Keep an open mind. Really, there might not be a book that matches up 100% with your desires, especially if you have a checklist of tropes and vibes and tone and character archetypes and little niches and if you judge a book's quality based on how specifically they cater to your tastes. But there's a whole universe of books that can come together individually to create your reading profile, and you might not know what you like until you encounter it. That means read a book a bit outside your reading level. That means reading a book written decades or even centuries ago.
Seriously. Step outside yourself. Reading is the only way you can exist in someone else's mind. Try out a book you don't think you're going to like., even. There are so many ways to sample books for free. If you usually read fiction, try non-fiction. If you usually read non-fiction, try fiction.
Try to balance those first two points by thinking about what you do want, hopefully beyond your checklist of tropes. Are there themes you want to read about? Are you drawn to a particular writing style? There are many components that can lead you to something you like. For example, if you say you like spy thrillers, maybe you like the comedic ones more. That's a whole subgenre in and of itself. Or you hate humor and prefer more action-oriented ones. Or maybe--lucky you--you discover you like any and all spy thrillers, and then you'll never, ever lack for something to read.
Use the Internet. Yes, the algorithms are flawed, but it's a low point of entry if you don't like talking to people or don't know how to articulate what you want or if you have super secret private things that you don't want anyone else to know about, no judgment. There is no shortage of websites that will help you find "Titles Similar To..." Goodreads, Amazon. Storygraph lets you search by all sorts of different criteria.
Talk to people. Talk to librarians. If going to a physical library isn't feasible, talk to them online. If talking to people online or personally isn't feasible, search for old Reddit threads where other people have already talked to each other about books. There's a subreddit called suggestmeabook.
If you really, really don't want to read a book outside your comfort zone, and, in fact, don't want to read a book at all, and just want to read your nice little collection of tropes...read fanfic. I mean, try to read a book at some point but if you're really not feeling it, then go read fanfic, it's your life. Search for indie authors, self-published stuff, etc.
Prepare yourself for disappointment. I can't tell you how many times I was soooo excited to read a book with a premise that seemed to be made for me, only to be let down by the writing style--or, less common, an author whose style I loved wrote a book with a dull concept. It's a balancing act: Give things a chance, but also give yourself permission to bail.
I'm assuming you're using "title" as synecdoche for "book" because even after all this, I have faith in humanity. But if you literally mean "title," then just. Don't judge a book by the vibes of its title.
I like thinking of reading as similar to eating. A balanced diet is important, not everything can be gourmet, you deserve little treats sometimes, there's a whole lot of things to try.
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