Being feminine is not about putting on feminine clothes or about pleasuring yourself for a couple of minutes before you let your masculine thoughts take over your life again. Being feminine is a mindset, a divine energy that you can reclaim, connect to and embody if society or your limiting beliefs made you feel or think in a masculine way. We live in a masculine-driven world after all and the more we need beings like you that radiate their femininity daily, unapologetically, in your own authentic way. The BNWA gives you a headstart in a changing society, an opportunity to assess and adapt your ways & your behaviour to become yourself, finally. Today’s task: Discover the following keys to femininity and journal about the ones that feel difficult, the ones you struggle with, the ones that seem so hard to embody. If you can already check some boxes in this list, good girl, you are on your way to alignment, fulfillment and the embodiment of the divine feminine. Reblog to help others find their feminine self and share your experiences in the comments. XO
Be nurturing and compassionate: Show kindness to yourself and others, offering empathy without judgment. Practice listening deeply to understand before responding.
Be affectionate: Let yourself express warmth through touch, words, or gestures, whether it’s a hug or a loving note. Show up physically and emotionally with open arms and a full heart.
Let intuition be your guide: Trust your inner voice, even if it defies logic; it often knows more than the mind. Practice following hunches in small ways to strengthen your connection to intuition.
Allow yourself to be magnetic: Embrace your natural allure by being genuine, confident, and receptive. Notice how effortlessly people and experiences are drawn to your authentic energy.
Allow yourself to feel attractive: Look at yourself lovingly and see what makes you unique. Wear something that brings out your favorite features and let yourself feel beautiful, unconditionally.
Be warm and welcoming: Open up your space, your energy, and your presence to others. Smile genuinely and create an atmosphere where people feel safe and valued.
Let small things trigger sensuality: Find pleasure in daily moments—savor the taste of coffee, feel the texture of fabrics, or enjoy the warmth of the sun. Engage your senses fully in even the simplest activities.
Take good care of yourself: Prioritize self-care as a daily ritual. Nourish your body, mind, and soul through small acts of care that make you feel whole.
Make it easy to express love: Let love flow freely through words, gestures, and acts of service. Send a sweet message, compliment someone, or show affection in your way.
Be creative and fertile: Allow ideas and inspiration to come naturally; creativity can be as simple as rearranging a space or cooking a new recipe. Engage in activities that spark your imagination and bring new life to your world.
Be in touch with your feelings: Honor every emotion, even the uncomfortable ones, as valuable messengers. Journaling or talking with a trusted friend helps you process and understand your feelings.
Be receptive: Practice accepting help, love, and opportunities without feeling the need to repay or prove yourself. Let go of resistance to receiving, and allow abundance into your life.
Allow compliments: Take a compliment to heart without brushing it off. When someone appreciates you, simply smile and say, “Thank you.”
Be in peace with your inner darkness: Accept every part of yourself, including the shadows. Embrace vulnerability as a path to self-discovery and strength.
Be comfortable with cycles and changes: Trust the ebb and flow of your moods, desires, and energy levels as natural and necessary. Align with lunar cycles as a reminder that change is both beautiful and essential. Let the New Moon (White Lunar Woman) or the Full Moon (Red Lunar Woman) be your time of chastity, renunciation, surrender & give your belly rest and care.
See vulnerability as strength: Share openly and authentically, understanding that real courage comes from being seen as you are. Embrace softness as a powerful gift.
Take responsibility for your life: Own your choices and your path without placing blame. Recognize the freedom that comes with self-accountability.
Make that doctor appointment: Self-care includes honoring your physical health. Don’t delay when it comes to maintaining well-being; schedule check-ups regularly.
Create harmonious spaces: Arrange your surroundings to reflect beauty, calm, and balance. Use soft lighting, meaningful objects, or natural elements to create peace in your environment.
Let relationships be the most important thing for you: Nurture meaningful connections with those you love. Prioritize quality time and invest in the people who uplift you.
Destroy what’s out of alignment: Let go of things, beliefs, or relationships that drain you. Trust that creating space makes room for what’s meant for you.
