//tw, grooming, deadnaming, misgendering, manipulation.
i have something to discuss. i am aware that i don’t go on here, but at this current point in time i feel like i should say something about a certain user on this platform. in the brief period i knew them, they have dead named, misgendered, insulted my art ability, despite me being a beginner for the most part, and convinced an entire group to kick me out because he couldn’t groom me like he did the rest of the people he knows.
he goes by nijiomii, and i’m not the only one who has been wronged by him. to this day, i have not received a proper apology for the trauma and pain he’s caused me. i have to take medication to prevent my panic attacks about the trauma he has caused me.
i only have my word for most of this, which is extremely frustrating. if i had solid proof, i would definitely show it here. but i do not. i only have my word, and i can tell you for certain that i am nothing but honest in my words. this post has taken me too long to make, due to me being scared. i did see his post regarding certain accusations, and i was mentioned in it, although not by name.
in my honest opinion? it was just a pile of manipulative, victim- blaming crap. he only wanted the backlash to stop because it made him look bad, nothing more. he deserves nothing he has now, i wish other people could see that, but that is only a wish, a wish that is most likely never going to come true.
thank you for listening.
- damienne.




















