a very anxious hat

its me || although you may also know me from:: surreptitious-snake@deviantart · arisakittle@pinterest · twistyslinky@Ao3

[tumblystump]

its been said that when youre hungry, higher thought is the first to go but that doesnt really happen with me.

when im painfully hungry i get philisophical about it. my brain spews shit like:

Sufferring is defined by our capacity to endure. when you end your life, when you make the choice to free yourself of pain, you are exercizing a purposeful force of will. thus, endurance is not the noble or brave action, it is the natural state of being~

[x0401x]

So I just saw a post by a random personal blog that said “don’t follow me if we never even had a conversation before” and?????? Not to be rude but literally what the fuck??????????

I’ve had people (non-pornbots) try to strike conversation out of nowhere in my DMs recently, and now I’m wondering if they were doing that because they wanted to follow me and thought they needed to interact first. I feel compelled to say, just in case, that it’s totally okay to follow this blog (or my side blog, for that matter) even if we’ve never talked before.

Also, I’m legit confused. Is this how follow culture works right now? It was worded like it’s common sense but is that really a thing?

[x0401x]

Saw a sharp increase in my follower count after posting this. The legitimacy of it is driving me nuts so I also feel the need to say that you can follow anyone on here regardless of whether you’ve interacted with them or not. People like the above mentioned blog are exceptions. Perhaps they themselves think they aren’t and therefore will act like they aren’t, but they are, trust me.

Just follow anyone you wanna follow. The worst thing that can happen is maybe getting soft-blocked by the other person, but if they do soft-block you, then they were never that worth following in the first place.

[starfieldcanvas]

wow. really hope this isn't actually a norm taking hold with new users! this isn't facebook, you don't need to know people before following them

[westiec]

this is the '10 year mutuals you've never spoken to once' site

[startrekgifs]

Follow! REBLOG! It's how the site works!!

[tumblystump]

Collection of fun news headlines from my feed

[tumblystump]

large father of the cadence...

[computerexploder]

im just someones weird sister

[gingersnapsvhs]

think about the first movie you remember seeing in a movie theater. not necessarily the first one you saw in a theater, but your oldest memory of seeing one in a theater. what genre of movie was it?

comedy/dark comedy/satire

action

sci-fi

fantasy

horror/thriller

romance/romantasy

historical/period drama/biopic/documentary/historical fiction/political

drama/tragedy

adventure/epic/superhero

mystery/crime

i have a memory of a film but am not sure what film it is (describe?)

i have never seen a film in the theater/cinema in person

Voting ended onApr 28

for the purpose of this poll, things like "animation" and "musical" are not options here because those are mediums and can be any genre! i also sort of felt like inclusion of either of these would result in them dominating this particular poll. so instead, think of which of these selections MOST sums up the movie you're thinking of. it's okay if multiple of these apply, but just pick the one that would sum it up best.

also, you obviously don't have to, but please consider leaving the movie and the year it was released in the tags! i am probably going to make a letterboxd list of everyone's responses, especially if this spreads around enough. check back for the link!

[random-jot]

[geosie]

[chiarrara]

Happy Out of Touch Thursday No it's Tuesday Thursday

[tumblystump]

hey babe its me. your bisexual boyfriend? w-who else would call you babe? uh huh. okay so uh do you think you could stop putting me in situations? yes i know it's your kink. look i support you in all the things you do. its just, well, could you at least pick a different situation? this ambiguously gay situationship is driving me crazy. his romantic displays of affection feel performative and his freely given love for all his friends makes me doubt that his attention to me is at all special

[topsy-snurby]

"Emotional connections are built on trust." So if I understand this right, social bonding is a weighted graph with edge capacity (trust) for data flow (vulnerability) between nodes (people), and the max edge capacity can be altered by an algorithm (brain's emotional systems) that assesses the quality of data received by the node (whether the other person makes them feel safe). No, I'm not autistic, why do you ask?

[beepathan]

hey everyone its april fools. but dont worry i dont have anything planned. just going to sit here and...

I LIED !!!! GET PRANKED

POST BELOW ME GET FUCKING WET

[tahthetrickster]

[catbritta]

i love listening to song on repeat!!!!! reblog if you love listening to song on repeat!!!!!!!!!

[sailermoon]

listening to a song by a woman when the man’s solo comes on

[tumblystump]

I made this meme but i dont know what to do with it now

[tumblystump]

What if you were kidnapped and enslaved by a Soup being who used you to exterminate his fellow Soup beings. And like the Soup beings are extremely delicious but you dont have anything else to eat and you're hyperaware that they're alive and sentient.

[cetitanhasmoved]

i literally like music

[dormantnormandy]

[theshadowrealmitself]

I guess I don’t really go on many dates so I wouldn’t actually know, but how come people don’t like movies as a first date anymore? Like, you get to do an activity you both like together, and then the movie will give you both something to talk about afterwards whether you liked it or not, it’s the perfect social lubricant for awkward first date conversations!!