They/Them transmasc butch? Figuring out my identity but butch has always felt the most correct and right.
Started T: August 2021
No preference with who I like, but my main attraction is masculinity.
I welcome men who aren't cis. Non cis men please ignore the tag. T boys, trans mascs, trans men please come here.
MUST BE OVER 21 TO BE IN MY DMS, AND 18 FOR MY ASK BOX
Pronouns encouraged!
Practicing ethical non-monogomy, please don't expect sex or a relationship. Nudes are fine when prompted!
New to kink and overall sex outside of fanfiction and masturbation!
Super into pet play/puppy play, biting, audio porn, praise (depending on the headspace)!
Definitely have an oral fixation but mostly fingers/clothes/chew toys/flesh/nipples/cock/the bedding. Probably literally anything not a gag or muzzle (or something I could accidentally swallow) needs to be in my mouth.
I'm open to exploring unlisted kinks!
Likes: Leash and collar (self explanatory), piss in theory (I would love to test this first before it becomes an official like)
Unsure/Untested Interests: piss, CNC/intox (heavily communicated and scene indicators necessary for me to even consider this. I'll also have to get to know you), safe breath play
Hard Nos: being called mean names, impact play, bondage, non con, scat, vomit, gas (burps/farts), feet, breath play that results in actually choking and not the play kind, spanking, slapping, degradation of any kind
respectfully, my butch pulling me to the edge of the bed. grabbing my legs and putting them over their shoulders, rubbing their hands down my legs, gently gliding over my inner thighs. taking their time to look at every inch of my body, kissing my legs, arms and fingers. kneeling down to softly kiss my inner thighs and over to my pussy, making me more and more desperate.
Having my puppy butches mount each other for playtime if they’re good. Lavishing them with praise for taking their knots so well. Maybe I’ll let them sleep on the bed tonight.
transmasc butches are a real, valid, and beautiful part of queer community. being transmasc and butch are not contradictory identities. butch has always been about masculine expression within queer spaces, and transmasc people absolutely inhabit that space authentically.
a transmasc butch who bottoms is not confusing or contradictory either. sexual roles have nothing to do with gender identity or gender expression. a butch can bottom. a transmasc person can bottom. these things coexist without conflict. the idea that butch means always dominant or always topping is a harmful misconception.
transmasc butches exist in lesbian and queer women adjacent spaces for many reasons. some still identify with lesbian or queer identity. some are in relationships with femmes. some find community and home in butchfemme spaces specifically because those spaces understand gender nonconformity in ways other spaces don’t.
queerness is expansive. gender is complicated. identity doesn’t always fit into the neat little boxes people want to put it in.
transmasc butches deserve to be celebrated. their relationships deserve to be written about. their dynamics deserve space. and i’m happy to give them that.
service top butches are some of the most devoted lovers and they don’t get talked about enough. the ones who find genuine pleasure in acts of service, who get turned on by being useful, by being needed, by being good. some of them love giving oral more than anything, who could spend hours between your legs and be perfectly content, who get wet from the taste and the sounds you make, who genuinely enjoy it more than being touched themselves. butches who take pride in learning exactly how you like to be fingered, who memorize every spot that makes you gasp, who get off on the skill of it, on being good with their hands.
the butches who love making you breakfast in bed after, who get satisfaction from taking care of you in every way. who do the dishes without being asked, who carry your bags, who open doors, who find joy in these small acts of service. the ones who get turned on by being told what to do in bed, who need that guidance, who want you to use them for your pleasure. who ask what position you want, how fast, how deep, constantly seeking instruction because following your direction gets them off. service tops who live for praise, who need to hear they’re doing well, who work harder when you tell them they’re perfect. whose whole face lights up when you say good boy/girl, who get wetter from those words than from physical touch.
the butches who beg for permission to touch you, who treat access to your body like a gift they have to earn. who get genuinely distressed if they can’t make you cum, who take it as a personal mission. who study your body like it’s their job, who remember every preference, every sensitivity. the ones who find purpose in your pleasure, who feel most themselves when they’re making you feel good. who are confident and skilled but also vulnerable and needy, who need praise and validation and reassurance that they’re enough.
these butches deserve recognition for the devotion they bring, for the care they put into service, for being strong enough to give everything while being brave enough to admit they need something back.
they are sexually mature at ONE HUNDRED AND FIFTY YEARS OLD.
their (live!) young gestate for. wait for it. eight to eighteen (??) YEARS. can have up to 10 at a time. good grief.
longest lifespan of any vertebrate, up to five hundred years
toxic flesh
has giant eyes but is usually blind because of a weird little crustacean that's evolved to live on and eat their eyes. this doesn't seem to bother them much.
lives in deep cold water and has the lowest swim speed and tail-beat frequency for its size across all fish species. just generally lives life in extreme slow motion
largest genome of any shark
eats everything including moose and polar bears
ma'am you are delightfully strange and I'm privileged to share a planet with you