Yes, I’m Weird

Black, Woman, Wife, Animal-Lover

[shymagnolia]

so I got into grad school today with my shitty 2.8 gpa and the moral of the story is reblog those good luck posts for the love of god

[shymagnolia]

okay so i just got my dream job??? a week after applying to it?? and now i’m thinking….maybe this is the good luck post

[flagellant]

…..not even six hours later i got an offer of a well paying full time long-term job with free room and board in queens in nyc, allowing me independence and a way to escape an abusive situation and an unhealthy environment

likes charge reblogs cast, folks, this is the good luck post

[classycookiexo]

[capricorn-born]

Oddly specific. Got a deposit for 6,837 today

[weaselle]

fuck it, i never ever do those “reblog for X, this one really works!” posts, but this one doesn’t have any of that BS, this is just straight up wishing us good things; and then the comment doesn’t even say any of that either. Zero claims on this post, all positive vibes

May you end this week feeling ever more certain of a future you’ll love

[vmohlere]

May you end this week feeling ever more certain of a future you’ll love

[jupitersmusings]

good things will happen 🧿

things that are meant to be will fall into place 🧿

[overlord-fire-bubble]

THIS ONE FUCKING WORKS. REBLOG IT.

[tiny-kt]

this for real fucking works

[thechanelmuse]

“Grief is a cruel kind of education. You learn how ungentle mourning can be, how full of anger. You learn how glib condolences can feel. You learn how much grief is about language, the failure of language and the grasping for language. Why are my sides so sore and achy? It's from crying, I'm told. I did not know that we cry with our muscles.”

“Grief is forcing new skins on me, scraping scales from my eyes. I regret my past certainties: Surely you should mourn, talk through it, face it, go through it. The smug certainties of a person yet unacquainted with grief. I have mourned in the past, but only now have I touched grief’s core. Only now do I learn, while feeling for its porous edges, that there is no way through.”

“How facile to preach about the permanence of death, when it is, in fact, the very permanence of death that is the source of anguish. I wince now at the words I said in the past to grieving friends. ‘Find peace in your memories,’ I used to say. To have love snatched from you, especially unexpectedly, and then to be told to turn to memories. Rather than succour, my memories bring eloquent stabs of pain that say, ‘This is what you will never again have.’ Sometimes they bring laughter, but laughter like glowing coals that soon burst aflame in pain. I hope that it is a question of time – that it is just too soon, too terribly soon, to expect memories to serve only as salve.”

These are excerpts from a collection of essays in Notes on Grief presented in such a gentle and thoughtful way where Chimamanda explores her stages of grief with the passing of her father while simultaneously eulogizing him. An intimate meditation. I feel like I know her. I feel like I knew him.

[veryauthenticcc]

White porn does not turn me on. Ebony porn on the other hand 👀💦😏

[veryauthenticcc]

So many white porn blogs unfollowed me after this post

[the1movement]

Reblogging so they stop following me too

[veryauthenticcc]

17 unfollowed me in one day . I think they were offended . That’s not my problem .

[jadorexjaii]

Please unfollow me. 😭

[gullysidecreeper]

Ha! It works! They unfollowed me too! Keep reblogging!!!

[quitethefreak]

Deuces.

[loulouna-world]

Hoping they stop following me too

[bigcydni]

Like Raw Chicken

[kevdadddy-deactivated20171021]

[sweedishcoochiemeatballs]

LMAO

[thelovergirljasmine]

😭

[oldtheawkwardgent]

is it too late to be part of the “unfollow me white porn blogs” movement

[minusthelove]

^^nah keep it going. These mfs still here.

[goodluckrob-deactivated20221110]

Reblogging to purge the white porn blogs that follow me.

[lady-bre-nasty-deactivated20190]

Real Talk

[mungumungumungu]

💯

[cheesywthemgrits]

If its white, it aint right

[maryloufreebush]

I hate y’all 😂

[thecurseofjane]

Oh so I’m lot alone! Just not sexually attracted to white people.

[donkeydickjess]

Remember when I got flamed on Twitter for saying white dick looks like raw chicken sausage?

