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ᡕᠵデᡁ᠊╾━ 🆂🆆🅰🅶 ☠︎ 🎍 沈九 stan EVERY HC I POST IS MY PROJECTION.

[veineluvsu]

[veineluvsu]

younger shen jiu riding older yue qingyuan to show him that he can do things by himself but he starts crying because yue qingyuan is too big

[artistformerlyknownasbutttrumpet]

i was training a young person at work, and she referred to sexual assault as "SA" out loud, and i immediately was like, "no, it's sexual assault, call it what it is," bc idgaf if the algorithm overlords have taught y'all that you should fear direct language, how tf do any of you expect to ever address real issues with any amount of seriousness if you can't even say the words? imagine an advocate looking a sexual assault survivor in the eyes and asking "did he grape you?" it's absolutely fucking absurd, but these young interns and new hires are coming into an environment where we deal with survivors of all different kinds of abuse, and they're coming with the mindset that the words are as bad as the actions, and that makes them shitty at the job and look juvenile af

i HATE self-censorship for a lot of reasons, but being in crisis work makes it even more frustrating. who are you censoring for? like i am being so fr, WHO are you censoring for? have you even thought it through? people who have been raped know that they have been raped. if someone attempts suicide or is grieving someone who did, saying "sewer slide" isn't going to protect them from any of the feelings. a murder victim's family isn't going to feel better bc you said "unalived" instead of murdered. if anything, it's just extremely invalidating and othering. it's saying "what happened to you is so bad that i won't even say the word," which is NOT trauma-informed care. you are not protecting survivors/victims when you self-censor. the ONLY things you protect when you self-censor are the puritanical ideologies that are being encouraged by rich fascists who want your money and obedience

say the fucking words, guys. just say the goddamn words before i go insane!!!

[wakingfromthewater]

This was shared as a "bad" joke but I was so charmed by it I've been thinking about it for days.

[artistic-octopus]

[wordswithkittywitch]

Moose at the next table: No they don't. I've been waiting here for an hour.

[totally-not-an-al1en]

[wirvaa]

reconciliation

[allpiesforourown]

Would I be too out of line if I said I don't care for the fact that there's a million headcanons about shen jiu being SA'd by Qiu Jianluo even though theres zero evidence of it but no one cares about Su Xiyan being canonically molested by the old Palace Master?

[alphawithafedora]

[adanmeiconfessionblog]

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“Why is it that alternate universes and canon divergences are allowed and encouraged in fandom. But the moment anyone makes one where Shen Jiu is not traumatised and thus does not display his trauma responses, or he was not set up by the protagonist halo to hate on Luo Binghe specifically, it is suddenly treated like a crime against nature and woobifying villains.

No one complaints about no-harem alternate universes existing in stories featuring Original Luo Binghe, which erase how he in canon is a serial rapist.

Neither does anyone complain about stories where Liu Qingge does not get depicted as a huge bully nor ever beats up his own disciples as supposed "training". Despite them also erasing the severe harm he does.

Hell, I have even seen stories exploring if Qiu Jianluo had not been a straight up sadist who abused Shen Jiu, and no one complained about it and said that he was being woobyfied, despite the fact that him being a sadist abuser is his entire personality.

But every time people want to prove that Shen Jiu's fans are denying his abuse and are apparently woobifying him, they use alternate universe fanfiction as proof.”

[veineluvsu]

when you're wasian but almost nobody believes you because you're not fair-skinned #fairs

[littlenines]

do you ever think about on the list of things that shen yuan does that would piss shen jiu off royally, marrying and fucking luo binghe would probably come lower down the list than saying "it doesn't matter" when yqy starts to confess to him. and don't get me started on calling nyy a loli. if he heard even one of the things sy thinks about nyy i think he'd find a way to come back swinging

[yhwhsdaughter]

Saw this on TikTok, I'll leave it to you ... 🥹🩷

I had to go follow the account because they’ve got good sqq and svsss content 🤭 hehe

[veineluvsu]

hey it's me!

[adanmeiconfessionblog]

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“I can't get myself to like SY (svsss).

The story of svsss itself is funny and I like everyone else within the story, but I don't like SY. His transphobic comment, his excusing of OG LBHs raping of women, and how he tricked LQG into physically beating up minors as punishment for bullying LBH really put me off.

He hits much too close to home for me to like him.”

[veineluvsu]

shen jiu is a big walking M himself because why did he laugh when lbh TORE OFF his arm???😭😭😭

[veineluvsu]

shen jiu moments/quotes that i think of daily:

"You absolutely have to remember the things you said! You must come back to save me!"

He said: "Sorry, sorry...you only ever known how to say sorry." There was an angry smile on Shen Jiu's face, his words decisively final: "It's totally useless."

Even more laughable was the fact that, of all the many characters and numbers in the world, the peak lord had, by some strange stroke of luck, decided to name a part of him as "Qiu".

"Why don't you keep talking? I'm waiting for you. I've already waited so many years, a little while longer won't hurt."

There was never a moment where Shen Jiu felt and truly was safe.

"What's wrong?" It was a long while before Yue Qingyuan answered: "It's nothing." Shen Qingqiu silenced himself. He couldn't see what expression Yue Qingyuan may have been showing behind him, but the hand sending him spiritual energy was faintly trembling.

Shen Qingqiu roared with laughter, "I'm only really happy when others are unhappy. What do you think?"

If it's possible for you to escape this disaster, then go as far away as you possibly can, Yue-zhangmen. From today onwards, you shouldn't have any more connection with a thing like Shen Qingqiu.

A broken sword, and a dead man.

It was far too late. Shen Jiu was no longer.

[veineluvsu]

i missed it when people put in lengthy comments now it's just three red hearts😔😔 they weren't lying when they said AO3 has the literature but wattpad had the fandom

[rememberthismeme]

[ubercharge]

[veineluvsu]

au where yqy and lqg got married and are living their happy life; the only problem being that yqy cannot get hard even if lqg strips/wears suggestive clothing...until yqy reunites with sj, his first love, and instantly pops out a boner. the two communicate, then they fuck in a sleazy hotel nearby yqy's house after every meeting with each other... what yqy doesnt know, is that sj is lqg's first love too (they met while they were at a business meeting) and the two also regularly fuck

sj is absolutely thrilled when he exposes the two of them