yikes to watch out for

neja. huge baby. they/them/their i guess. pls send a message and introduce yourself if you decide to follow me :) (no need to ask permission to follow though!)

[trashparadise]

im screaming?? there are all just euphemisms for internalized homophobia im???

[goobra]

“perosexual” is literally just internalized homophobia. like that’s literally exactly what that is. what

[beachdeath]

#these are all literally things you should go to therapy for

[baehraini]

all of these are literally internalized homophobia. this is why people who define sexuality by the exact feelings they have towards others is not adequate. those arent a sexuality at all

[cs-inactive1-deactivated2020060]

crystallized self-harm is not liberation. Promoting this kind of thing just makes you a more insidious incarnation of the closet case evangelical.

[mockiato-deactivated20200315]

We really can’t overemphasis the harm shit like this does to people who are questioning their sexuality and dealing with self hate… instead of being offered genuine support and help through internalized homophobia, they’re told ‘oh that’s a real sexuality don’t worry! You’re valid and don’t need to change!’ Frankly it’s fucking evil, because it’s being spearheaded by people who are old enough and experienced to know better–but it doesn’t fit their agenda.

[coolhiroaki]

me, looking at a couple: so which one of you yodels and which one of you raps???

[homerically]

Draco, Crabb and Goyle

[clarabosswald]

a hetero kiss? on the stage of the eurovision? for shame

[realfakeeggs]

made my biggest, brightest and most floral fuck ever. 

[rugelachs-deactivated20171206]

I agree that nonbinary isn’t a 100% cohesive, coherent class & in a lot of contexts in esp western societies one can’t just simply and non-messily opt out of the gender binary in terms of how you’re gonna be parsed and seen externally in power dynamics. i.e I probably don’t think there are people - again talking within societies where a western gender binary is the framework  - who 100% do not propogate/benefit from misogyny and also are not at all affected by misogyny. and I agree that “man-aligned nb” and “woman-aligned nb” (or woman of center or whatever you want to use) are useful and applicable terms. however I don’t think that can be applied to every nonbinary experience especially when you take into account nonbinary experiences that aren’t white and/or western, or that are in societies that operate differently regarding gender. just saying “every nb person can and should be defined as man-aligned or woman-aligned” is not… convincing to me as an ethical or accurate universalizing framework. 

also regarding the “ethical” part of that last sentence, as much as we rightfully hate idpol becoming the only focus with no material analysis, having some politics relating to identity as part of the picture is not some unholy sin (in fact in its absencee you get a whole other mess) and people’s personal comfort and dysphoria and identity should be a part of how we interact with these issues otherwise what is our gender related politics for, pure intellectualism and theory? it’s supposed to at some point come down to improving people’s embodied experiences including/especially people who defy gender roles/gender/the gender binary, and we can’t exactly do that if we’re like “well you identify as agender but it looks like you’re classed more as a woman in our societal framework regarding misogyny so I’m just going to call you a woman and use language involving “woman” until you leave uncomfortably, it’s called #materialism” no one would.. interact with people like that. 

you can say “gender is fake/an arbitrary constructed system” until the cows come home but then when people transgress within that system by disidentifying from both manhood and womanhood, especially people who aren’t white, you can’t just ignore the complexity there and the things that add to experiences, and no those effects/complexities are not always Just Meaningless Idpol and I don’t think you have to compromise your Material Lens or whatever to get to a place in how you interact with nonbinary people and the language that you use about nonbinary-ness that is not only more compassionate but also more accurate than an oversimplistic “every nonbinary experience can be simply boiled down to man-aligned or woman-aligned” 

[ultimateworrier]

you're cute

aww thank you anonymous!!

[ultimateworrier]

i havent posted any selfies in a long time so some of you might not know that i have hair now. i also have a phone without a front camera that takes very blurry photos and a dirty bathroom mirror. hello

[thefoxhuntingman]

Die? One does not do that to a cat.

from “A Cat in an Empty Apartment” by Wisława Szymborska (translated by Walter Whipple)

[viviornitier]

assigned… at birth? holy shit, that assignment must be so overdue, i hope this gender doesn’t effect my GPA

[lgbtbalkans]

Fakultet političkih nauka, Beograd

[sillyandquiteawkward]

how to waste 8 hours of your life

step 1: have to do something

step 2: dont

step 3: feel guilty you havent done it

step 4: conclude you are not allowed to do anything until you do the thing

step 5: dont

congratulations, youve wasted 8 hours of you life doing absolutely nothing

[disforce]

if you're valid fuck you

[dungeonsandlesbians]

Dungeons and Lesbians 1: The Will-o-Wisp

In the pilot episode of Dungeons and Lesbians, our player characters - Meryl, played by Roy; Railen, played by Audrey; Nephros, played by Fallon; and Fishgirl, played by Bec - find themselves in the muddy heart of a mysterious bayou village. Nobody smells good.

Check out this episode!

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I made a blank version of the “no fear -> one fear” meme!!! Feel free to use, no credit necessary ; u ;

[sexycraisinthanos]

i didn’t read the caption and I thought this edit was a meme and that we had just reached peak abstract humor

[ultimateworrier]

my friends i just realized that in slovene the word for moon (mesec) is the same as the word for month (mesec). like, ive known both these words my whole life. i just never realized they are the same word. brains are so weird

[minimal7lethal5dose213-deactiva]