, dear. is there something on my face?â
before you let your thoughts wander further away, your line of sight is back on his stubbled face. his ocean blue eyes peering over his glasses that awaits for your response.
instead of telling, you decided to show it.
you propped up your palm to lean your chin on it with a small smirk. looking at his left eye, then his right, and down to his lips before going back to the first position. the triangle method.
and it works on him.
"no, just admiring a cute and nerdy teacher who i managed to bag as my boyfriend."
the heat crawling up on his neck when he notices your softening yet a mischievous glint in your gaze. it takes a second to process what you just said to him before stuttering and fidgeting his pen.
âi. uhm. hahaâŠt-thank you?â
oh heâs getting more flustered, now avoiding your gaze and rubbing his nape. you giggle before rounding the island table to give him a kiss. but his arm instinctively wraps your waist to prolong the physical contact that he yearns for.
Hey everyone, my name is Abdelmajed. I donât usually talk much about myself, but today, I want to share a little piece of my story.
I was born and raised in Gaza, a place that has always been my home đĄ. I grew up surrounded by my family, my friends, and the streets that I knew like the back of my hand. Life wasnât always easy, but we had love, laughter, and dreams. I used to think that no matter what happened, home would always be here. But life has a way of changing things in ways we never expect.
Over the past months, everything I once knew has disappeared. The streets that were once filled with children playing are now silent. The houses that held so many memories are now just rubble. And the people I lovedâsome of them are gone forever. đ
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My name is Abdelmajed, and I am a survivor of the war in Gaza. Everything I once knew has been taken awayâmy home, my safety, and the people
After doing some errands with the Sons of Calydon, You and Lighter lounged near Cheesetopia. As a treat, Lighter had a lollipop in his mouth to relish the sweet grape flavor. The heat grew in your face from his attractiveness. Seeing how his jawline moved as the stick slightly bobbed to taste more sugary goodness.
As if he sensed your gaze, he popped the lollipop out and propped it to you.
"Want some?" Lighter licked his lips as he offered it. His eyes met with yours with confidence and wanted to treat his partner well. You, however, weren't fond of some grape-flavored candies. But your lips made a grin as a mischievous idea just formed in your head.
You nodded, maintaining eye contact with him as you licked the candy before slowly wrapping it in your mouth. Then biting the stick to take it away from his hand with a cheeky grin.
His eyes widened behind those tinted glasses and his mouth slightly gaped with the color that rivaled his scarf on his cheeks. This look of his was more than enough to counter your discontentment with his choice of candy flavor. After all, it was all worth it.
Lighter stood there in shock with his hand still in place since you took the treat from him. So many thoughts flying in his mind that some of them caused his blood to rush somewhere else.
"Fucking hell, y/n." He muttered, looking away to avoid your gaze out of embarrassment. Half of his face was covered with his hand to hide his blush while hearing you giggle at the way he acted.
Lighter seemed mysterious and chill to others, but you were the only one who knew how to fluster him and get him all worked up with simple actions.
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i saw a tiktok video of a guy offering a lollipop to his gf after tasting it and then the gf just slowly took the candy in her mouth while maintaining eye contact with him. And all i can think of is lighter's partner teasing the fuck out of him with a piece of candy.
âLighter! You will be carrying the coffin!â - Caesar
âThatâs a heavy responsibility.â - Lighter
is it just me being slow or is he projecting his survivorâs guilt through that line?
because in his agent story, trust events, and EP music video, his mercenary friends died in the hollow due to poor judgment and he was the only one left alive (besides the dog and that young girl in the EP video).
and he had to carry that guilt through his underground boxing ring days and to the present-day lighter we know. he may have sorted some things out but that didnât mean he didnât have thoughts about dying with them. the "death drive" trust event and picking the romance movie option during the "filming screening time" trust commission proved that point.
just a thought after watching an edit of him with that line
the edit (cw: flashing lights)
poor man, i want to give him a lot of reassurance and love-
i love fictional men with tragic backstories who still maintain that boyfailure sweetheart trait in their personalities in the present day...
totally love your work especially Lighter part then i saw u open the request, so.. if u don't mind or busy, may i request Lighter with a deaf and mute reader. Lighter, who has trouble communicating with them, decides to learn sign language but sometimes he messes up so the reader decides to teach him and as time goes by, the two become closer and you know how it ends, i imagine Lighter trying to express his feelings using sign language (but again he fails because he's too nervous). tysm đđ
This is based off of ASL since I am American. Also, please let me know if there are any mistakes! I don't know sign language and I'm not surrounded by people who do.
