Hey man. Another alpha dom guy here... in Toronto. I dont like giving my boys the pleasure of blowing their load... but i've lost some good whores because they didnt like that about me and wanted me to at least give them a handjob. What do you think? Is it the dom's responsibility to make sure their boys cum? Or maybe you have some followers here in Toronto who are the right type of bitch boy for me...
This can be a complicated answer because it really is based on the lifestyle and/or dynamic you both relate to. The short answer from an Alpha/faggot dynamic is no it is not an Alpha’s responsibility to make certain a faggot cums.
You will find in this dynamic that an Alpha is not concerned with a faggot’s cock or him cumming. It is about Alpha pleasure. A faggot submitted to this is committed to his pleasure being derived from bringing his Alpha pleasure. Most Alphas will ignore a faggot’s cock and expect him to do the same as it distracts from the mission of focusing on Alpha pleasure.
If an Alpha permits a faggot to cum, it is a privilege and certainly not the Alpha’s responsibility to facilitate it. If a faggot gets upset because an Alpha doesn’t do it, then he’s far out of line.
But there really are multiple sub-dynamics within the Dominant / submissive dynamic. This is just one of them. Within each sub-dynamic there are different perspectives and expectations, and that’s OK.
For instance, I also like the Daddy/ Daddy’s boy dynamic, and this question looks quite different in that dynamic.
No matter what you choose, remember that a submissive gets to choose to. The key is communication and knowing the dynamic both of you expect. It sounds like the boys you were with before were coming at it from a different philosophy/perspective.
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