i chime in with a "For Fucks Sake I'm Human Too"

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[ventphobic]

My teacher who im out to said earlier that "the highest test score was from a girl!" And my classmate Aidan looked at me and said it would be mine, so i was like what no she said girl, and of course it was mine, so my 'friend' Kaylee was like "wait Grace got the highest score? How did she get the highest???" And i was so frustrated i told my other friend about it and she just told me to "not be selfish, its hard for us too" so basically im a suicidal mess rn

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Due to trauma,I have some issues seeing my body as feminine without feeling like an object instead of a human,dressing like a guy feels like Im a person. I feel bad that Im bindering without being trans, like Im not allowed. I wanted to apologize...

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[ventphobic]

School was terrible. This group was talking about me being a "transs*xual" and I hate that word! They also misgendered me by calling me "she" so that hurt too. The only reason they stopped was because they noticed I took my headphones out. -Sealand (I have to use a kin name so I know which anon is mine)

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please reblog this!! this is a vent blog for everyone LGBTQIA + 'kin! everything is tagged appropriately.

[ventphobic]

ughhh I go to a single sex school and I asked if I could be known by my chosen name and pronouns and they told me 'You either stay a girl, or you change schools' I'm going to cry

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[ventphobic]

gosh i'm so freaking scared to tell anyone my name. i'm not scared to come out as nonbinary, but to ask them to call me another name? no no no no no, i'm so freaking scared, i just wish it was normal to change names, or have two names, or whatever, aaaaaaaa

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[ventphobic]

I keep on hearing cis peopls talk about how trans people r invalid and their preffered pronouns are nothing but a cry for attention and i want to speak out so bad but im scared of outing myself and its so emotionally taxing i feel so pathetic

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[ventphobic]

Hey, you're name is Norway? Cool. My name's Finn(land). (No pun intended :) Good Vibes: There's all gender bathrooms in my school! I went through the whole campus and there's only one set of women's and two sets of specifically men, so that's encouraging. My family said ableist and things that hurt me when they saw them because I'm closeted, but I don't care and I'm excited that the bathrooms are there! :)

my name isn’t actually Norway I just call myself nor bc of kintypes ahhh!!! but hi my names Sigurd, also that’s really cool!!

[ventphobic]

i had one transphobic person at school so far, but i'm nervous bc i go back on the 29th and they're will be freshmen and new staff. i'm worried i'll have more transphobic ppl around me ;;

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[ventphobic]

Apparently according to a few people my ex that broke up with me a few days ago and has been secretly making fun of me for binding my chest for a while now and it just frustrates the fuck out of me because he acted like he was so fucking supportive and then it turns out he was making fun of me the whole fucking time??? Like out of all the shit he could have said or done that just stings more than anything.

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[ventphobic]

Hi.

Hello. Remember that your amazing, friend. You have valuable and fun ideas. You matter. I care about you. Thanks for this blog.

(Is it okay to send good vibes here?) Because I have a lot of positivity that I want to share. :) 

yes!! its very okay to send in positivity!! 

[ventphobic]

Hi.

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A few months ago I was in class, sit near a boy in my other class who thinks I'm annoying for speaking up against things he says when he's talking to people near. I immediately noticed misgndering, and recently it has been bad week so I said "That person is not a girl and they they/them pronouns." He: "But it's a girl!" Me: "No, THEY are not a girl. And pronouns don't equal gender and you can't assume from appearance." (From Exxon, Part I)

(From Exxon) My (amazing) teacher interrupt with how you can't tell what people are "being stealth" (yes she literally said that Oo) about / struggling with, so be kind and "stay neutral". (Like OH she is amazing and most likely knows). There was rumours passed around, and later that week my (also fabulous) guy friend told me that the boy's "accomplice" in trouble making made a statement/asked if I was "a transgender". I said "No, I am not a transgender." (Part II, I'm sorry it's really long)(From Exxon) "No living thing can be A transgender, because gender labels like trans and Cis are adjective. So no, I am not and nobody else is so teasing would literally be wrong." I haven't heard anything else from any of those kids, although there's probably still things going. School is restarting from weather holiday next week and I saw the original boy at registry, so I'm a little worried but hope he forgot/realized how immature and mean he was. (Part III, I'm almost done.) (Exxon, Last Part) This term I'm coming out with my name and pronouns to teachers, hopefully it goes well! Wish me luck / any advice or help is appreciated if you want. Anyway, this blog Is great the place I came here from (transgenderteensurvivalguide) is great You're Great Mod Fellow NB peers are great Mlm is Great Wlw is great Xlx is great. And I'm sending you smiles if right now you aren't great. Because I care about you. :) So thank you for existing, fellow friend reading this. You matter.

[lovele55-deactivated20190421]

Have decided im gonna set up a gofundme.. Abuser just screamed at me and threw his keys at me in the park because he is saying im not allowed to have proper Internet at the house, like we use prepaid and he pays nothing for it and this week he used more than $50 worth of my internet credit and I had to beg money to recharge it so I could fucking study

Im sick of feeling like a humiliated child I am going to commit suicide if I have to keep living like this I just cry everyday and think about killing myself all day.

I need $200 to set up the Internet account($100 fee to not be on a 24 month contract) and buy the modem then I can get more than ten times the amount of data for less than half of what im paying now, $200 is all I need to set it up but that’s nearly half my fortnightly income and he controls my money and I can’t buy it and I need help please someone please help me

I was just crying on the ground in the street please someone help me please

Being cut off from Internet means I can’t access self care resources and my friends etc

This is the worst my mental health has been my whole life please someone

[lovele55-deactivated20190421]

Everyone just ignored this yesterday but I would appreciate it if you didn’t ignore it? Either help me or say you feel bad if you consider yourself my friend, just a thought??

[faerielunah]

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[ventphobic]

so a news channel in my country has a story on soon about trans people and I've only seen ads for it so far but it makes me so angry! Its premise is like "GIRLS are taking DRUGS so that they can turn into BOYS and their PARENTS are LETTING THEM!!' and its so demonising and gross because it completely dismisses the fact that hrt is completely safe and its just like any other medication. im a closeted trans guy and it me feel really upset and gross that the media is representing us like this

ok so originally i didnt want to respond to very many asks but that?? is absolutely disgusting 

- nor

[ventphobic]

two of my friends were talking about me in the comments and they both misgendered me and they realized that and apologized but then they continue talking about how hard it is to know what gender i and like they both know that I'm a trans guy so??

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