Just Give Me A Sign - Lighter x gn!Reader
Summary -> 1000 words (exactly!). Lighter's favorite nurse visits Blazewood, and he's trying to learn sign language.
Warnings -> Brief moment of an injury (not in detail).
A/N -> I think I'm so funny for that title. Also I made the reader a nurse. I know it wasn't in the request but I felt a draw to this storyline.
It was rare you had to make a trip all the way out to the Outer Ring for work. Normally the bikers had a pretty solid trade schedule and wouldnât need to order emergency supplies, and even if they did Piper would drive the truck back and forth. Today was a special case, and Blazewood had been hit with a bacterial contamination in the well water, so you were hauling antibiotics from the clinic you worked at. You parked your car and shot a text to Ceaser, who immediately exited Cheesetopia and ran up to help you unload the supplies. You saw her lips moving very quickly and since you were distracted you couldnât lip read entire sentences.
Lighter⊠back⊠Hollow⊠Her face then contorted to frustration and you saw her lips form âLucyâ and decided to not pay attention for the rest of her ramble. After six months of being the nurse contact between your clinic and Blazewood, you think theyâd remember youâre deaf. You carry more boxes into the makeshift clinic, storing them properly so the town could start to recover before stepping back outside. Technically you could drive straight back to New Eridu, but you decide to enjoy some time here. Hey, you were getting paid, might as well stretch out the clock.
It was a beautiful day in Blazewood. Little wind so sand and tumbleweeds were at a standstill, a thin layer of clouds to dampen the scorching rays from the sun. You walk over to the random couch and sit, closing your eyes to simply enjoy the warmth as it seeped into your skin. You only bother to open your eyes when you feel a small tap on your shoulder. You open them to see Burnice standing above you, holding a glass. Oh no.
Instead of watching her trying to clumsily fingerspell âNitro-Fuelâ, she gestures to the lower level, signing out âhelpâ. You follow her only to see a repeat patient sitting on an empty oil drum, his leather jacket and scarf laid across his lap, his chest scratched and bruised and bloodied, a particularly deep wound on his shoulder. She leaves you to him and you quickly grab your phone out of your pocket, typing out a message.Â
What now, Lighter?
Lighter glances over to the phone and shrugs nonchalantly, crossing his forearms with his fistâs balled. Fight. Of course that's a sign he knows. He didnât learn any of the basic conversation signs, but he learned âFightâ and most of the curse words.Â
You look at his shoulder and know it wouldnât need stitches, but it would need to be patched up. You shoot him a frustrated look as you snap on your gloves, Lighter offering a sheepish smile. Your hands move quickly, practice. Lighter was a good patient, sitting still and only minorly twitching away from the antiseptic. You had his shoulder wrapped up tightly before you took off the gloves, typing something out on your phone before handing it to him.Â
Change the dressing daily. Rest.
Lighter nodded before thinking for a moment, his movements uncertain as he placed his hand on his chin, gesturing it downward to you before holding a hand palm out, tapping his fingers together on his wrist.Â
Thank you, Doctor
You shake your head, taking his hand and closing some of his fingers so only his pointer and middle finger are out, correcting him to sign ânurseâ instead of âdoctorâ before bringing your fingers in the shape of a v up to your forehead, knowing heâd recognise âdumbassâ. Much to your enjoyment, he looked a bit offended, but eventually smiled.
**********
With the waterborne illness still running through Blazewood, you came back a few days later to push IV fluids into the dehydrated, lending a hand to the Sons of Calydon when you could. Lucy and Lighter had joined you for a lunch break, Lucy being the only Sons of Calydon member who knew enough sign language to keep up in conversation with you. Lighter was in his own world, eyebrows furrowed tightly like he was deep in thought.
