For the girl who loves him next,
Get to know him. He loves giving off the “cool kid” impression. He’ll come across as strong like he doesn’t need anyone in his life. But he’s fragile and sensitive baby who craves emotional and physical intimacy.
He loves physical contact. Not in a bad way,of course. He will never cross his limits until you let him know it’s okay. He’ll take every opportunity he can to touch you once he gets to know you; it reassures him and its his way of showing his love. So if he grabs your hand randomly or tries to get you to cuddle, let him in. Don’t push him away because I promise he’s good at what he does. I could never give him the attention and love he needed which is why he found physical comfort in her. Don’t make that mistake. Please don’t.
Let him open up to you. He hides so much, its ridiculous. Sometimes he hides things from you which will make you mad because he’s afraid to lose you. And sometimes he hides things because he doesn’t like talking about his problems. So let him trust you. Don’t break his trust.
Let him spoil you. He will blow money like none’s business if it means making his girl happy. He will want to make you do stupid things like sit by the lake with him, but let him do it. He’ll make you feel like you’re his everything. He’ll give you a piece of his world so treasure it.
He loves holding hands. He does this thing where he rubs his thumb across the top of ur hand, it will drive you insane. He doesn’t just hold hands, he wants to touch every part of your palm with his fingers, and my god you’ll miss it. He likes lying on your lap and he loves it when you play with his hair. If he falls asleep, watch him sleep, he looks exceptionally adorable. Fall asleep on his chest, his heartbeat is the best thing you’ll ever get to hear. He smells wonderful, and his smell will linger all over you for days to come. He needs to hold you, at all times. So let him slip his hands around your waist because I promise it be worth it. He may come across as clingy, but he’s not. It’s just his way of showing you that he loves you.
Tell him you love him. That his number one rule. No matter how angry you are tell the person you love, “I love you.” Because he believes that no one knows what’ll happen any minute, so its important to tell the people you love, that you love them. Encourage him to be the best person he can possibly be. Tell him he’s capable of achieving his dreams.
His family upsets him. His parents always fight. So when the two of you fight he will get upset. Don’t upset him. Reassure him at all times that you two will never end up like his parents.
Don’t get mad when he drinks too much. He goes out a lot. Girls always fall over him. He smokes and no matter how much you tell him to stop, he won’t listen. Let it go. It will just lead to arguments and hurt. He will spew words at you when he’s drunk, don’t take it to heart. He’s intoxicated and never knows what he’s saying. And if he calls you at 2 in the morning drunk out of his mind, stay on the phone with him. Make sure he gets home safe. And only cut the call when you know he’s fast asleep in his bed. But always forgive him when he apologizes.
He has awful music taste. My god. Its disgusting. So when you sit in the car and listen to his trash music, appreciate it. If you try to change the music he will throw a fit. Its pretty cute though.
He hates blood and horror movies so don’t ever put him through that torture. The kid will literally faint.
He will yell. When he’s mad or upset, he will spew venom at you. Don’t take it to heart. He will say awful things that will break you into pieces.
He loves you, I promise he does, he just doesn’t know how to control his anger without hurting you.
He’s forgetful. Sometimes in the midst of things, he forgets what you’ve told him before. But its just cause he has tons of things on his mind, so he doesn’t remember things as clearly. One time he forgot he loved me and kissed you at a party.
You’ll hate his best friend. And by hate my god, you’ll want to strangle her. Try to love her. A little secret between us, she loves him to death, even though she fails to admit it. I, personally, never got along with her because I hated her soul, but maybe you’ll be a better person overall. So do try to be friends with his friends.
He’s the best man you will ever know. He will treat you like a princess. Everything he does will be for you, do the same for him. Forgive him for his mistakes. Forgive him for hiding things. Don’t make the same mistake I did. Because no matter how much I love and miss him, I can’t forgive him for the things he did. They still hurt. No matter how much I’ve tried to run away from him, I know things will never be the same. I will have to live with my mistakes and so will he. Don’t be toxic. I was toxic. We were toxic.
Please, I beg you, love him unconditionally. Show him that you love him. He hurts easily. Be careful, and keep him safe for me. We could never fix ourselves, but I hope you make him the happiest person in the world.
with love,
thegirlhelovedbefore
stormborns
areudirty
theartofmadeline
blakekathryn
gummygunk
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