Stelliums in the Houses āØāØ
In my opinion, stelliums arenāt necessarily what you are good at. They can illuminate where you struggle and where you must grow, where conflicting energies lie and how to deal with them. This is somewhat of an alternative view on stelliums as a whole but I hope you enjoy šš
STELLIUM IN THE FIRST HOUSE: Ineffable, the sunās rival, if only you knew of the pull of the luminaries and of the planets beneath the surface. With everything that has made the first house into the first home your personality is like the tides of the ocean, rising and falling, succumbing to your own influences. Even though this is a fire house people with a stellium in the first house remind me of water. A persona that ebbs and flows as often as the ocean, with a myriad of spaces that are like thick fog on gentle faces. In time you will find yourself, define yourself, let the fog clear away. Take time to truly listen to others. To truly feel with others. Reflect on who people truly are. You are not lost you are only in possession of many different faces, and life is telling you to learn how to thrive with them.
STELLIUM IN THE SECOND HOUSE: It was never enough, was it? You were never enough, were you? Material possessions could not fill holes in self worth, could not heal things that you have naturally possessed since your birth. You are worth more than you would ever believe. You are steady enough to stand on your own feet. You are enough by yourself. Do not try to fill spaces that exist around you with things that you believe will assist your worth. They wonāt. That wonāt. It wonāt. What have you made of personal expansion when you grow larger with monetary things? The only thing that will complete holes in tender places (your self value, your self image) is believing. You have to trust in yourself. You have to know that your can stand steadily on your own. You have to know your self worth. (Something that youāve had since birth). You will grow all on your own.
STELLIUM IN THE THIRD HOUSE: Your tongue is not forbidden it is only hidden. Your thoughts are your thoughts and they are not unworthy, you have to learn to trust your own brain. You have grown your thoughts, nurtured your thoughts, but you never let them leave. Words flow from your mouth like sweet water, they roll delicately and smoothly off your tongue, but you will not fill them with the expression from your mind. Ask yourself why. Ask yourself what is holding you back. What have you made of your own mind? Where do your thoughts go when they die? Your thoughts spread like water to dye but we do not see the fruit that they bear, the deep multitudes of water within them, we hear the words but we do not hear you. It is okay to say how you really feel and not just how you think you should feel. It is okay if your voice tremors. With time your mind will become a river.
STELLIUM IN THE FOURTH HOUSE: What have you made of a home? Is home a place or is home a place in time? Where do you like to sleep at night? Your family may be a large part of your life but it may not be for reasons that you associate with a home, companionship, yes, family ties, yes, but are you ever truly comfortable? Is your home really a home or is just a house? Many associate a home with warmth, many associate home with scorn. Which one are you? And I mean what you really feel, not just what youāve been told to feel. For you ties to your family and ties to one place may be a struggle, maybe you have too many homes, too little homes, or no home at all. You may feel as if you are never completely secure in any place, that no matter where you live you will never be comfortable, that bitter moments from your childhood still haunt you today. Luminaries/planets scattered across the fourth house have made you everyone and everythingās child, you do not lay claim to one place. Your life will be one of learning that not everyone is out to get you, that there will always be a safe space. Fly home, make home, or if your home is not a home, donāt go back at all.
STELLIUM IN THE FIFTH HOUSE: You may feel as if you are lacking one definite passion in life, a drive. The epitome of the Jack of all trades but the master of none, but you must remember, like the full quote says, that that is often better than the master of one. You do not have to limit the ways that you inspire others. The way that you inspire yourself. The way that you inspire the world. You are an amalgation of everything that makes you great, and you have to learn how to embrace that, how to glow from that, how to captivate the whole world from that. The sun has given you a gift and you must not waste this one. Accept that you are like a radiant jewel beneath direct sunlight, you by yourself are a limited edition attraction.
STELLIUM IN THE SIXTH HOUSE: We are often held down by things that attempt to mortalize us. A cough, a sore throat, aching bones. I know that you may feel sick and that the doctors probably do not seem to understand what is wrong, that you feel youāve been ill far too long, [trust me I am by no means healthy but I have tried]. But if you are reading this: Your heart is still beating. Your brain is still functioning. And I promise that youāll be fine, ok? I hope that you and I will become well in time. Donāt forget to take care of your mind. You do not have to help others to the point of your own collapse, others will understand if you have to go home before itās time to go. You may struggle to stay organized but being organized is more of a state of mind then the state of a home, maybe try organizing and making sense of your mind? If no one else seems thankful for all of the service youāve done I would like to personally thank you, if no one has complimented your ethic lately I would like to call it beautiful. I grateful for all that youāve done, you just have to recognize it too.