Lucy points to him, taps her chin, and then points to you. He missed you. You smile and look over to the man who was just scooting food around his plate.Â
You roll your eyes, gesturing to him, and curling your pointer finger before tapping your lips and then your chest. He should tell me.
You and Lucy conversed for a bit, secretly talking about Lighter who was just watching the back and forth silently. He was getting better at picking up signs, but you and Lucy went too fast for him to keep up. Once Lucy left, Lighter looked at you over the rim of his sunglasses with those big puppy eyes. He might not be quick at picking up sign language, but every time there was a bit of free time between the two of you, he asked for lessons.Â
You sat with him for what must have been an hour, running through basic conversational signs. Lighter was learning, slowly but surely. It was sweet. All of this work for him just to learn to talk to you in something other than typing or writing and passing notes.Â
After the little lesson, Lighter looked up at you, his hands idly fidgeting. He was nervous, that much was clear. He points to you, taps his chin with his middle finger, before tapping his pointer finger and middle against his wrist. You, favorite, nurse⊠Youâre my favorite nurse. Cute.Â
You saw how nervous he was. How he had practiced those movements. So you decided to see just how much he had learned just for this cute little confession. You tap the tips of your flattened hand to the corner of your mouth and then up to your cheek. You smile to yourself as you watch his face explode into a deep blush, almost matching the color of his scarf as he looks away.Â
Adorable. He already learned âkissâ.
Here are the resources I used for the signs! https://www.signingtime.com/
https://www.signingsavvy.com/
Lighter Kink and Psychology Analysis - Zenless Zone Zero
Full disclaimer: I donât play Zenless Zone Zero, but through my friendâs love of the game and Tumblr osmosis, Iâve learned a great deal about Lighter. I find the differences between his canon and fanon interpretations fascinating, so I thought it would be interesting to break down the psychology of kinks and what I think Lighterâs are. Iâm going to focus on the ones I believe he has, and if people want me to go into further detail, let me know! Also if it was clear from the title 18+ content below
Exhibitionism â Subcategories: Semi-Public Sex, Secret Keeping, and Risk Play
Lighter is fascinating because heâs full of contradictions. He doesnât like having his picture taken and prefers to keep a low profile, yet he wears flashy clothes and takes on high profile work where he cannot NOT be noticed. He wants to be left alone but craves connection with people. Part of this can be attributed to losing so many important people due to his own actions, but I think another part of it is Lighterâs hopeless romantic streak. He wants to die for love, and I think part of that is tied to finding someone worthy of that sacrifice.
Heâs not interested in people who praise him or send him gifts because, to him, they donât truly know himâand if they did, they wouldnât want anything to do with him, he thinks. This low self-esteem and disorganized attachment style create a loop where he desperately craves connection, has opportunities for it, but never fully lets his walls down to allow a deeper bond. Because of his past and the fear of never being truly understood, Lighter communicates in subtle ways. In-game, he can give the player purple lilacs. In the language of flowers, purple lilacs symbolize oneâs first love or the first time one feels love for someone. However he leaves on a job right after, to stop any possibility of asking him more about why he gave them to you.
When it comes to sex, Lighter has experience, but in romantic love, heâs very much a virgin, in my opinion.
In line with this, I think Lighter would be needy as a partner, in constant need of validation but unable to ask for reassurance. He hates when his friends are mad at himâit distresses him significantly, which reinforces my earlier points about his emotional sensitivity. Thus, I think one of his core needs would be for a partner to be very possessive of him. Not only would this push back against his feelings of guilt, but it would bulldoze past his tendency to panic at intimacy and distance himself.
While I agree heâd be into risk/thrill-seeking, I donât think it would be extreme or involve pain. I believe it would be a form of intimate thrill-seekingâthe kind that engages an overactive mind.
Imagine:Lighter and his partner in an elevator, on the way to a party. Four seconds before the elevator reaches the destination, his partner pushes him against the wall, kisses him, and whispers in his ear that theyâre not wearing anything under their dress coat. The doors open, and they walk out into the party crowdâno one the wiser. Except Lighter.
