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i saw some comments on tiktok where people were talking bout how they found tumblr too hard to use and part of it being that there was no lack of dates soĀ āwhat if you reblog or like something from five years ago?!āĀ
buddy⦠we have posts circulating still from 2011, its literally just how it is
(weāve been engaged for a month now and i just remembered to mention it here)
anyway thatās my life update currently! also i have engagement pictures that i want to share bc i feel like a creature of the fey in them so uh yeah iāll post them maybe?
This reminds me of how whole sects of complex Inuktitut dialects were wiped out by Euro settlers. There were hundreds of different and diverse dialects in Canadian Inuktitut languages alone, and a chunk of that was wiped out during early 20th century. That language is already on the brink of collapse (only 35,000 or so now loosely speak it).
They also took away not just their language, but their surnames, and replaced them with ID-numbers. As if taking their children and capturing them into residential schools (where they were systematically gaslighted, sexually abused and experimented on the regular) wasnāt enough, an Inuit childās name was legit changed to something like āAnnie E7-121.ā
āEskimoā is considered a slur here in most of Canada, because of the treatment of Inuit people and creation of the E-number, which was used to segregate and degrade and dehumanize Inuit people into the 70s.
Remember why you shouldnāt use slurs and who they offend. Iām looking at you Edmonton.
i hope this doesnāt sound really weird but i feel really bad for the lady who came up with gender reveal parties. she had a very legitimate reason for throwing herself oneāsheād had a few miscarriages, all of them miscarrying before she was able to find out the sex of her baby and due to really wanting to have children she was distraught, so when her pregnancy made it to the milestone of being able to find out her babyās sex, she was understandably incredibly excited and threw a party to celebrate it. honestly she had every right to do so and was more celebrating the fact that sheād carried her baby to that point rather than celebrating if it was a girl or a boy
and now sheās the inventor of this horrible thing that makes stupid people cause wildfires. all this lady wanted to do was have some cake and celebrate her pregnancy after a few miscarriages. i feel fucking terrible for her.Ā
sheās slamming elaborate gender reveal parties with over the top shit like pyrotechnics on facebook which is good bc she obviously doesnāt support the crazy shit these parties have become but i kinda hate that she has to because this very calm party she threw for herself years ago to celebrate passing the points sheād miscarried before has obviously become tainted and a bad memory for her and now sheās labelled as the lady whoĀ āstartedā these parties even though hers was literally like. a cake that you cut into and the color tells you what the baby is.Ā
I saw an article saying that she has learned more about gender and her kid came out as nonbinary and she feels bad about how the whole thing hurts the trans communities and her official stance isĀ āThere are plenty of other reasons to eat cakeā and that we should pick a different one
Tbh she seems like a really nice person who is just sort of in the crosshairs of a really big thing she didnāt expect
When someone frames your mental health issues as attention seeking behavior, problem behavior, or any other negatively-coded context, it creates an environment that makes you feel guilty, wrong, and selfish for struggling with things outside of your control. As a result, serious issues are allowed to arise in the absence of support.
Be sure to disturb the entire class, stopping the teaching, wasting all that time instead of grabbing the charger sitting right behind you taking you 2.5secs. get that boot out of your throat and try to breathe, hunny
Speaking as someone currently in the process of becoming a teacher, literally the first thing we are being taught is that however hard we think trying to teach classes is right now, it is infinitely harder for the literal children going through a global pandemic. I donāt trust any teacher who canāt empathize and be patient with their students right now. Short of them like picking fights with other kids you gotta be as gentle as possible. Times are hard for kids right now
When you see a really good post but thereās some form of guilt tripping to reblog it added on at the end
(ID: A screenshot of Marge from the Simpsons looking dismally at the camera with one arm raised. A caption underneath her readsĀ āItās true, but Iām not reblogging it.ā End ID)
but yeah! hope you guys are doing well and staying safe and healthy. i want to do more fandom stuff again soon so hopefully that will happen, and now i have a little down time so iām going to make a bagel and then get back to doing teacher stuff.
okay real talk though did i... miss something? because i know iāve not been on tumblr in a while, but iām just curious if something serious went down and i just missed it
Like, seriously. Clearly a troll, and someone who is trying to start shit (especially on unfounded shit that I didnāt even do because I get on tumblr probably once a month at most nowadays???) and Iām not here for it. But still going to put you on blast for accusing me of shit I didnāt do because Iām a petty bitch and teaching virtual school is really hard and frustrating and Iām going to take it out on a greyface anonymous wuss who doesnāt have the gall to confront me directly with their actual identity.
My day job is a teacher. I love teaching, and I love what I do. But Iām not obligated to do that as part of my online life, nor do I want to. And I definitely donāt have the time or energy to ādebateā with people hiding behind a mask of anonymity. You have the internet. You have all the resources at your fingertips to educate yourself. And if you really donāt see whatās wrong, and how you invalidate and normalize the traumas of so many people by sayingĀ ālet people ship what they wantā... I donāt know what you want me to do to help you, buddy.
I donāt owe anyone any explanations, particularly about my personal experiences in life. I especially donāt owe them to a rando using anonymity as a cover. It really doesnāt matter to me if youāve lost respect for me, or if you think I have an inflated view of myself. Youāre also under no obligation to be here, which really makes me wonder why youāre choosing to spend your time like this. If you actually have a genuine issue with me then do come to me directly without being anonymous -- like I said Iām busy, and Iām not going to expend energy on someone hiding behind the internet.