vewn_enjoyer

345lbs as of 1-30-2026 Fat admirer Gainer Feedee general debauchery & antifascism

[vewn-underscore-enjoyer]

This is me. I’m queer, fat and impossible to shame.

I hate bigots. All kinds.

I love fat people. All kinds.

I’m a gainer and feedee, with extreme tastes. I also don’t require someone to be fat to like them.. im fatsexual but anybody of any type can surprise me if they have something going on that’s greater than the sum of their parts. Sometimes you just get struck by somebody regardless of your usual type.

I’m mostly attracted to women but I’ve been having fun dates with guys lately too. I lived my life mostly straight but never had any loyalty or care for the label. Never felt threatened by gayness. Also just not really gay in the traditional sense. I just like people. Any person can win me over if they have something I like going on.

I have a soft gaining goal of 450-600 range. Watch me expand. 💚

[bigbellyjudy]

Doing another 30 day challenge it’s up on my page now

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[vewn-underscore-enjoyer]

[sunbeamsoftness]

[wutheringheightsfilm]

before i go to bed because im ill again i just briefly want to say that white people's adoration and frankly over the top love of (certain) animals taking precedence over their care about people of color is disturbing and needs to be dealt with. saw an insta reel today of a girl who adopted a cat whose owners were abducted by ICE and the comments were just filled with "omg the poor cat!" "i feel so bad for the cat!" "omg it probably thinks it was abandoned!!!" "omg the cat!!" okay and what about the owners. what about the people who owned that cat and loved it and will probably never see it again. the owners that like no one knows the names of? the owners? like the people that owned the cat that got kidnapped so suddenly their cat was just left? what about the people. the owners. like remember them? people who are living their worst nightmare?

or the way yt people will prioritize animals in gaza over the humans that live there. or the way yt people will prioritize animals over like real human laborers farming in unsafe and deadly conditions for their agave or whatever vegan trend of the month. or the way yt ppl will tout ecofascist talking points in favor of animals and against human beings. or the way yt people try and push universal veganism instead of food sovereignty and dismiss the culinary traditions of indigenous groups. and and and

[bisforbutch]

Show op, a Latin woman some love, people are being horrifically racist in the the notes

[vewn-underscore-enjoyer]

Sorry, this is a shit take.

Animals are always at our mercy and have no idea what the fuck is going to happen to them day to day. Will I get to live in an apartment my whole lifespan or will I get tortured to death by some asshole who gets bored? At least a person can see what’s coming on occasion.

Humans start at a deficit with me, and not because of immutable characteristics. Track record is why. Of the entire race. I’m not racist so I don’t attribute things automatically based on race. It’s kind of the point of being anti racist. Which leads me to the next part;

Seeing a lot of “yt ppl” this and that and gotta remind you youre being racial essentialists. Gross ass bigots. Do better. I’m sure this big callout has some relevance to some racist asshole somewhere, but believe it or not most people just aren’t centering your specific concerns the way you want them to but it still isn’t proof of your bigoted suspicions. That kind of auto assumption based on race is racism. Bioessentialism.

And you wonder why animals automatically get sympathy before people? People have to earn it now, if you’re a stranger. So many bioessentialists slithering around progressive/leftist/antiracist circles but propagating racial hatred and bigoted opinions and generalizing/stereotyping races like nothing has ever been learned.

If half of your sentences start with “yt ppl” you sound like any other MAGA dip shit just replacing what race is being talked about. Literally using MAGA logic.

Y’all might as well buy that MAGA hat if you are gonna be that ignorant and stereotyping and projecting shit onto strangers based on race. Fucking gross.

I’ll say it again: that poor cat. (Unspoken part: nothing ice does is justified and every single person snatched deserves extreme justice. Literal treason trials should be held for every ICE member who kidnapped anyone.)

The fact you didn’t grant the unspoken part to the majority of people - all horrified by what ICE is doing - is a huge indicator of your projection and bias.

Unfollow/block if you disagree i dont fucking care. I call out all racial essentialism in any direction. If you pretend to be progressive but act like a bigot you get no special treatment.