For example: Theyâre at a party. Lighterâs charming, slipping easily into conversations with strangers. But every so often, his partner brushes their fingers lightly over the back of his neckâjust once, fleeting. No one notices, but Lighter does. His spine straightens slightly each time, a silent acknowledgment: I know who I belong to.
Or: Club sex on the top floor behind a loud rock band. The balcony overlooking a busy street. Going to dinner with friends with a remote in his hand and a small vibrator in his partnerâs underwear.
I think Lighter would enjoy all of these scenariosânot just for the risk, but for the inherent trust required to play and keep these secrets between him and his partner. Itâs something completely his, something no one else can encroach upon, yet itâs right there, obvious to anyone observant enough to notice.
Marking â Physical and Psychological
Marking, both physical and psychological, would lean into Lighterâs desire for connection. Think: visible signs of his partnerâs presenceâlike a hickey or a faint lipstick smudge on his collarbone.
While traditional marking overlaps with the possessiveness I imagine heâd enjoy, psychological marking might be even more appealing to him. This could involve embedding someoneâs presence in his mind through habits, sensory triggers, or routines.
Lighterâs fear of being forgotten or unimportant could be countered by the constant reassurance that heâs always present in his partnerâs thoughts. Non-sexually, his partner might leave voice notes for him to listen to during missions or spritz their perfume on his scarf. They might even snap a risky picture and set it as his lock screen so the next time he checks his phone on the job heâs left with a surprise.
Lighter is haunted by the dead, but I think what he truly craves is being haunted by someone living. He would adore his partnerâs presence lingering in his personal space, feeding his need for connection without direct confrontation.
Domination â Receiving, Direction Taking
I firmly believe Lighter likes to be dominated. In terms of desire, I donât think Lighter experiences much spontaneous desire; rather, heâs more connected to responsive desire (see the paper âSexual Arousal and Desire: Interrelations and Responses to Three Modalities of Sexual Stimuliâ by Katherine Goldey and Sari Anders). That man is too tired to be dominant, and as seen in-game, he prefers to take orders. He would definitely call his partner âBossâ in the bedroom.
Beyond the bedroom, I feel Lighter would continue this relinquishment of power through authority transfer dynamics as a coping mechanism for emotional instability, much like he does for the Sons of Caladon. This could manifest in routines or rituals where his partner makes decisions for him, offering a sense of control without the burden of autonomy. Itâs both a reaffirmation of care and a release from the pressure of decision-making.
Given his tendency to overthink, delegating power outside of sex could ease his mental load and reinforce security in his relationships. I think Lighter would enjoy having his partner pick out his clothes, jewelry, ect, decide small daily routines, or even manage his finances in a consensual dynamic. This creates a structure where emotional care is embedded in everyday life, not just during intimacy.
Additionally, given Lighterâs need for emotional grounding and his craving to feel âclaimed,â collaringâwhether in a literal BDSM context or as an everyday symbolic gestureâwould be something he could secretly obsess over. If Lighter were given a necklace, choker, or even a collar (especially since he loves jewelry), heâd never take it off. Heâd wear it under his clothes, hidden from everyone else but always present. On rough days or when away from his partner, just feeling it against his skin would serve as silent reassurance, grounding him.
It would satisfy both his exhibitionist streak (a hidden âsecretâ between him and his partner) and act as a reminder: Iâm not lost. I belong somewhere. To someone.
For example: if before a mission his partner was to kiss him goodbye, place a necklace around his neck and say âCome back wearing thisâ he would tug at the small chain subconsciously the entire time heâs gone. He would sleep with it on, shower with it, and when he returned, the metal would be warm and oxidised from his skin, his skin stained from the metal.
Praise Play
An extension of his need for domination and grounding, I see praise play as a huge turn-on for Lighter. While some believe degradation is one of his kinks, I think itâs the opposite. While he might engage in degradation play if his partner wanted it (and part of him might believe he deserves it due to his low self-esteem), I think he would emotionally shut down if it became a consistent dynamic. To me it would be a similar dynamic to the start of the Astarion romance, fulfilling a role as a tool rather than as a person.
