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Feminism is back in fashion – and this time, it's all abut choice. But does more choice really equal more freedom? And are all women free to make the same choices? | 29 avril 2015, 21:40
Feminism is back in fashion. As the push to claim the “f-word” has intensified, public figures, corporations and much of the mainstream media have propelled a largely unchallenging version of feminism into the popular consciousness. It is a feminism that never mentions women’s liberation, instead opting for a celebration of “choice”.
Read almost any online article about feminism and the comments will soon devolve into a debate about choice. It doesn’t seem to matter what the topic is, people are quick to reframe the issue as one of women’s empowerment and right to choose. This provides a neat diversion from talking about the larger power structures and social norms that restrict women, in many different ways, all around the world.
It’s been a big month for “choice feminism”. In late March, the fashion magazine empire Vogue launched a “My Choice” video in India as part of its Vogue Empower campaign which, quite literally, reduced women’s empowerment to a series of choices.
The video went viral and, as the India-based reporter Gunjeet Sra noted, the hypocrisy of an “industry that is based on fetishising, objectifying and reinforcing sexist standards of beauty on women”, supposedly promoting feminism, went largely unremarked.
This liberal brand of “choice feminism” was then followed to its logical, if absurd, conclusion, when a Liberal Democrat candidate in the upcoming UK election tried to explain away footage of him getting a lap dance in a strip club. Apparently, it was all part of his feminist mission to assist in “empowering women to make legal choices, not to judge the legal choices they make”.
Even Playboy has recently decided to weigh in on the finer points of feminist theory, and have come out in favour of a woman’s right to be subjected to the pornographic gaze. Which, conveniently, fits in very nicely with their own business plan, of course.
It is incidents like these, as well as hackneyed arguments about whether Beyoncé is a feminist, or whether male politicians should wear This is What a Feminist Looks Like T-shirts, that inspired a new collection of feminist writing, Freedom Fallacy: The limits of liberal feminism.
In the book, which I co-edited, 20 of us take on different topics that have become part of the “choice feminism” landscape: from pornography and prostitution, to female genital mutilation, from women’s magazines and marriage, to sexual violence. While coming from a range of different perspectives, we all critique the notion that “choice” should be the ultimate arbiter of women’s freedom.
Many of us argue that the rise of this pop-feminism is actually more insidious than poking fun at the inane end of the “I choose my choice” spectrum might suggest.
First of all, the choice arguments are fundamentally flawed because they assume a level of unmitigated freedom for women that simply doesn’t exist. Yes, we make choices, but these are shaped and constrained by the unequal conditions in which we live. It would only make sense to uncritically celebrate choice in a post-patriarchal world.
Second, the idea that more choices automatically equate to more freedom is a falsehood. This is essentially just selling neo-liberalism with a feminist twist. Yes, women can now work or stay at home if they have children, for example, but this “choice” is fairly hollow when child-rearing continues to be constructed as “women’s work”, there is insufficient state support for childcare, and childless women are decried as selfish.
Third, the focus on women’s choices as the be-all and end-all of feminism has resulted in in a perverse kind of victim-blaming and a distraction from the real problems women still face. If you’re not happy with the way things are, don’t blame misogyny and sexism, the pay gap, entrenched gender roles, women’s lack of representation on boards or in parliament, or an epidemic of violence against women. Blame yourself. You obviously made the wrong choice.
As sociologist Natalie Jovanovski points out in her Freedom Fallacy chapter, it is not surprising this kind of liberal feminism has risen to prominence. In privileging individual choice above all else, it doesn’t challenge the status quo.
It doesn’t demand significant social change, and it effectively undermines calls for collective action. Basically, it asks nothing of you and delivers nothing in return.
Instead of resistance, we now have activities that were once held up as archetypes of women’s subordinate status being presented as liberating personal choices. Sexual harassment has been reframed as harmless banter that women can enjoy. Marriage is reconstructed as a pro-feminist love-in.
Labiaplasty is seen as helpful cosmetic enhancement. Pornography is rebranded as sexual emancipation. Objectification is the new empowerment.