[wutheringheightsfilm]

the white guy is going to call me a latina a MAGA bioessentialist. i'm actually shocked because i've literally never seen this kind of thinking before everyone look at this . can i study you in a petri dish

[vewn-underscore-enjoyer]

“This white guy”

Yeah, that’s what I thought. Bioessentialism is fucking gross no matter who does it. You don’t get a pass because of your skin color. It has zero bearing on anything I’ve said. Literally just think your behavior, stereotyping and total lack of nuance and critical thought need to be called out.

Fake progressive. Fuck off.

[wutheringheightsfilm]

[vewn-underscore-enjoyer]

That makes you not a stereotyping bigot how, exactly? Lmfao

[vewn-underscore-enjoyer]

I swear scammers are so brain dead and unconvincing.. pathetic attempt.

[vewn-underscore-enjoyer]

Note to self: don’t put “feeder wanted” in any tags ever again. Instant spam from obvious scammers

[vewn-underscore-enjoyer]

Shower time update. Life is moving fast. Have to move to a new area and get a job there. Oaklandish maybe.

I’ll be posting less and unable to eat as much as I usually do, but as you can see Im still maintaining my 350 and looking wide as heck sitting down :)

Wish me luck finding an apartment that doesn’t drive me crazy one way or another 😅💪💚

[vewn-underscore-enjoyer]

blood-sweat-and-oil is a bigot, that is all. Attacked me on himbochubs post, someone i respect very much - trying to lie and smear me.

When I’m not fat posting, I’m calling out bigots. I saw a really sexist, bigoted post and I insulted the person who posted it. I guess they happened to be trans - something I didn’t know about and wouldn’t have affected whether or not I called them out.

So they dishonestly go to ANOTHER POST (himbochubs) and lie blatantly trying to spin it like the reason I criticized them was because they were trans. Are you fucking kidding me? What a pathetic attempt to smear.

If you don’t understand that my entire fucking existence is rooted in vehement hatred for ANY ESSENTIALISM, don’t speak about me or my motivations. It’s literally the throughline in my entire fucking life.

It really pisses me off when someone disingenuously pretends my motivations are the exact fucking opposite of what they actually are.

Blood-sweat-and-oil were being sexist. Something I don’t abide. I’ll call out sexism or racism in any direction just as hard. If we don’t have standards, we have nothing.

If you make excuses for any kind of bioessentialist rhetoric or ideas, unfriend me now and save me a block.

[starlightnecromancer]

Sometimes I think about how there's a lot of gender expression in the queer community that is just completely and entirely cut off for fat queers.

Like if you're a fat gay man you're a bear and that's the only gender expression you're "allowed". I've never, ever, seen someone refer to an effeminate fat gay man as a femboy. It doesn't matter if he's dressing the exact same way as the twink (who's gender expression is explicitly about thinness), the twink is a femboy twink and the bear is just a girly bear.

I see it over in sapphic spaces too. Butch is a word that yes is open to women of all sizes but Femme really.... isn't? Femme presumes that you're thin. Sure you can be a fat femme, but your fatness will detract from how femme you are and if you do anything less than High Femme Princess Peach ass shit then you'll be shoved into the Butch Zone despite anyone with eyes knowing that you're not butch you're just a fat femme who didn't have the energy to do her full Instagram Cottage Core outfit today

Its been a known both in and out of the trans community that fatness may as well be its own gender experiance. If you're a cis woman, but you're also fat, your gender is now fat. Oh people will still she/her you, but you're gonna be unpersoned because you're not attractive enough to be a woman. If you're a cis man it'll be the same deal, just repeatedly dehumanized because fatness isn't attractive to mainstream society and if people's boners don't activate then you aren't a real man/woman.

In the nonbinary community its extremely painful because the only view of androgyny is "Skinny twink who could pass for either". If you're fat and also some flavor of nonbinary you get to settle for "Mistaken for a trans man/woman" if you're visibly queer.

[maswartz]

[liquidfem]

[boostergold78]

I didn’t know Mr. T pityed fool’s that weren’t woke, but that’s awesome. #respect

[lordxeras]

“I think about my father being called ‘boy’, my uncle being called ‘boy’, my brother, coming back from Vietnam and being called ‘boy’. So I questioned myself: “What does a black man have to do before he’s given the respect as a man?” So when I was 18 years old, when I was old enough to fight and die for my country, old enough to drink, old enough to vote, I said I was old enough to be called a man. I self-ordained myself Mr. T so the first word out of everybody’s mouth is “Mr.” That’s a sign of respect that my father didn’t get, that my brother didn’t get, that my mother didn’t get.“

-Mr. T on the subject of his name

[voidbat]

is it any wonder the media derided him for these things? a black man having the unmitigated gall to control his own narrative? defang that shit with mockery.