Kinks often reflect core emotional needs. Non-consensual fantasies, for example, are about being desired so intensely that someone is willing to break laws and social norms. Degradation kinks often involve a need for others to see the worst parts of us and want us regardless. However, for sensitive individuals, this negative reinforcement doesnât bring solaceâit simply reaffirms their worst fears and destroys their fragile attempts at building a better self image. I also don't think Lighter would find any attraction in demeaning his partner, I think he would feel unworthy of their attention and trust, especially in the beginning.
Lighter is consistently wracked with guilt and desperately wants to know whether heâs doing the right thing, whether itâs in his job or in a relationship. For someone like Lighter, praise isnât just arousingâitâs reparative in a way nothing else matches. Each compliment is a stone in the foundation of a self-worth he canât build alone. When his partner says, âYouâre doing so well,â or âYou feel like home, like safety,â itâs not just about sex. Itâs about rewriting the narrative heâs been telling himself for years.
Domestic Play
You cannot convince me that the image of Lighterâs partner cooking or doing general domestic chores wouldnât awaken something deep within him, even though he might not admit it at first. In-game, he respects and surrounds himself with women who embody dominant, traditionally masculine qualities. Heâs more than happy to take orders from them, but in terms of romantic or sexual attraction, he seems to have little interest in those traits. I suspect this is because these qualities mirror his old self, and thatâs not something he finds much solace in, either romantically or sexually.
I think Lighter would be attracted to someone fundamentally different from those around himâsomeone softer and more considerate, yet still strong in a more traditionally feminine sense. Given his history of loss, trauma, and the absence of a stable family, I believe he harbors a profound urge for a family-like relationship. His partner would create an environment that feels like home, a concept Lighter likely yearns for but doesnât fully understand.
Home-cooked meals, small domestic gestures of affectionâthese would make him unbearably needy, though heâd only show it when alone with his partner.
For example:During mundane momentsâmaking coffee, fixing his jacketâhis partner casually murmurs, âYou belong to me.â Itâs subtle, not always sexual, but it lights up the part of Lighterâs brain that craves validation without having to ask for it.
Things like his partner knowing how he likes his coffee without needing to ask, or grabbing the salt shaker from him because itâs bad for his cholesterol would make him unbearably turned on you cannot convince me otherwise. These small acts of care would hit him hard, far more than overt declarations of love.
For Lighter, being told what to do isnât about submissionâitâs about relief. In a life where his choices have often led to heartbreak, the absence of choice feels like safety.
Sensation Play â Both Sensory Deprivation and Service
Lighter is an overthinker. According to Emily Nagoskiâs Come As You Are, overthinking is one of the primary reasons people struggle to achieve climax or engage fully with emotional and sexual vulnerability. When you place too much pressure on external factorsâself-image, internal worries, even things as small as âthe dishes need to be doneââit inhibits your ability to ground yourself in the present and truly experience pleasure. This is why many people, particularly women, struggle with partnered sex and climax.
For Lighter, orgasm denial or delayed gratification would likely be a huge turn-on, especially in situations where heâs restrained or unable to interact directly with his partnerâthink handcuffs or shibari. The removal of senses, such as blindfolding, helps heighten arousal by redirecting the energy normally spent on processing visual stimuli toward pure sensation. It doesnât stop the overthinking; it realigns it, forcing it to focus on the present moment.
For example:His partner lightly places a hand over his mouth while heâs blindfoldedânot fully cutting off air, but creating a soft restraint. Itâs not about danger; itâs about trust. The lack of visual and verbal control pushes him into a space where he canât overanalyzeâhe can only feel.
Considering Lighterâs pastâespecially his time in the fighting pits, where he described himself as feeling like a zombieâI donât think heâd enjoy pain or impact play. His physical existence outside the bedroom has already been filled with similar kinds of suffering. Instead, sensation play becomes a refugeâa way to experience his body without violence, without pain. There's a running joke that he fears the sight of blood in game, which is another reason why I believe centering pleasure rather than pain would be more attractive to him.