Learn to be in the present moment: Practice mindfulness by savoring each breath and grounding in the now. Release worries about the past and future.
Be authentic: Show up as your true self, without fear of judgment. Embrace and embody the unique person you are.
Be elegant and graceful in daily life: Walk, speak, and move with intention and poise. Let your actions be a reflection of self-respect.
Be playful: Allow yourself to laugh, be spontaneous, and enjoy life with a light heart. Indulge in activities that make you feel carefree and alive.
Have a feminine essence: Embrace softness, fluidity, and intuition in all you do. Honor your feminine energy as something sacred and natural.
Be part of a sisterhood: Build supportive, empowering connections with other women. Find strength in shared experiences and uplift one another.
Allow yourself to be motherly towards people: Offer care, advice, and support to those who need it. Share your nurturing energy in ways that feel comfortable.
Be polite and harmony-focused: Aim to create peace in your interactions, choosing kindness and understanding over conflict. Approach others with gentle words and a calm presence.
See femininity as your ultimate strength: Embrace all that makes you feminine—your empathy, intuition, and resilience—as powerful assets. Recognize your unique contributions to the world.
Dance: Move freely to music as a celebration of life. Let your body express itself without inhibition. Connect with your body and be in the present.
Do yoga or pilates: Connect with your body and mind through gentle, intentional movements. Find peace and strength in the flow of each posture.
Allow yourself to be soft as often as possible: Embrace gentleness in your thoughts, actions, and words. See softness as an expression of inner peace and resilience.
Go into nature: Reconnect with the earth by spending time outside. Let the natural world renew and ground you.
Pamper yourself: Set aside time for indulgent self-care, like a warm bath or a relaxing massage. Treat yourself with the same kindness and care you’d offer a loved one.
Have a positive body image: Embrace your body for all it does and how it makes you feel. Celebrate your unique beauty without comparison.
Connect with cis-women: Share stories, support, and wisdom with the women in your life. Build a network of solidarity and empowerment.
Pursue guilt-free pleasures: Allow yourself to enjoy what makes you happy without shame. Whether it’s a hobby, treat, or rest, embrace pleasure as a birthright.
Question old beliefs: Reassess what you were taught about femininity and strength. Replace limiting beliefs with affirmations that support your growth.
Eliminate your limiting beliefs: Identify thoughts that keep you small or fearful. Replace them with beliefs that encourage your expansion and confidence.
Create a beauty routine: Engage in rituals that make you feel radiant, inside and out. Find joy in caring for yourself daily.
Stop obsessing: Let go of the need for control or perfection. Breathe, release, and trust that everything will fall into place.
Stop overthinking: Surrender to the flow of life and trust yourself. Practice letting your thoughts come and go without attaching meaning to each one.
Master the art of detachment: Hold space for what you love without needing it to be a certain way. Let go of outcomes and accept the beauty of what is.
Let others help you: Be open to receiving support without feeling weak or burdensome. Accept help as an act of love and connection.
Seek self-validation instead of external validation: Value your opinion of yourself over others’ opinions. Practice self-affirmation as a daily ritual.
Compassion over competition: Celebrate other women’s successes and recognize that there’s enough abundance for all. Shift from envy to inspiration.
Be accepting: Practice open-mindedness towards yourself and others. Embrace imperfections and differences with a loving heart.
Be open: Approach life with curiosity and a willingness to explore. Allow yourself to be surprised and delighted by new experiences.
Live your truth unapologetically: Stand firmly in your beliefs and desires, even if they defy others’ expectations. Honor your path without apology.
Set and enforce boundaries: Protect your energy by saying no when you need to. Boundaries aren’t barriers; they’re guides to healthy relationships.
Allow yourself to be lighthearted and fun: Embrace humor, joy, and a childlike wonder. Life isn’t always serious; play and laugh as much as possible.
Allow yourself to be seductive: Recognize and celebrate your sensuality. Let your allure shine naturally without hiding or minimizing it.
Follow your heart: Tune into your deepest desires and pursue them fearlessly. Let passion, love, and intuition guide your choices.
Love you 😘 @black-new-world-academy ♠️💛
