I think it’s so interesting that at one point in life we think that a certain person is who were meant to be with. But later, after months/years of changing we realize that person was ABSOLUTELY not right for us. But for that moment, it seemed perfect.
A great way to reflect on how much you’re changing is to look at who you’ve surrounded yourself with. A year ago I was best friends with people who seemed like my people. After months of hurt and pain and growth, I’ve realized that they were great for that time in my life but not for the long run. And I’m sure that some of the people I’m stressing about and thinking about now will not be huge parts of my life in a year or two. An important part of life is to appreciate the people who got you where you are. Appreciate the people who once hurt you, the ones who loved you and the ones that were only there to say hi to you in class. Appreciate the people who taught you life’s greatest lessons. Appreciate the people who tore your heart out and stomped on it. Appreciate them because your journey is a series of ups and downs that will lead you to where you’re supposed to be. And when your journey is so so hard and it seems like you won’t come out of it. You will. And you’ll look back and realize that it happened for a reason. Bad stuff happens so we can grow. Good stuff happens so we can grow. And people impact eachother to make them grow. That person you once thought would be your forever is someone else’s forever. And that’s okay. Some people are just detours on your journey. Detours really make us who we are. But our journey is our journey no matter who we pick up and drop off on the way.
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