Emotional Edgeplay
I believe Lighter craves not just physical intensity but emotional vulnerability pushed to its limitsâscenarios where trust is tested, intimacy feels dangerous, and attachment triggers are explored in consensual, negotiated ways. Emotional edgeplay isnât about causing harm; itâs about walking the razor-thin edge of emotional exposure, where the potential for catharsis is as powerful as the risk.
Overstimulation is a of emotional edgeplay, often resulting in emotional releaseâlike crying during or after sexâas the body lets go of trauma itâs been holding onto for too long. Lighter, who is profoundly dissociated from his needs due to guilt and a deep-seated dismissal of his own worth, would find this both terrifying and necessary.
We see hints of this in-game. For example, thereâs an interaction with a guide dogâtrained to seek out the most vulnerable person in the roomâthat ignores everyone else and goes straight to Lighter. This detail speaks volumes about how disconnected he is from his own emotional fragility; the desensitization runs so deep that he doesnât even recognize it anymore.
In these moments, speech and affirmation would be crucial, especially during heightened emotional states or low points.
For example:During edging, when heâs trembling with frustrationânot just sexually, but emotionallyâhis partner gently cradles his face and whispers, âDo you see how wonderful you are when youâre not pretending?â
Itâs not just arousingâitâs disarming. Because in that vulnerable space, Lighter isnât the cool, edgy pit fighter turned bodyguard. Heâs just him, stripped of all pretense. No walls, no bravado. Flaws and all. It also provides acceptance by omission, that his partner sees all and accepts all.
Caretaker Dynamics (Reversed Aftercare)
I also believe Lighter would prefer to be the primary aftercare provider, despite this traditionally being the role of the dominant partner. According to Dominatrix Eva Oh, aftercare is a service role, and for Lighter, providing that service would be deeply fulfilling. (Itâs a common misconception the Sub role in BDSM is the harder or serving role, because truly Domâs are required to be very emotionally stable, beholden to their sub and can turn out to be a very stress inducing role for the wrong people). This is why high flying jobs such as CEOâs actually prefer to be submissive because it is the only place in their life they get to be minded.
While aftercare is essential after most sexual interactionsâespecially those involving intense scenesâreversed caretaker dynamics, where the more emotionally fragile partner provides aftercare, would align perfectly with Lighterâs psychology. Despite his vulnerabilities, he has an overwhelming desire to feel needed, to prove his worth in relationships even when he feels broken.
Being allowed to âtake careâ of his partner post-sex, even when heâs emotionally raw, satisfies this need. Itâs not about dominance or submissionâitâs about anchoring himself through acts of care.
For example:After an intense session, when his partner is spent and emotionally vulnerable, Lighter insists on making tea, carefully bandaging small marks, or physically holding themâeven if heâs the one shaking. He tucks the blanket around them, brushes sweat-damp hair from their forehead, and whispers, âIâve got you.â
In those moments, his value isnât measured by strength or stoicism. This role reversal reinforces his sense of purpose without undermining his vulnerabilities. He doesn't always have to be the strong one here, in this moment.
Closing Thoughts
Ultimately, Lighterâs kinks arenât just about physical pleasureâtheyâre reflections of his deepest fears, needs, and desires. Theyâre coping mechanisms woven into intimacy, helping him navigate a world where connection feels both a gift and a threat. Whether through domination, praise, or emotional edgeplay, his kinks allow him to confront the parts of himself he hides from the world.
At the heart of it all, Lighter wants to be known.
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Disclaimer I have dyslexia and English is my second language so I apologize for mistakes.
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thinking about lighter lorenz with physical touch as his love language...
like he would kiss your skin that he could reach during a cuddle section
or when you are both out in the outer ring, he will find a way to have his hands on you. hand on your shoulder, waist, hands, anywhere to let you know that he loves you!
though he has a reputation for being a champion and wants to maintain that cool and mysterious facade of his, he will probably drag you to an alleyway or at least away from the public's eye and demand your attention (give him some kisses or make out and he is ready to fight someone who challenge him LMAO)
if we wanted to go a bit angsty, he would hold you so close to him during a nightmare because he didn't want to lose you like he lost his friends to the hollow. that man is not letting you go till morning. he FEARED of losing his loved ones so please reassure him that you won't leave him :,)
