✨ Just another SW'er based in Europe ✨

[valentinoswhore]

From Thursday (4th of June, evening) till now (7th of June, morning), I have earned just about what I earn in 14 days at my vanilla job

I know I've made a similar post before, but it continues to baffle me just how good the money is in this profession

[valentinoswhore]

I try not to shame or laugh at my clients, but a guy just asked me what the difference is between oral and anal

lord, give me strength

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Had a booking today at 11am. I get up early, get dressed nicely, prepared well. Right before leaving my apartment, I check Snapchat where this client and I have been texting. I notice that his name isn’t on my friend list, but I’m new to Snapchat, so I figured I had done something wrong or whatever. Luckily I remembered his address from our texting last night, so I drive there. Ring his doorbell once. Twice. Three times. No response from him. I’m so annoyeddddd 😩 fucking bitch probably gets off on wasting sex workers’ time. I hope his ass itches and his arms are too short to reach!

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Another small update

My fiancée and I have talked about my potentially doing escorting again! I know per my last post that I said I wouldn't do FSSW again, but... things change 😅 We're still together, we're still getting married, that hasn't changed, so nothing to worry about in that regard!

I think I'll start doing it again. The money was (is) so good, and I'm no longer moving out of the country this summer. We have postponed our plans for a year or two, so there's more time to get some good good savings in.

Also! I have started school to become a retail assistant! And that profession is notoriously underpaid, so I will need the money 😅

Anyway! Happy to be back, even if the time away wasn't too long ❤️

[valentinoswhore]

A small update

Hello everybody! ❤️

I'll cut straight to the chase here; I recently got engaged, and although I know this is my body and my life, and I know I should do what I want, my partner isn't suuuper on board with the idea of me doing full-service SW. Naturally, I don't want to upset her, so I have (we have) decided to quit doing full-service SW 💔

I'm also moving out of the country very soon, to get married to my partner. Big things are happening over here 😅

I might start doing online SW. Photos, videos, that sorta thing. But we'll see!

Regardless, I'll always fondly remember doing SW, and the community I found with you all ❤️

I'm not deleting this blog. Whether I start doing online SW or not, I'll keep this blog up, so don't worry about that!

[valentinoswhore]

Brothel work post!

I believe I promised you all a post about how the brothel work was when I had tried it. Long overdue, but the post is here!

I worked for a lady with two locations.

The brothels themselves were fine; small houses with everything one could want or need. One of them even had a fully decked-out BDSM room, which was seriously cool. Both of them also had a bed for me to sleep in so I wouldn't have to spend the nights at a hotel or something; another nice touch that I honestly hadn't expected.

They both had (have) a website that listed the "menu" and what each thing cost, noting that each girl was allowed to charge more for a certain service if she so chose.

I had a phone lady with me during my shift the second brothel, for the first 6 hours. She was super kind and sweet, helping me with everything and answering my every question.

The work itself was... kind of so-so, though, honestly. I quickly realized that I don't really like waiting for clients to call / text me while I was "stuck" in one spot, and while I was "on duty". It's kinda hard to explain, but I muchhhh preferred escorting, being at my own home and texting with clients from there? Made it felt more anonymous / not as exposed, maybe, I'm not entirely sure.

I also didn't get a whole lot of clients, and I'm sure that's part of why this wasn't that fun for me. I didn't break even for the two days I spent at the brothels, so I actually lost money, which... sucked ass, lmao. But the clients I did get were very nice. Everything was with condoms (yes, even blowjobs), and none of my clients made a fuss about this. They always did when I did escorting, so that was a nice change.

Anyway. I don't work there anymore; both brothels were in the other end of the country for me (a 3-hours drive each way). Everybody were super nice, and I liked the work (I love sex, lol), but it just wasn't financially reasonable to continue, so I quit.

I hope this post was at least a little bit helpful ❤️ If it wasn't, and if you're still having questions about it, you're welcome to send me asks!

[valentinoswhore]

How do you go about working out how much to charge for full service? It's a little legally delicate to try and find info about things like this where I live

I usually compare my services to other girls in the industry, and then set my prices accordingly ❤️ As you (maybe) already know, if you (as an example) do hardcore BDSM with your clients, you can set your prices higher overall, or you can choose to charge extra for said BDSM-type bookings. It's up to you whether you do one or the other, of course!

I don't know if it would help to hear what I charge(d), but in case it would: my prices are (were) roughly the equivalent of 230$ for one hour. Two hours, 387$ (wonky numbers because my currency isn't US dollars). Any longer than that, and I would find a special price for the client.