Instead of talking about a vision for a more equal future, we are left with inward-looking, futile discussions about whether or not individual women are “bad feminists”. Or what journalist Sarah Ditum has termed the “can you be a feminist and …” game. As though the real issue of women’s progress is whether or not we can live up to some fabled feminist ideal.
So thorough is the individualisation of “choice feminism” that when women criticise particular industries, institutions and social constructions, they are often met with accusations of attacking the women who participate in them. The importance of a structural-level analysis has been almost completely lost in popular understandings of feminism.
By way of comparison, it would seem quite ludicrous to suggest that by critiquing capitalism a Marxist was attacking wage labourers. It would similarly seem very odd to suggest that those critiquing Big Pharma hate people who work in pharmaceutical factories. Or that those who question our cultural reliance on fast-food have it in for the kids behind the counter at McDonalds.
Ultimately, the promotion of “choice” – and the myth of an already-achieved equality – have hampered our ability to challenge the very institutions that hold women back. But the fight is not over.
Many women are reasserting that feminism is a necessary social movement for the equality and liberation of all women, not just platitudes about choices for some.
Freedom Fallacy: The limits of liberal feminism was launched in Australia in March. It is also available internationally.
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also trans ppl: i’m a trans woman so i love the color pink and dresses and dolls
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Some kid literally just sent me a message asking if I’m a “terf” because she wanted to reblog from me but was afraid I was a “terf”.
I said I’m a butch lesbian and I stand for lesbians first and foremost.
She said “have fun being horrible” and blocked me.
So there’s it. Terf means lesbian. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. =)
The association is definitely there but we all get called terfs regardless of our sexuality
This is unprecedented.
By deleting key sequences of DNA in embryonic stem cells harvested from female mice, Chinese researchers successfully kicked off a new generation of the tiny mammals without the need for males to fertilise any eggs.
These fatherless mice not only made it to adulthood, they also went on to have babies of their own, demonstrating the method is a vast improvement on earlier attempts to assist reproduction without the need for both a male and female parent.
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Now humans lol
https://thinkprogress.org/brett-kavanaugh-falsely-claims-17-year-old-immigrant-didnt-meet-requirements-for-an-abortion-25b9c759d63c/
I have so much to say about this shithole and the shitholes who supported him
im not sure how much this means but about two years ago i sent you some pretty fucked up anons cause i was brainwashed into attacking any woman considered a terf, but I've recently become a radfem and i just wanted to say im really sorry & that i admire you a lot cause i know i wasn't the only one sending you nasty shit. anyway thank you for being brave enough to publicly share your radical feminists opinions despite how much hatred you can get for it ❤❤
It's okay :) we all grow. I'm just happy you’re able to view their ideology from a different perspective.
Dual perspectives.
Doctors assign a feeling to newborns?
Kweer activists are ridiculous.
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He is so UGLY please stop making me look at him
looks like a male™, talks like a male™
"She just lost it."
interesting how the title of the article was changed to “received a death threat” instead of the more active language of what actually happened included in the link - was threatened with a knife. if misgendering (even unintentional, non-malicious misgendering) is violence, this woman deserved to have a male coworker wielding a knife tell her “I’m going to kill you for calling me he.” does that sound right to you, really?
Well that explains the image lol
Girls don’t start puberty earlier, the changes that happen during the first few years of puberty are just more visible and noticeable on girls.
BTW; boys start producing sperm at the age of 10-12 but somehow women aren’t using that as an excuse to fuck them.
I don't care who you are, you're a terrible person if you choose to prioritize the 1%-2% of the men (at most) that are "falsely" accused of rape over the atleast 98% of women that are telling the truth. Some of you complain about women not reporting rape enough while being an active member of a culture that continously leaves female rape victims more socially isolated than male rapists. You can't believe the that the majority of women are telling the truth while simultanously choosing to believe that the men in your life are innocent because they said so. You’re saying that most women are telling the truth except for the women that have accused the men in your life, even though you often don't know these women. If everyone were to believe the men in their lives (which most do), doesn't that automatically mean that all women are lying about rape?
There really are just two sides here and you’re continously choosing a side that creates a culture that leaves victims more socially isolated than male rapists.