They/Them transmasc butch? Figuring out my identity but butch has always felt the most correct and right.
Started T: August 2021
No preference with who I like, but my main attraction is masculinity.
I welcome men who aren't cis. Non cis men please ignore the tag. T boys, trans mascs, trans men please come here.
MUST BE OVER 21 TO BE IN MY DMS, AND 18 FOR MY ASK BOX
Pronouns encouraged!
Practicing ethical non-monogomy, please don't expect sex or a relationship. Nudes are fine when prompted!
New to kink and overall sex outside of fanfiction and masturbation!
Super into pet play/puppy play, biting, audio porn, praise (depending on the headspace)!
Definitely have an oral fixation but mostly fingers/clothes/chew toys/flesh/nipples/cock/the bedding. Probably literally anything not a gag or muzzle (or something I could accidentally swallow) needs to be in my mouth.
I'm open to exploring unlisted kinks!
Likes: Leash and collar (self explanatory), piss in theory (I would love to test this first before it becomes an official like)
Unsure/Untested Interests: piss, CNC/intox (heavily communicated and scene indicators necessary for me to even consider this. I'll also have to get to know you), safe breath play
Hard Nos: being called mean names, impact play, bondage, non con, scat, vomit, gas (burps/farts), feet, breath play that results in actually choking and not the play kind, spanking, slapping, degradation of any kind
“butch perv this” “butch perv that” NO femme perv who gropes my thigh every time i manspread, femme perv who undos my fly in public to tease me when im being a brat, femme perv who makes me keep my hair long so she can pull it, femme perv who brands me with her name in a heart , femme perv who puts a cute pink slip lead around my neck so it goes with her outfit, femme perv who slips drugs into my beer, femme perv who forces me to drink her wine to get me even more horny >_< femme perv who puts her cig out on me, femme perv who- i think you get the idea
Icl I genuinely forget that dyke is meant to be a slur sometimes until I drop it in conversations with my non sapphic friends and they look at me like I’ve just drop kicked a child
I kind of love how HRT works on the "bits." Its surprising how much it can help with bottom dysphoria for some people, especially gender non conforming people, in both directions. Because, when you go through both puberties you get a big ol' clit or a little dick, whichever you feel is more apt to describe your anatomy.
This anatomy is beautiful, I would know, I love my body dearly thanks to my self improvement, self agency, and, an essential ingredient, the support of others. Which tends to take years of being ignored by cis people to be obtained. Which is why trans community, (particularly centering other marginalized identities, or it becomes assimilationist in its own form), is vital until social constructs crumble beneath the weight of the corpses piled on it. Survival.
Yesterday a friend told me about one of their friends who wants to transition to a man. This person hasn't transitioned yet because they are afraid to lose their community because they will be pushed out of lesbian spaces. Being lesbian has been such a huge part of their identity for a long time in their life and they see how trans men get treated as gross or "mutilated women" and I don't think some of you think about this enough. I know multiple people who are afraid to transition or have detransitioned because of loss of community for transitioning or blatant transphobia and I just really think some of you need to sit with and understand how much grief it might be to go through that... To have found yourself once and to have a community that's such a big part of your life yet still feeling like you don't quite fit and grieving that you either have to hide who you are again or lose your community again.
If your reading this and this is the first time you are understanding the grief that transmen go through then I have news for you .... You don't know enough or talk to enough trans men in your life and you should probably fix that. And while this post is mainly focused on trans men the same can be said that there is grief that trans women go through and you should get familiar with it.
As a butch lesbian I will always talk about the struggles of trans men and trans women... The battle that butches face is so deeply intertwined in the trans community that even if I wasn't a transmasc nonbinary person it would still be a disservice to my community to not speak on these issues. You really need to wrap your heads around the fact that gender essentialism harms us all. The day I decide to stop fighting for trans people is the day I will no longer be worthy of the butch identity; I'd rather die than abandon my trans siblings.
At some point I will write about the overlaps between butches and trans people but that is for a later date. The point is some of you need to look inside yourselves and recognize that you may be harboring bigotry and creating spaces in our community that makes it unsafe for trans people to come out. No one should lose their community and friendships for transitioning
you can just dislike something you don’t have to claw at it to find a shred of something problematic to justify your hate you can just hate it but the problem is so many of you are so catholic-brained that you feel like something needs to sin in order to feel justified in hating it so you desperately try to find sins to crucify it for
Just a friendly reminder that just because you experience oppression or marginalization in one way doesn't mean you can't be bigoted. Anyone is capable of being racist, ableist, mysogynistic, homophobic, transphobic, colorist, classist, etc. everyone is human first and foremost and it's important to remember that humans are capable of both good and bad things. It's important that if you care about people and don't want to hurt other people you get comfortable with being called out and addressing your own bigotry and discomforts. Often the more uncomfortable you feel about something the more you need to lean into understanding it else you let fear win and don't grow. You don't have to be a bigot but is absolutely a choice that often comes from not allowing yourself to experience discomfort.
Phone sex where I can hear you pleasuring yourself to the point my brain stops working and I'm bricked up so bad and all I can do is imagine you riding my strap. Don't worry I'll tell you exactly how to get off just give me a second to be in ecstasy over hearing your moans as you fuck yourself on the phone
This study is being done by Dr. Lisa Littman, Dr. Kenneth Zucker, and J. Michael Bailey. The same people behind the “Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria” and other Transphobic pseudoscience. Do NOT give information to them via ayagdos, they have a long history of retractions and reported misconduct.
Report this ad wherever you see it. The fact that staff allows this kind of shit yet still turning a blind eye to everything else is just pure hatred.
Burden of Proof:
The project is called AYAGDOS—brought to you by the same names behind “Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria” pseudoscience.
If you see this, don't participate. It's a rigged study by Lisa Littman and unethical researcher J. Michael Bailey meant to undermine access
So I litterly just saw the ad for this study and I was immediately caught off guard that there was the trans colors with the lightning bolt ... You know Nazis love the ss lightning bolt so yea.... After some quick research and looking at the study and word usage I'm in agreement that this study is likely a neonazi act to further push eugenics onto trans people. With the state of the world we need to be discerning that not everyone or everything that claims to be for us is actually pro-trans.
If you are going to use AI to make something and then say it's real photography or your art I'm going to personally throw you under a bus.
Because I don't want to see an AI cat I want to see photos and art of REAL cats. Fuck AI. It's ruining the arts and I'm tired of seeing chopped liver for cats on the internet
Mind you I'm not just mad about people using technology to steal from other peoples art and it being absolute trash im also pissed about how we are in a water crisis and the fact that data centers disproportionately affect poor communities