STELLIUM IN THE SEVENTH HOUSE: Please be careful to not lose yourself in relationships. Platonic or romantic, serious or a fling, who you are is very tender, malleable, and impressionable. The traits of Luminaries/planets that lie here you may not see in yourself but you seek out in others. You clamor to others to fill the spaces that you believe that you lack, things that roll off of your back. What if I told you that they were there all along? What if I told you that you are able to exist on your own? Others cannot define you. Others cannot make you. You have to learn that you already have everything within you to define and to make yourself. [i have a stellium in the 7th house and I know how it feels to not know who you are but you have to remain strong]. Instead of being mutable water in relationships become the steady earth, become one of your own. From the roots up you will thrive.
STELLIUM IN THE EIGHTH HOUSE: It is okay to be tender. To be vulnerable. To be loose. Do not leave long kept wounds to fester, do not leave things to settle in an isolated heart. You are an enigma all on your own, but it does not have to be this way if you do not want it to. You are an ocean, layers upon layers of repressed emotions and thoughts, but just as oceans have a surface you do too. Not everything has to be a lifelong secret, a reason to fear. You do not have to fear that people will obtain your most vulnerable information and make a mockery of you. I am not telling you to share everything, just start with something small, something even as simple as what you did at the mall. In time the walls against long kept secrets will fall. You just have to trust yourself to claim them and in the midst of any adversity to stand tall.
STELLIUM IN THE NINTH HOUSE: You want to make a home out of a belief system. And thatās fine, as I think that we all will in time, but it doesnāt mean that this is even the right time. It is ok if you have tried to believe in so many things but your faith has fell through with each one. It is ok if your morals are seemingly eternally fluid. It is ok if you do not find any belief systems sublime. You will grow and your experience will grow, you will come to a decision all on your own. Do not feel as if you have to stay confined to something that you despise. Do not feel as if you havenāt had enough places to call a home. You have to remember that you are not small. You grow. You expand. And sometimes one belief system cannot express all that you encompass.
STELLIUM IN THE TENTH HOUSE: Your career should not hold you down, cause you to frown, or cause you to drown. You may be indecisive about your career and who you aspire to be in life but it is for a good reason. It is better to be steady and sure about major decisions than to rush into them and be miserable for the rest of your life. It is better to choose the right thing late than the wrong thing early. Just know that itās okay to take your time. You donāt have to know who you want to become, not knowing is not a sure way to lose. Grow spiritually and physically, discover yourself externally and internally, do not let others rush along a very personal process. Successful first does not mean satisfied first.
STELLIUM IN THE ELEVENTH HOUSE: Where in society do you belong? How can you fit in spaces that are not your shape? How can you be expected to change? It is not unnatural to feel as if you do not fit in, but for you this may be especially prevelant. Society may feel all wrong, it may feel like all of your friends are gone, and that you are utterly alone. Society is everyone, whether people like it or not, and society cannot be society without you. You do not just take up space, you are living, breathing, valid person and I truly hope that you know that. A person that does not see themselves in others is not always lost. You are more in sync with others than you think. You are more of a part of society than you think. You are not an outcast, you are not always halfway gone. You are as present and as radiant as anyone is, do not let others create a struggle for you that only exists in our heads.
STELLIUM IN THE TWELFTH HOUSE: You do not have to give all of yourself to others. Your selfless acts are greatly appreciated but do not let them wash away your soul, you have to give time for your self and own care, not just the care of others. And some of the things that are in your head are just that, they are in your head. I would call you an ocean but there are no waters deep enough to describe you. And you can get lost in your layers, in everything that you will be and everything that you have been. You cannot drown in water that does not exist, and sometimes you need to break the surface of an internal ocean to breathe and to live. You do not owe everything you are to others. It is ok to keep pieces of yourself to yourself, but do not let them build up overtime. It is important for you to be able to distinguish between what is reasonable and what is not, what is real and what is not.