UrSoGay4Me

19 ♡

[ursogay4me]

~~ About Me ~~

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19f 𖹭 bisexual 𖹭 switchy but sub leaning 𖹭 puppygirl 𖹭 obedient at heart 𖹭 i behave… most of the time 𖹭 praise driven 𖹭 oral fixation 𖹭 owned-ish

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kinks & interests:

praise 𖹭 gentle degradation 𖹭 somno 𖹭 cnc 𖹭 intox 𖹭 voice kink 𖹭 thigh riding 𖹭 orgasm control 𖹭 impact play 𖹭 choking 𖹭 hair pulling 𖹭 breeding 𖹭 dacryphilia 𖹭 marking

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hard limits:

ageplay 𖹭 scat, piss, vomit 𖹭 slurs / hate speech 𖹭 -18 DNI, you will be blocked

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[anothericarus]

okay i'm in the middle of getting cleaned up after a long play session but i just remembered a post i've been wanting to make (ty post nut clarity lmao) so here's a rushed and kinda sleepy version of it:

please for all my everyones out there, please remember to give yourself aftercare if you're someone engaging with kink online. especially if the content you're engaging in usually touches/exacerbates any real-world emotional stuff for you. whether it's cnc or degradation or anything, just because it's content you're consuming online doesn't mean you're immune to needing aftercare once the sexy part is over.

i feel like aftercare is something we often think of as being a thing that happens between partners after sex, and obviously yes that's a big chunk of it, just because you're playing solo doesn't negate the wacky stuff the chemicals in your brain can do, nor that there aren't things you can do for yourself to help ease out of it!

i know i personally tend get subdrop quite frequently, maybe 60-70% of the time, not counting basic "jorkin it to a generically sexy thought/image simply for maintenance/insomnia purposes", and that shit sucks (and also importantly this does not apply to just subs!! doms have feelings and deserve aftercare and gentleness i just personally happen to only get subdrop so that's why i'm using it for reference).

anyway, yeah. obviously. feeling bad or guilty or unclean or broken after sex sucks. it's stupid and i wish nobody had to deal with it, but brains are weird and bodies are weird and it's okay and it's normal and it will pass, and also:

there are things you can do to mitigate it (you hopefully definitely don't need me to tell you that) and you can still do a lot of those things alone (you maybe potentially might have needed me to remind you of that?)

so anyway yeah! here are some things off the top of my head that help me personally reduce bad feelings after sex but also you are a whole different person so you may have different things that help but i am just making this post to encourage you to incorporate Something and your something might be different than my something and that's okay and beautiful etc etc.

ANYWAY list time:

shower/bath/etc (for to get clean physically but also for to relax)

drink some water! i know you are dehydrated!! drink!!!!!

eat something also!! is good. whether that is a chocolate bar or a huge bowl of stew with thick slices buttered bread is your choice

stretch! gently! joint pain is terrible and i know because i Get It a lot and doing some light stretches Will help

put on something. whether that's a comfort show or an audio or some music or like. funny wolf videos compilation #32 or whatever.

perfumes/scented balms are nice if you like sensory stuff.

breathing exercises good to help bring you down if it's been an intense session

weighted blanket weighted blanket weighted blanket Yes

also just like. go hug a plushie. i know you have one.

arhkbgh end of list i am too tired to think of anything else.

POINT IS there is lots you can do to take care of yourself BY yourself and you deserve to feel good and this will help maybe hopefully i think. i've been historically bad with doing self aftercare and i'm getting Better at it and i think it's a good thing to have in your toolbelt for a generally more comfortable sex life

anyway yeahhhh i'm signing off. i've got a shower to take and a bag of chips to eat and a podcast to listen to and Sleep to get. good night stay safe ily mwah

[ursogay4me]

if theres no aftercare, im not doing it 🗣

[cieloxceleste]

Favorite group sex experience is when people turn to my dom, instead of me, to ask for permission to do things to me. Even if that person is gonna dominate both of us, he’s still my owner so he gets to make the decisions for me. He gets to choose how people play with his puppy :)

[ursogay4me]

ughh this sounds so hot, i need to do group stuff 😩

[11maymay11]

i love being told how to touch myself 👀👀👀👀

[ursogay4me]

being talked through it >>>>

[daddysbrattyslvt]

being praised and degraded at the same time makes me so wet

[gothgirllipstick]

Just want to hear you talk me through touching myself until I orgasm

[ursogay4me]

duuuude being talked through it>>>>

genuinely heaven

[spadessofdeaths]

Sucking your clit while fingerfvcking your pussy till i turn you into shaking whimpering mess >>> 🖤

[ursogay4me]

had this the other day

i ended up needing to tap out 🤭

[ursogay4me]

Fun game idea:

you edge me over and over and over again, and every time i say please you make me take another hit 🤭

[chasingsoftness]

taking your cock while I’m high only gets me higher. stretch me out slowly and watch me sit in the clouds while you put in another inch and tell me how good I’m taking it all 🍃💗

[thatprettypuppy]

pleaseee

[moss-touching-queer]

[lesbiankeroppi]

yes sex might be good and all but what about non sexual dominance, pick what clothes i should wear to work, force me to do my homework, choose what we're eating that day, take me away from my work if im too engrossed in it and not taking care of my basic needs, make me brush my teeth if i forget, and yes decide if i deserve to touch myself or not, if ive been good enough throughout the day to have your touch

[cutest-girl-in-the-morgue]

[bound-by-the-devil]

puppy subs with oral fixations, always licking at my fingers to get them in their mouth, making out with my bulge desperate to get my cock in their mouth. dumb mutt just wants to be of use to me.

[ursogay4me]

wanna be edged and overstimulated so bad

keep getting me close over and over and over, denying me every time i ask to please cum

purposely tip me over the edge, just to call me a naughty puppy and punish me

make me cum over and over and over until im crying and begging you to stop

then spank me for not listening and making a mess

make me thank you after each hit, cuz you were so nice and let me keep cumming, werent you?

[ursogay4me]

smoking and smoking until youre so high all you can do is grind into your hand? so high that all you can think of is cumming so you just keep rubbing and rubbing until you pass out? yes please 🤭

[bbearbutch]

Oh, to get a cute person high and hazey so that they're even more sensitive and puppy brained. They dont even bother hiding their face or desperate moans. You openly enjoy being fucked stupid. Such a pretty pet drooling into the mattress

[the-horny-nightjar]

I want my orgasms to be entirely in your control. I have to ask permission before I cum, and if I cum without permission I want the most brutal punishment. I want you to make me edge constantly so that I'm always wet for you. Deny my orgasm for days at a time, make me crazy and desperate with horniness. When you do make me cum I want you to make me regret ever asking. Strap a vibrator to my clit while I'm tied to a fuck machine. Turn the vibrator on high. Leave me for hours being fucked and forced to cum over and over again. By the time you untie me I'll be barely coherent, covered in sweat and tears, and my pussy will be so sensitive from overstimulation. Remind me why I shouldn't beg for orgasms if I can't handle them.