What would you do if you're in this situation? 😔
So I’ve been best friends with this girl for a little over a decade. The other day, she said something in our group chat about how she wants to get to know my ex better, get close to him, and asked for my permission. Obviously, I was baffled because:
I'm the one who introduced them to each other. I even let them exchanged contacts and supported them to talk to each other because I trusted them.
I broke up with this guy only almost two months ago. Even though we only dated briefly, just a couple of weeks, we had been really close for months before that.
We broke up because we had differences in beliefs, and we were still very much in love with each other, so it was hard for both of us.
I put a lot of effort into moving on from him. I tried to talk to him less, declined his offers to call at night, and then thought maybe if I blocked his socials, I’d move on faster, so I did. I blocked all the social media accounts of his that I knew about.
Before I blocked his socials, I asked my two best friends if I should do it. This girl said something like, “Yeah, if he makes you uncomfortable, I think you should.”
Then a few days later, she said that she was going to meet up with my ex in July and she asked me if I was okay with that. I was like, “What? Why???” I asked her why she would even bother meeting him. I mean, he’s your closest friend’s ex, the same ex she has been trying hard to move on from after a breakup where they were still in love with each other.
Obviously, I didn’t say all of that because I thought she would already understand how weird it was. But she said, “It’s because I don’t have friends to hang out and travel with.”
I was stunned when I heard her answer. However, I tried to think positively, like maybe this isn’t weird. Maybe I was just being too sensitive or something and she was just going to meet him as a friend, and I’m not his girlfriend anymore, so I have no reason to stop him from meeting other girls. And so I said, "Sure, whatever" to her.
But I don’t know. For some reason, I still felt hurt by what my friend was going to do. She was going to meet up with my ex, the one who was originally planning to visit me but canceled because we broke up in the end.
Then the other day, she admitted that she had been talking pretty often to my ex on Discord since we broke up, and she was kind of developing a connection with him since they were planning to meet up in July. I read her explanation and I was so mad, I felt betrayed and it hurts as hell.
How could you even develop a connection with him?? How did that even happen????? And why are you still in contact with him in the first place? What were you two talking about behind my back???? Am I a joke to you???
And guess what? We’re not friends anymore. Fuck both of them.
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