Also, I knooowwww it's not good to compare yourselves to others, but this is how I do it, and it's worked out pretty well for me, so...

BUT I've been told by the managers of a brothel that this is way too low to charge for a citizen of my country; I was told that 230$ for an hour was, basically, "foreign girls' prices". At that brothel (I'll make a separate post about that experience in a minute), I was not allowed to charge less than... I believe it was 418$ for one hour, and it only went up from there if the client wanted extras (BDSM, specific outfits, etc).

I hope this has been helpful, dear anon ❤️ As a last note, especially considering your ask, I want to stress how important it is to stay safe and "under the radar", if this kind of thing is a little... dicey, legally, where you are 😅 ❤️ But you already know that, I'm sure!

[valentinoswhore]

I have my first two brothel shifts next Friday-Saturday!

I'm very nervous and very excited ❤️

[valentinoswhore]

Do you have any advice for someone who wants to get into the industry but doesn't know where to start?

Hello anon! Thank you for the question ❤️ I'm not sure I'm the best to answer this one, but I'll do my very best! It may get long, though - sorry about that in advance 😅

I want to preface this post with saying that I have primarily done fssw - full service sex work (aaaaand this post is now tumblr banned, lol). By this, I mean I have done stripping (not successfully), sugar dating (slightly more successful), and escorting (very successful). And starting next week, I'll be doing brothel work every other week, so once I've had my first weekend there, I can get back to you what that's like!

Alright. First off, sit down and think about what kind of sex work you want to do. Do you want to do camming / sell pictures where you're (probably) the most in control of everything? If yes, what parts of your body do you want to... expose, for lack of better word? Feet? Armpits? More intimate parts? All of the above? There are sites dedicated to pretty much every part of the human body, so if you feel comfortable with it, you could ask over on Reddit for links / resources. You could, of course, also google these things and see what pops up. I can't be of any help with camming / selling pictures, unfortunately, since it's not an area I'm comfortable with. I do have a profile / user on feetfinder, though, but I have yet to use it... Of course, most people know onlyfans at this point, but there are sooo many other sites you can work with - I'm sure the right threads and people on Reddit could help more extensively 😄

If you think you'd be more into full service sex work, though, I'm your ho 😎 I did a bit of stripping in Ireland, and while I didn't make bank, it was a lot of fun, and a more gentle way to get into sex work, in my opinion. I have also done a few months of sugar dating, and around 1-2 years combined of escorting. I personally got into escorting by simply googling 'escort [city close to me]' and just... browsing the search results until I found something that looked good and trustworthy. After that, I signed up for an escort website where I made a profile, advertising myself and my services while highlighting what I was not interested in doing with clients, and of course listing my prices. In my experience, though, don't bother too much with a foot-long profile text; most guys (and girls, probably) look at your photos, and these will convince them to book an appointment with you. This is not to say that you SHOULDN'T write a good, juicy profile text - because you should! If nothing else, it's good fun - but just don't expect everyone to read it.

I would strongly strongly STRONGLY suggest starting a group chat with some trusted friends / family members in your own country / state. In this group chat, you send at least the following information for EVERY booking you make / get:

Name of client

Address of client

Scheduled length of appointment (and let the chat know if this gets changed)

When you arrive at the client's place / hotel / what-have-you

When you leave again

Dress nicely (flattering clothes, pretty makeup, some nice shoes), but don't overdo it (unless your client has specified otherwise). Shower before every appointment, and wear a light perfume. Arrive in good time (like 5 minutes early seems to have worked fine for me). Be cordial, but firm; indirectly let the client know that if they start any shit, they lose the privilege of your time and company. ALWAYS ASK FOR THE MONEY FIRST. CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH. DO NOT GET SCAMMED BY LOSERS WHO WANT YOU BUT DON'T HAVE THE MONEY. Always carry and insist on using your own condoms to avoid tampered-with condoms / condoms with holes poked in them. Related, have a good few different kinds and sizes of condoms in your arsenal. Set an alarm / timer for how much time you have with the client. Have some water and maybe a light snack ready in your car for when you get back.

Hmmm, what else, what else... Have a nice wardrobe when it comes to underwear / lingerie? Lots of guys (and girls, too, probably) get really turned on by sexy lingerie.