[xxxhoekage]

Following me for five years and sends the dumbest fucking message I’ve ever received. Matter of fact, don’t change, leave us alone lmaoo

[vewn-underscore-enjoyer]

Whyyyy are men? Asking as a man. 😭😭😭

JUST TELL HER SHE’S PRETTY PLEASE DON’T MENTION SKIN COLOR WHAT THE FUCK

Just give her tacos and call her pretty it’s on a thousand, thousand t-shirts and it’s usually great advice.

[pocket-deer-belly]

the kurzgesagt ozempic video is quite frankly blatantly pro-eugenics. a total eradication of fat people is taken for granted as a positive for the world within 30 seconds.

[pocket-deer-belly]

I want to kill this man

[pocket-deer-belly]

They know. They know that diets don't work, they know that almost all attempts at weight loss are temporary, that humans are naturally inclined to eat and that restricting yourself from eating doesn't work in the long term. The problem, then, must be human biology. Ozempic is the eugenics tool that will make a better (skinnier) human. Kurzgesagt is a eugenics channel.

[pocket-deer-belly]

The video treats you with plenty of good information on how impossible it is for people to lose significant amounts of weight, how difficult it is for people to restrict their intake, etc. Crash diets are terrible for your health, even slow, long term attempts at weight loss don't lose more than 10% of a person's original body weight. simply put,

human biology must simply be wrong then, and we can fix it with ozempic!

[pocket-deer-belly]

They even admit in the video that even ozempic isn't a fucking cure-all! it's not effective long term! it's like a crash diet! what the fuck are you doing then????

[angeloftheodd]

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[sitronsangbody]

There's this thing where people seem to think that fat people and/or the fat liberation movement is demanding a whole lot from them. I'm interested in that, cause I don't really see it.

Maybe this is a hot take, but I can honestly say the most I expect from the average stranger is just to be left alone.

I see people obsessively dividing hypothetical fat people into categories to highlight what makes an acceptable fatty and what doesn't. "Oh if you're fat because you're sick it's okay". "So long as they're at least trying to lose weight". "As long as they're healthy I don't mind what they look like". What's this for? Who's asking for your seal of approval? Who's asking you to be judge and jury of acceptable conditions for fatness, and how are you performing that role exactly? Is it all to make sure people know you are a pretty nice person who doesn't mind all fat people, just the "bad" ones? You're never gonna know the full picture of why anyone is fat, and it shouldn't make a difference as to how you treat them anyway. Your condemnation is useless noise. Your approval is equally useless but slightly less unpleasant noise. You don't need to be doing this. You can just not worry about why people look how they look. You can just not worry about the possibility of others making personal choices you wouldn't make.

I also see people scrambling to justify why they're not attracted to fat people. "It's actually natural to be attracted to people who look fit and healthy". "I just happen to have only dated thin people, it's totally random". "Just because I'm not into fat people doesn't mean I hate them??" "I mean it's just not beautiful okay??" Like... calm down, no one cares? I can just not be your type and you don't have to defend it. Just accept the fact that you might have some superficial hangups (most of us do) and stop making it everyone's business. You're not obligated to be attracted to anyone, you don't really need a morally defensible reason for why you aren't, and no one's better off hearing you try to produce one.

And I see people making a point of how they're not fatphobic, it's just that they personally prefer being at a lower weight and that's just how they like it y'know. Which sounds pretty mellow but basically reads as "all I'm saying is I'm glad I'm not fat", which is why it rubs people the wrong way. You don't need to volunteer this information. You can just be you and live how you like without specifying your stance on fatness (and without implying that size is always fully a choice). No one is judging you for meeting the beauty standard.

What I don't see is fat people asking for any of it. People are very keen to present their every quasi-problematic thought through the framework of "here's some shit you might think could mess up my allyship a bit..... but I promise it totally doesn't!!" The truth is you can just keep that stuff to yourself. Your privilege doesn't need my blessing and you don't need to keep justifying every aspect of it out loud.

[feedistvin]

are you able to zip up that leather jacket you recently posted in?