You have heard this title before " art of speaking, art of thinking, art of living life, etc etc...." , in fact i am sure that this all arts have probably made you artist( :p) but today i am about to show you a different art its called Art of Listening .
Dont get it too lightly , Listening is hardest !!
In one poem , written by anonymous it is stated that how people are misunderstanding when he says to listen . Dont get much bother , just follow the above points to not get lost dignity!
1. Dont advice!- see when someone asks you to listen and you start giving advice, it really hurts and you fail . Just listen quietly
2. Your opinion is trash(dont get 'ffended)- when someone is in big trouble or very critical problem , it wants you to listen and dont start telling him what you think because at that time it is really trash, instead of motivating that person it will make him demoralize . Trust me!
3. Dont boost him/her fear - Atleast when you cant say words of hope to anyone, just dont say rubbish Its my only advice
4. Dont try to help or solve problems- if you will help or solve problems after listening , chances are you are making that person weak , and not lacking him from taking courage . So kindly dont.
5. Just listen- Just listen means dont sit like rock in front of that person, show some simpathy , show some emotions, and listen . See, god is mute , universe is mute and nature is mute . These all things just listens to speaker. kindly listen to someone when person is in trouble.
Someone can feel better , only if you listen properly
baratheonpilled
dailybridgerton
jacobvanloon