[gtiniker-deactivated20181014]

society: black women are ugly.

non-black women: 💅

society: black women are hoes and sluts.

non-black women: 💅

society: black women are goldiggers.

non-black women: 💅

society: black women need to stop having all these out of wedlock kids.

non-black women: 💅

society: black women are low class.

non-black women: 💅

society: black women are welfare queens.

non-black women: 💅

society: black women are loud and obnoxious.

non-black women: 💅

society: black women are uneducated and ignorant.

non-black women: 💅

society: nobody likes black women.

non-black women: 💅

Black woman: we have it so bad, society just loves to single us out and put us down. We need to uplift ourselves and each other as black women.

non-black women: why are you just making it about black women? You should try to uplift ALL women.

[sociallyawkward18]

FACTSSSSSSSS

[dynastylnoire]

I’m not even that famous yet and my friends are starting to act really suspect. Highkey dislike. Every time a new video rolls out and I’m in it they start acting like they feel a way that they didn’t get cast for it and it’s like??? There were no auditions for this. I had nothing to do with being chosen. I didn’t even know what I was going down to the studio for. 

[clockwork-teacup]

I have no idea what you’re up to, I just enjoy your combination of dumb memes, pro black, and general activism posts. If you’re out there doing well in your job/industry, then I’m happy to say congratulations. Keep it up and don’t let people hold you down. If they want to knock you down a peg, then they only care about themselves and not you, nobody needs that in their lives.

[dynastylnoire]

Thank you so much <333 I appreciate you. I’m in a series of videos by The Cut called Keep It 100. 

I’m in three of the other videos for the series as well. There will be more coming out which is exciting <3 

This is the most recent one:

[enigmatic-scorpion]

I really needed to watch this.

[dynastylnoire]

when sis said it bothers her when she cares and nobody else cares? caved my chest in. I felt that on a spiritual level. It’s so frustrating and heartbreaking. 

[xakara]

Congratulations!

[dynastylnoire]

Thank youuuu

[veggiesoul]

I immensely enjoyed this. Thanks for sharing!

[therealglowup]

💵💴💸💷💳💰 MONEY MANIFESTATION!

Share & claim your adundance

[weonsinnombre]

[brosefvondudehomie-deactivated2]

They really like chicken I guess

[dynastylnoire]

Sis at the end 😭😭😭😭

[shymagnolia]

so I got into grad school today with my shitty 2.8 gpa and the moral of the story is reblog those good luck posts for the love of god

[shymagnolia]

okay so i just got my dream job??? a week after applying to it?? and now i’m thinking….maybe this is the good luck post

[flagellant]

…..not even six hours later i got an offer of a well paying full time long-term job with free room and board in queens in nyc, allowing me independence and a way to escape an abusive situation and an unhealthy environment

likes charge reblogs cast, folks, this is the good luck post

[i-hate-chick-fil-a]

I mad agree with this.

[madameblack]

This reminds me, if y'all haven’t heard of therapyforblackgirls.com please visit if you need a therapist. You can search by mental health need, location/distance, insurance, etc. I believe there are some that provide a sliding scale payment method for those without insurance.

If you’re not quite ready to make the jump, there is a podcast you can listen to as well as articles and links to help answer some of your questions about mental health and/or therapy.

The purpose, as I understand it, is to provide a place where black women can go to find culturally sensitive therapy. Some specialize in family/couples as well.

Take a look.

[imfemalewarrior]

For any black Women following me! 

Taking care of your mental health is another important factor in your overall health. Fighting for good mental health is a fight worth doing, and is just as difficult, if not moreso, than physical fighting. 

-FemaleWarrior, She/They 

[n0kiv]

Especially with everything going on right now. We constantly hear how strong we are and it’s like no we can be tired, emotional, stressed too and we need to take care of our mental health. Here are some free therapy sessions that I’ve seen going around. Please share

[guavajelly]

Also Black minds matter UK!

https://www.blackmindsmatteruk.com/

[loveablewomb1927]

I love this

[niggazinmoscow]

Tell Congress to Support the MORE Act!

Please join me in supporting Cannabis Justice!

they capitalized the B in Black but not the w in white. I stan

Ben and jerry have BEEN saying this !!!!!! 

[veggiesoul]

[symphonicseauxl]

Are You That Somebody?

IG: tyronewilkinsjr YT: tyronewilkinsjr

[professionalfacesitter]

When he hit the note for “if I let you knooow” my heart jumped

[thatchickchris]

Whewwwwww

[jonzykid]

Beautiful.

[everythingfox]

“Our cat has always hated dogs, but for some reason will put up with our new puppy. Talk about patience.”

(Source)

[jehovahhthickness]