Find a partner who can be their absolute rawest self, in private or public. Find a partner who inspires you, pushes you, picks you up when you stumble. Find a partner who can sit you down and point blank tell you you’re being an asshole, yet somehow make it taste like honey not medicine. Find a partner who is resourceful, like get you out of a Turkish prison resourceful. Find a partner who is curious, witty, creative, and so hilarious they makes you pee your pants a little bit. Find a partner who can read you, knows when you need a little more love and kindness than usual and also knows when you need some distance. Find a partner who slips their hand into yours instinctually. Find a partner who turns you on with nothing more than a gaze. Find a partner you can trust without hesitation. Find a partner who can apologize without the word ‘but’. Find a partner who supports you. Find a partner whose playlists and yours could have a play date together. Find a partner who is adventurous. And, find a partner who allows you to be the unapologetically weird and wonderful you. Always.
And if you are fortunate enough to find a partner with even half these qualities, count yourself lucky. These partners are rare. Be grateful ‘cause you just won the partner lotto! Never forget that.
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