So, this post will be about only one character, Lylen/Lixia. Her GF will be another post. :3
I did a picrew because I am VERY low spoons today.
This is BASICALLY her..
BASICS:
Lyden is 18. She goes by he/she pronouns. In day to day life she dresses bussiness casual masc, but in her free time he branches out into more 'feminine' clothes. She doesn't really care about what society, defines as feminine or masculine. She just wears & does what he wants to.
RELATIONSHIP WITH QUEERNESS:
Lylen has a complex relationship with queerness. She didn't really know much about it until recently, & still has complex relationships with how she feels about her own queerness because of how her family, upbringing, & her local latine community views queerness. (She is puerto rican, but doesn't live in puerto rico.)
Regardless, she doesn't really care what other people think about her too much in her own day to day life. He knows who she is, & that's fine.
Lyden's gender IS a binary girl, however she refuses to label it that way particularly because it feels like an othersimplication..
Additionally, even though she is a girl who loves girls, she doesn't like being called gay. She will accept the label being a lesbian, being in a lesbian relationship, touchy on the wors queer, but she doesn't like the labels much. Additionally, she still calls herself straight.
TLDR: She has her own things to work out, & overall doesn't like the labels out there. She doesn't feel they fit her well at all.
GENDER & PRESENTATION:
Lyden doesn't mind being called by he because to him, it's just a word. It's nothing. To her, people would have to earn the right to call her "she/her". She has no issue with people she doesn't know using he/him, because they don't know her. She doesn't like the idea of people she doesn't know actually gendering her any typa way. To HER, that's HER personal life, & if you ain't apart of it you need not concern yourself with it.
Similar goes for her name. She does have a feminine version of his name, Lixia, but to him his gender is personal to her. She is a private person.
However, even to his girlfriend, who is the one he is most open to ofc, he doesn't mind being gendered he/him. She just is a masculine person. While it's true her gender & femininity is kept in private, it's not because she is trapped in masculinity. It's simply what she prefers. She loves just Existing.
Transition:
Despite having dysphoria & being a girl, she doesn't feel the need to transition in a typical fashion.
To Lyden, he is completely fine with a lot of her family, random people, etc not knowing shit or even being confused. She's completely fine not socially transitioning. He is fine not really knowing if he wants to medically transition.
Where she is in her journey right now is she is figuring herself out. She is giving herself the space & time she needs in this, & is taking baby steps. She is mature enough to know not to rush herself into figuring out 100% what she wants right now. If she ends up wanting to fully transition, that's great. If she's fine going between girlmode & boymode whenever she wants to express herself, that's great too.
Okay this is long & confusing so a nice TLDR;
• she doesnt like labels becausw they don't feel right
• she is a lesbian/straight WLW
• she is masc asf & fine with that
• ^ tbh if she knew what a stud was & considered herself 'masc enough' (she does switch it up & become fem occasionally), she would be a stud.
• she doesn't really care to come out to people or transition in a typical sense at all. to her she's just living & doing what she wants.
And uhmmm yea that's all I can really say about that. Idk it's confusing & isk how to explain it.
on one hand you gave an intergender tgirl who is beyond the perinormative boxes of trans identification who considers hir attraction to men gay & hir attraction to girls straight
paired with a beautiful trans woman who still goes by he/him, their given name, only likes women but still considers herself straight & loves her partner very much. she doesn't care what pronouns you use & dresses masc or fem depending on how she feels, will never typically transition, & is living life happily anyways. a fully binary woman who doesn't care to preform yt femininity at all & is happy just to exist.
Love yall turian women, love yall turian girls, love yall turigirls, love yall gaygirls, love yall girlfags, love yall turian transfems, love yall cis woman turigirls, love yall achillean women, love yall achillean girls, love yall achillegirls, love yall achillean transfems, love yall achillean cis women
Love yall lesbian men, love yall lesbian boys, love yall lesboys, love yall lesbian transmascs, love yall lesbian cis men, love yall boydykes, love yall sapphic men, love yall sapphic boys, love yall sapphic transmascs, love yall sapphboys, love yall sapphic cis men
Love yall gaybians, love yall lesgays, love yall sapphileans, love yall achillics, love yall fagdykes, love yall dykefags
Pride month may be over (disability pride month yay), but I wish everyone with contradictory labels a VERY good day. For anyone who's been told "but that doesn't make any sense" or that they're "invading spaces", I'm sorry that happened to you. Your identity is your own and you can use whatever labels you want.
This goes double to all the intersex people who have had their labels scrutinised because they don't fit into the neat boxes perisex people expect.
I made these with my persona. Tiktok has apparently found out that people who aren't exactly like them exist and are throwing a fucking hissy fit rn. I love you lesboys. I love you turigirls. Don't let this exclusionary bs get to you.
[ID: Six pixel hearts of various flags in order being Pink Alter, Darkness Alter, Yenogender, Smilearmion, Aroallo Ply Turigirl, and Butcher Bisexual. End ID]
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Name: Omnihet turigirl / Omnigay turigirl
Symbol is inspired by the lotus girlgay symbol by stormymeadowsys & the m-spec nested crescent moons.
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Name: Omnihet achilligirl / Omnigay achilligirl
Symbol is the omnigay symbol by SatyrRadio. I included it on both flags because it uses the achillean carnation, so here it represents both the gay & achillean parts of the identity.
Flags used: omnihet / omnigay by @neopronouns / turigirl by @blankmogai / achilligirl by @faerielogy
A seven stripe flag with a symbol in the colors of the flag. It depicts a small crescent moon inside a lotus flower (viewed from above), which is inside a larger crescent moon. The stripe colors from top to bottom are dark bluish purple, purplish blue, cyan, pinkish white, light pink, and reddish pink.
A version of the previous flag with no symbol.
An identical flag to the first, except the colors are dark purple, bluish purple, sky blue, pinkish white, pink, and magenta.
A version of the previous flag with no symbol.
A five stripe flag with a symbol in the colors of the flag. It depicts a simplified carnation with a single leaf, with a small crescent moon in the center. The flower is inside a larger crescent moon, and the whole symbol is outlined in white. The stripe colors from top to bottom are light blue, white, light pink, magenta, and purple.
A version of the previous flag with no symbol.
An identical flag to the first, except the colors are light purplish blue, white, pink, dark magenta, and dark purple.
୨♡୧・A flag for those who identify as being a turigirl , lesboy & gaybian simultaneously .ᐟ
coined by mina 🎀 ; @radiomogai@accessibilitea
[PT: turiboysbian. a flag for those who identify as being a turigirl, lesboy and gaybian simultaneously. coined by mina 🎀 @/radiomogai @/accessibilitea. /END PT]
Motherfuckers on TikTok will be saying "If trans men can be lesbians trans women can be gay" as a gotcha to me saying trans men can be lesbians and like ....did you think that was a valid gotcha moment? Because obviously I also support them?? Why would THAT be crossing a line for me? It's just the opposite version of lesboys.
Person says: gender is fake! People can identify however they want because gender is a social construct !
Online queer community: yayyy!! So true!! So based!!
Person says: sexuality is fake! People can identify however they want because sexuality is a social construct!
Online queer community: how dare you actually…? You’re actually invalidating every single queer identity ever in saying this. Actually no you’re making the queer community UNSAFE for women by saying this. How fucking dare you. Go die.
Forcing queer people into little boxes where they can only identify a certain way because it’s what’s “right” is anti-queer and heteronormative. The way anti-queer rhetoric is sneaking it’s way into the queer community by large right now needs to be talked about more.
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