ALSO VERY important, though; consider what your country's / state's stance on sex work is. In my country, for instance, it's fully legal as long as it's consensual. In Sweden, it's legal to sell sex, but illegal to buy sex (wtf @ Sweden). So, look into the laws that are relevant to you, and figure out either how to A) cheat the system AND NOT GET BUSTED or B) do it by the books and pay taxes of your income

I'm afraid I'm drawing a blank on more advice... I'm sorry 😅 If you want to chat one-on-one about this, you (and anyone reading this!) can add me on discord: valentinosproperty

I hope this has been just a little bit helpful! If not, feel free to send another ask if you want to know, like, very specific things 💗

(Sorry if there are typos or anything, it's very early morning for me 😅) Have a good one, anon!

[valentinoswhore]

Apparently there are brothels in Copenhagen that AREN'T illegal????

will investigate

[valentinoswhore]

Regular: Are you busy tonight? Me: Yes, busy with my girlfriend Regular: Okay, then I think I'll just go to bed, so I can get up tomorrow, since I have plans Me: Good night, sleep well Regular: Oh you're not even curious what my plans are (me, groaning loudly) Me: What are your plans for tomorrow? Regular: Oh now you got curious huh I have a guest tomorrow, you can guess who

LIKE…… bitch, fucking just tell me if you want me to know 😩

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Same regular got pissed at me when I didn't want to tell him what I've been up to this weekend... girlie, you're being very red flag-y right now

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Regular: Are you busy tonight? Me: Yes, busy with my girlfriend Regular: Okay, then I think I'll just go to bed, so I can get up tomorrow, since I have plans Me: Good night, sleep well Regular: Oh you're not even curious what my plans are (me, groaning loudly) Me: What are your plans for tomorrow? Regular: Oh now you got curious huh I have a guest tomorrow, you can guess who

LIKE…… bitch, fucking just tell me if you want me to know 😩

[valentinoswhore]

Not to semi-doxx myself

But something I cannot stop thinking about is how Sweden's model of sex work (where selling sex is legal, but buying sex is illegal (???? make it make sense!)) is labeled "the Nordic model", when Denmark, which is also a Nordic country!, does it way differently. It honestly pisses me off so much, probably irrationally so, that "we" are lumped in with "them"* :/

* I hate the "us vs. them" mentality, just to be clear, but it's currently 3:19am, and I cannot find a better way to phrase it

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I'm meeting with a client tomorrow, and while we talked on the phone, he was like "Money isn't an object, as long as we're having fun and aren't done with each other ;)"

So now of course I'm trying not to get my hopes too high up regarding how much I could earn... good luck @ me

[valentinoswhore]

In just four hours of whoring around, I have earned roughly what I earn in a week at my vanilla job. This is ABSURD

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Don't you just love it when you wake up at EIGHT AM on a goddamn SUNDAY, ready to drive 1.5 hours for an appointment (and of course 1.5 hours back), and then, when you text the client to remind him, he says "I don't have the money, bby" AND he tries to haggle?

Well, thank fuck he said so BEFORE I started driving 🙄

[valentinoswhore]

(4 days ago)

guy on SD website: what do you want for a hot sex meet-up

me: (says my prices)

guy on SD website: (says a price way lower than what I charge)

me: my prices are not for negotiation

guy on SD website: never

(today)

same guy on SD website: (suggests the same price as 4 days ago)

me: (says my prices again)

same guy on SD website: (says his price again)

me: my prices are not up for negotiation

Haven't heard from him since LOL

[valentinoswhore]

He just

oh my god

He, in all seriousness, just said "fine but I decide if I want to pay"

[valentinoswhore]

The trilogy concludes

I say: Uuuhhhh no? Of course you have to pay to see me

He says: And you think I'll pay extra just because I can't visit you

I say: ??? You're not paying extra because you can't visit me. That's just what my prices are

He says: you're only here for money not because you like sex

(intermission. ??????? like... yes? That's literally the point? Not having sex for free?)

(intermission ends)

I say: I won't deny that I like money. Most people actually do. But since you don't have any, and since you clearly don't respect me, I wouldn't enjoy having sex with you, so please don't contact me again :)

He says: ha-HA (no, literally, he spelled it like that) I won't fuck a whore like you who's playing hard to get

I say: Good, then please don't contact me again :)

He says: you're an idiot who needs to get deepthroated hard and taught how to swallow (literally. again, he said all that)

I say: Have you looked in a mirror lately? That would suit you :)

And now he has deleted our conversation and, presumably, blocked me. Good riddance